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prunepie
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jennifer
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I just found out I have been a jerk for the last year
Okay so at work today and had a skow break. Was talking to the girks that I am starting if ttc again next week since my mc in march. Jokingly they all said. Oh no. Its gonna happen again! I said what??? And seriously they akl said I was sssoooo moody and grouchy this past year on all the if meds. So I know I was more upset but I reallly didn't realize how much more serious and agitated I was and that it showed so much! I don't wanna be a doucHe again! Lol. They said I lost my sense of humor etc. Anyone else deal or dealt with this? No one was mad at me. But I am scared not only of the drugs and emotion of ttc again but how much it apparently literally makes me nuts! Help!
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Posted 6/3/11 2:54 PM  |
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lululu
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Re: I just found out I have been a jerk for the last year
I have never really had that happen but I was not working when i was dealing with IF. I am SURE if I had been it would have been the same. The only suggestion I would make is maybe to be more open about what's going on at the time that it's going on? I feel like if people know exactly what's going on they will cut you some more slack. It might also help if you know you have a shoulder to cry on, or a friend to grab lunch or a drink. you know?
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| Posted 6/3/11 3:08 PM |
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Bearcat
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Re: I just found out I have been a jerk for the last year
crashing... my sister was a completly different (and less pleasant) person when she was going through IVF. She did many, many cycles, and for whatever reason (hormones, stress of it all, both) her personality was different. you are definitely not alone. wishing you best of luck 
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| Posted 6/3/11 4:04 PM |
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Re: I just found out I have been a jerk for the last year
My family tells me that I am an even more bitchhy version of my already bitchhy self since the meds. They really do mess with my moods. It's not all the time, but when I'm on the clomid/femara. Then add the prednisone. My mood changes when I up the dose around O. Add to that the stress of TTC and IF and can you really blame us? 
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| Posted 6/3/11 4:20 PM |
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gina409
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Re: I just found out I have been a jerk for the last year
i can tell u 100 percent i am a diff person then i was prior to ttc..
i do not know if its the meds,the frustration the anger or whatever but i am def a diff person and i hate it
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| Posted 6/3/11 7:21 PM |
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MrsDeVito
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Re: I just found out I have been a jerk for the last year
Posted by gina409
i can tell u 100 percent i am a diff person then i was prior to ttc..
i do not know if its the meds,the frustration the anger or whatever but i am def a diff person and i hate it
This.
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| Posted 6/3/11 7:28 PM |
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Jax430
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Re: I just found out I have been a jerk for the last year
Posted by gina409
i can tell u 100 percent i am a diff person then i was prior to ttc..
i do not know if its the meds,the frustration the anger or whatever but i am def a diff person and i hate it
Yup. Exactly.
I just opted to stay home rather than go to SILs where DH is helping them put together a shed, because I didn't feel like playing with my adorable niece and seeing my SIL's PG belly. What an awful aunt am I?!!!!
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| Posted 6/3/11 8:00 PM |
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InShock
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Re: I just found out I have been a jerk for the last year
Posted by gina409
i can tell u 100 percent i am a diff person then i was prior to ttc..
i do not know if its the meds,the frustration the anger or whatever but i am def a diff person and i hate it
Me too. 
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| Posted 6/3/11 11:44 PM |
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