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Doing the deed!
My poor DH has been wanting to do the deed for the past week!! Needless to say, it's been a month since I've gotten my BFP and we haven't done it since, I'm too nervous about it. I'm starting to feel bad bc he has needs! LOL
So...what can I expect? Pain, cramping, bleeding?
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Posted 10/17/11 1:52 PM  |
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nicknmb
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Re: Doing the deed!
Unless there is a medical reason, you should feel fine, if not great!! I have never had any pain, bleeding, etc associated with either of my pregnancies, heck, I think it feels even better pregnant! DH and I have a better sex life when I AM pregnant!
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| Posted 10/17/11 2:20 PM |
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alli3131
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Allison
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Re: Doing the deed!
In the beginning it was easier. I had no pain or bleeding. Now that i am bigger it is just an uncomfortable situation for me...trying to figure out what works it the hard part.
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| Posted 10/17/11 2:26 PM |
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mnmsoinlove
Mommy to 2 sweet girls!
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Melissa
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Re: Doing the deed!
Unless their a medical reason you were told not to  there is no reason you can't enjoy yourself. It shouldn't hurt, cause cramping or bleeding. I think sex is better when pg!
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| Posted 10/17/11 3:26 PM |
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dazies827
expecting boy # 3
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Chris
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Re: Doing the deed!
Posted by GeminiBaby4Us
My poor DH has been wanting to do the deed for the past week!! Needless to say, it's been a month since I've gotten my BFP and we haven't done it since, I'm too nervous about it. I'm starting to feel bad bc he has needs! LOL
So...what can I expect? Pain, cramping, bleeding?
You sound like me. DH is dying but, with the MS I just cant do it. Mine will just have to wait
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| Posted 10/17/11 3:45 PM |
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VeeJay
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Re: Doing the deed!
Sorry for the TMI, but I am very dry down there, so for me it's painful. The few times we tried in the past 6 months have not been very satisfying.
He is very understanding that I am a nervous wreck to do anything (given our history of miscarriages). So I usually just "take care of him" and do not expect anything in return and, right now, that's perfectly fine with me.
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| Posted 10/17/11 3:46 PM |
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MaZz
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Gina
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Re: Doing the deed!
We have not dtd since my bfp, actually not since around ovulation time  dh is a bit weirded out by the situation and would prob go the 9 months. I'd like to dtd but know I will freak out if I see any blood bc I have not even spotted since my bfp. So both of us are to blame. Not sure when it's gonna change!
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| Posted 10/17/11 3:51 PM |
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LoveMyHubby605
Our April Baby is here!
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A
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Re: Doing the deed!
Posted by VeeJay
Sorry for the TMI, but I am very dry down there, so for me it's painful. The few times we tried in the past 6 months have not been very satisfying.
He is very understanding that I am a nervous wreck to do anything (given our history of miscarriages). So I usually just "take care of him" and do not expect anything in return and, right now, that's perfectly fine with me.
I hope DH knows what a lucky guy he is 
I for one have NOT been in the mood. My nausea and vomiting happens at night so definitely not in the mood in the first trimester. When we have I never got any cramping, bleeding etc.
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| Posted 10/17/11 5:02 PM |
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MelToddJulia
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Mel
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Re: Doing the deed!
Posted by nicknmb
Unless there is a medical reason, you should feel fine, if not great!! I have never had any pain, bleeding, etc associated with either of my pregnancies, heck, I think it feels even better pregnant! DH and I have a better sex life when I AM pregnant!
ITA! same here lol
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| Posted 10/17/11 5:28 PM |
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