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CindySN23
Stop, Think & Breathe...
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Does anyone else feel like their best is not enough?
I just wanted to vent!!! I had my IUI yesterday so DH & I tried to BD last night but it was too sensitive for DH...I was getting really frustrated and just told him to do what he needed to do and call me when he was ready...well I guess he was too ready and I didnt get to him in time...we ended up arguing and I was feeling so sad that he basically "wasted" it and if he was going to do that he shouldnt have done anything at all....I hate it when I make him feel bad but I couldnt help but say what I was feeling...we eventually agreed to just forget it happened and move on...I know we are trying our best but does anyone else feel like their best is just not enough...I am just going thru a tough time and its not getting any easier.
Vent over 
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Posted 12/6/11 8:44 AM  |
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RGEC47
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Re: Does anyone else feel like their best is not enough?
I think it's natural to feel that way, I can't even count how many times we have been down that road. But with time, you realize that it is NOT your fault, you did NOT do anything to deserve this and that tomorrow is another day and hopefully a better one.
Also, if you had your IUI yesterday, DH count would be low, and BD last night your chances would be increased slightly. Try again tonight 
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| Posted 12/6/11 8:52 AM |
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JDubs
different, not less
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Re: Does anyone else feel like their best is not enough?
yes the whole TTC process is very straining and DH and I get into arguments at times over it, it stinks.. i definitely feel you!
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| Posted 12/6/11 8:57 AM |
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CindySN23
Stop, Think & Breathe...
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Cindy
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Re: Does anyone else feel like their best is not enough?
Posted by RGEC47
I think it's natural to feel that way, I can't even count how many times we have been down that road. But with time, you realize that it is NOT your fault, you did NOT do anything to deserve this and that tomorrow is another day and hopefully a better one.
Also, if you had your IUI yesterday, DH count would be low, and BD last night your chances would be increased slightly. Try again tonight
I dont know if we could BD tonight...last night was tough enough...I think we may just let it go and hope for the best...
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| Posted 12/6/11 9:17 AM |
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MRsFaTThead
NY GIRL IN TEXAS
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WHO GIVES A POO WHO GIVES A FUDGE !!
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Re: Does anyone else feel like their best is not enough?
Everyone is different. I have no problem making mr fh feel bad about anything related to ttc.
Sorry you had a rough night
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| Posted 12/6/11 10:38 AM |
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gina409
TWINS!
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Re: Does anyone else feel like their best is not enough?
 for the iui!
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| Posted 12/6/11 2:10 PM |
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