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ShhhTTCin11
3 under 3?!
Member since 5/11 2229 total posts
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So my friend from HS is over....
Who got married last month. We drink wine ,she confesses her period is a few HOURS late. She takes a wondfo leftover from last IVF And BAM.... BFP. A dark one. I can't stop crying and everyone is sleeping 
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
I'm do sorry u had to witness's that, I know how bad that must have stung!!!
Getting to know everyone on here and sharing our journeys has made me feel like this is the norm. It's like a safe little world where everyone injects themselves to get and stay pregnant, a bruised belly is just to be expected, and we've all had our share of infertility heartache.
When someone comes along and shows how easy this all can be, it's like one hard kink in the gut of reality.
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| Posted 8/19/11 5:33 AM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
Sorry for the weird spelling errors, I'm laying in bed and can't edit from my iPhone 
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| Posted 8/19/11 5:35 AM |
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Promised221
LIF Infant
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
I am so sorry.
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| Posted 8/19/11 6:59 AM |
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MRSadenosine
LIF Adolescent
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Tai
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
I'm so sorry. I actually know how you feel. I cried, screamed, laughed , I just let out all my emotions and the next day I was better. We all have different journeys and hardships to fertility, your friend just had a easier one. Feel better doll!
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| Posted 8/19/11 7:25 AM |
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CatNYC123
Happy Thoughts
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
uuggghhh.. so sorry!!!! I hope you're feeling better today 
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| Posted 8/19/11 7:29 AM |
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
Sorry
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| Posted 8/19/11 7:40 AM |
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
I'm sorry. I know you feel. I see so many people getting pregnant in their honeymoons lately! It's just not fair. 
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| Posted 8/19/11 7:40 AM |
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Irishgrl1017
It happened :)
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Colleen
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
Its like a knife in the gut....Everyones journey is different and we will all get there eventually
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| Posted 8/19/11 7:42 AM |
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| Posted 8/19/11 8:11 AM |
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PitterPatter11
Baby Boy is Here!
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
I am so sorry
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| Posted 8/19/11 8:42 AM |
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Leb
LIF Adult
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
That just su cks you had to be part of it.
I know a lot of you girls write on here things like I feel bad because I am upset so and so is pregnant, does it make me a bad person?
Honestly no! I am still mad Hillary Duff is pregnant, every single time I hear this IRL or a celebrity. We are human and we have feeling and sadness and jealously are part of being a person and feeling.
You don't need to ever try to justify it, and it isn't fair, life isn't fair and we are all on a journey that is pretty darn difficult. I honestly hate hearing "it'll all be worth it" but I hope once we have our babies that it will semi erase some of this pain.
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| Posted 8/19/11 8:46 AM |
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So sorry you had to go through that. I chalk those types of situations up to ignornce on the others' behalves.
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| Posted 8/19/11 8:51 AM |
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MrsPorkChop
Twinning!!
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
geez...fertile Myrtle...
im so sorry ..did you act excited? ugh the thought of acting excited makes me nauseous right now
at the same point, the thought of getting pregnant so quicky in my marriage also makes me a little nauseous..
id want to enjoy my husband for a little while and enjoy being married for a LITTLE bit....
as sad as i am that i am dealing with IF, my husband and i have had some very wonderful moments together as a married couple, AMAZING vacations, parties, memorable dinners..and nights on the couch..along with spontaneous things.... i think every married couple should have those moments before considering children (unless of course you were married later in life and time is of the essence)
i hope the sting goes away soon...
try to remember that we will all have our time...it will come....
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| Posted 8/19/11 8:51 AM |
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Posted by MrsPorkChop
geez...fertile Myrtle...
im so sorry ..did you act excited? ugh the thought of acting excited makes me nauseous right now
at the same point, the thought of getting pregnant so quicky in my marriage also makes me a little nauseous..
id want to enjoy my husband for a little while and enjoy being married for a LITTLE bit....
as sad as i am that i am dealing with IF, my husband and i have had some very wonderful moments together as a married couple, AMAZING vacations, parties, memorable dinners..and nights on the couch..along with spontaneous things.... i think every married couple should have those moments before considering children (unless of course you were married later in life and time is of the essence)
i hope the sting goes away soon...
try to remember that we will all have our time...it will come....
Could not agree more with this post! Good friend of mine got married last November....pregnant by Decembe.. very hard to be excited for her, and I do feel like she's missing out on being a newlywed.
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| Posted 8/19/11 8:53 AM |
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PitterPatter11
Baby Boy is Here!
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
Honestly no! I am still mad Hillary Duff is pregnant, every single time I hear this IRL or a celebrity. We are human and we have feeling and sadness and jealously are part of being a person and feeling.
Honestly, I feel the same way. I get upset when celebrities are pregnant and I do not even know them. Heck, even my DH gets upset when celebrities are pregnant.
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| Posted 8/19/11 9:42 AM |
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ShhhTTCin11
3 under 3?!
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Coleen
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
Thanks for the love girls. I did not act excited- I cried She was upset because she didn't want to be pregnant yet. It just seems like a cruel joke lol.
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| Posted 8/19/11 9:43 AM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
oh goodness... thats rough..
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| Posted 8/19/11 10:17 AM |
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RGEC47
Feeling blessed!
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
It feels like such a slap in the face. I can relate. Sorry, I hope you are having a better day.
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| Posted 8/19/11 11:08 AM |
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
we all go through things like that my very close friend got pregnant while on BCP during our IF treatments!
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| Posted 8/19/11 11:23 AM |
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cateyemm
Twins!
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
Posted by PennyCat
I'm do sorry u had to witness's that, I know how bad that must have stung!!!
Getting to know everyone on here and sharing our journeys has made me feel like this is the norm. It's like a safe little world where everyone injects themselves to get and stay pregnant, a bruised belly is just to be expected, and we've all had our share of infertility heartache.
When someone comes along and shows how easy this all can be, it's like one hard kink in the gut of reality.
ita!!!!
im so sorry
the good news is that your kids will be very close in age!! 
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| Posted 8/19/11 2:12 PM |
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Shelleybean11
Mommy of 2!
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
That must have really hurt I'm so sorry.
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MrsM429
Mama x2 <3
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
I know exactly how you feel
take comfort in knowing that your time WILL come, and you WILL be a mother!!
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| Posted 8/19/11 11:01 PM |
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gina409
TWINS!
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Re: So my friend from HS is over....
i am so sorry! that is so tough
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