how to tell DH

So I recently took a pg test and it was positive. Here is the thing...I had a chemical in nov and one last month. SO I told him twice already...but they both miscarried. Now I have told noone about this BFP (not even him) in fear that this will be another miscarriage. But his BDAY is tues and I figure I can tell him then in a cute way...any ideas? We also have a 20 month DD. TIA

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I think it's cute to put DD in a shirt that says I'm gonna be a big sister... or big sister in training... that always gets me. :)

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Sorry to hear of your losses. I also had two chemicals this year. When I got the third BFP, honestly, all I said to DH was "the test is coming up positive again". That was my sticky BFP. Not the greatest way to tell, but that was all I had in me at that point. Hope all goes well for you!

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Congrats!!! I'm so sorry to hear of your losses. A cute idea might be to wrap something up for dh that is small so he knows it's not for your dd. I believe he is a Giants' fan, right? Maybe get a Giants onsie and put it in a box with a positive pregnancy test? I wish you a happy and healthy 9 months!!

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I have a history of chemicals too. I don't tell dh until I am about 5 weeks. My other losses have been around 4 and if I hit 5 I am usually good. He has been upset I didn't tell him about the others right away but I didn't want him to get all excited just to lose another.