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Updated::::::::with another Another if you were me question...
If you were me WWYD....
1st Fresh: BFN
2nd Fresh: lab error convert to FET
1st FET: BFN 1 embie frozen left
CD 1 is today....go with putting 1 back? WWYD?
With my insurance we can get 3 fresh and 3 frozen, but I am thinking I could use my DH's insurance.
I am just not sure if we could use mine first and then go on to his... or do they have to combine both!  anyone know?
Message edited 11/27/2011 2:02:34 PM.
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Posted 11/26/11 10:17 PM  |
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PennyCat
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Re: Another if you were me question...
hmm   I'm sorry, this sounds so frustrating.
If it were me though, since it seems like you have the same insurance plan I do so I know you have the coverage, I would do another fresh.
Personally, I wouldn't feel comfortable going into a frozen with 1 embie. I feel like there's too much riding on it thawing properly, etc.. It would make me way too nervous.
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| Posted 11/26/11 10:50 PM |
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Champ
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Re: Another if you were me question...
I was in that situation in feb and went fresh and now have twins
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| Posted 11/27/11 2:26 AM |
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Re: Another if you were me question...
I'd probably prefer to do a fresh. 1 frozen one COULD work, but I'd just feel so much better getting more follies from a fresh.
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| Posted 11/27/11 7:31 AM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: Another if you were me question...
Posted by PennyCat
hmm I'm sorry, this sounds so frustrating.
If it were me though, since it seems like you have the same insurance plan I do so I know you have the coverage, I would do another fresh.
Personally, I wouldn't feel comfortable going into a frozen with 1 embie. I feel like there's too much riding on it thawing properly, etc.. It would make me way too nervous.
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| Posted 11/27/11 9:47 AM |
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Re: Another if you were me question...
Thank you ladies! I knew you all would be able to put it in perspective. We did PGD 2 times...so you add that in and its very $$$$$. I want to think that my one embie will survive, but who knows!
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| Posted 11/27/11 11:10 AM |
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TyReseGreen
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Re: Another if you were me question...
If it was me it will all depend on the insurance coverage that I have left do you have enough to cover a fresh cycle or are you paying out of pocket?? If there is only enough to cover a frozen I would go with it...its a risk since you have to go through the thaw, but its a chance if it was me I would take but you have to do what's best for you. Good Luck!
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| Posted 11/27/11 1:53 PM |
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Re: Another if you were me question...
I would still have another fresh and frozen left if I put back this 1.
I wanted to do it!
The RE says we could try IUI because we orginally did IVF because of genetic issues. I put back two with my fresh and my frozen... maybe it is a sign to put back just 1?
Thoughts?
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| Posted 11/27/11 2:00 PM |
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FlowerWife
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Re: Updated::::::::with another Another if you were me question...
Posted by 2BirdsofaFeather
I would still have another fresh and frozen left if I put back this 1.
I wanted to do it!
The RE says we could try IUI because we orginally did IVF because of genetic issues. I put back two with my fresh and my frozen... maybe it is a sign to put back just 1?
Thoughts?
did you do PGD to rule out the genetic issues? i dont understand how IUI would help if you were trying to avoid genetic issues  .
if you put back 2 and ended up with quads both times id say its a sign (which i dont particularly believe in) to put back 1... IMO putting back 2 twice and both resulting in BFN would in no way be a sign to me to put back only 1 the next time. if anything id want to put back 3!!
also are you on your DHs insurance policy already? i would think you would have to be a dependent to have it cover anything after you exhaust your coverage. otherwise youd need open enrollment or a qualifying event to get on his policy.
good luck with whatever you choose!!
Message edited 11/27/2011 5:45:07 PM.
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