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LIRascal
drama. daily.
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Michelle
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DH is sad... they need a board too.
I was discussing our plans for this week (we're both teachers) and I gently reminded DH that we're supposed to go visit our godson and his brother (My BFF's kids, 2 hrs.away) this week. He started to come up with some dumb excuses about why we can't go etc. etc.... When I asked him wth is wrong w/him, he just said "I am not interested in seeing other people's kids. I want my own!"  Poor thing, he's hurting, too.  I just gave him a big hug and told him I understand. *sigh* I wish that he had an outlet to talk like we do... a MB like this. 
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Posted 12/27/11 10:49 PM  |
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Re: DH is sad... they need a board too.
I think you are so on track with this. I think our next GTG should include men too!
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| Posted 12/27/11 11:31 PM |
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Re: DH is sad... they need a board too.
My DH expressed that he was upset by the whole thing the other day too. Which made me feel super guilty. But I doubt he would post or go to a gtg. We have mentioned bringing DHs before and after a jokes like them asking each other "hey, so what's your sperm count" we said they just don't bond over this stuff like we do.
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| Posted 12/27/11 11:49 PM |
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Re: DH is sad... they need a board too.
This is very true!
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| Posted 12/27/11 11:59 PM |
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LIRascal
drama. daily.
Member since 3/11 7287 total posts
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Michelle
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Re: DH is sad... they need a board too.
Yeah they just don't want to discuss it, but I am sure they need to. We were bickering and arguing today over the fact that there's nothing wrong w/either of us, I guess it must be me because of his "rockstar" SA and superduper high counts every time...  BARF. Why are we even fighting?
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| Posted 12/28/11 12:13 AM |
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Re: DH is sad... they need a board too.
Lol every guy is like that! It's a manhood thing.
We have been doing this for some time and I cry and complain all the time but DH only recently showed concern. So he obviously never talked to me about it but I'm the one he should be.
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| Posted 12/28/11 12:45 AM |
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TyReseGreen
Lil Prince is here
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Theresa
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Re: DH is sad... they need a board too.
I totally agree they need their own board! I know its difficult what you 2 are going through! How do we get the site to start one??
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| Posted 12/28/11 8:22 AM |
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MRsFaTThead
NY GIRL IN TEXAS
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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!
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| Posted 12/28/11 1:05 PM |
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AngnShaun
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Ang
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Re: DH is sad... they need a board too.
Shaun doesnt show any sort of emotions or feelings about it... im assuming they affect him because it affects me...
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| Posted 12/28/11 1:11 PM |
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Anne44
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Re: DH is sad... they need a board too.
My DH took up running and trained throughout our 3 year struggle. He now runs marathons. Still does not speak about everything, but when he needed an outlet he would go for a run.....which i knew was his way of clearing his head. I went to therapy and he ran to clear his head. Totally agree the men could use a forum!
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| Posted 12/28/11 3:59 PM |
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