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MCD0524
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Feeling sorry for myself w/update
So I POAS today even though its 11DPIUI BFN, I know I am not out but I really wish I hadn't tested and I just signed on FB and saw my sisters post about how she is becoming a godmother tomorrow (for one of her friends thats giving birth in the morning). I HATE feeling Jealous and sad and that's all I feel right now. UGH
SO my pity party finally ended when Dr.B called to say my test was negative. On to month 15...
Message edited 4/14/2011 7:28:27 PM.
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Shelleybean11
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
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| Posted 4/12/11 7:53 PM |
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KeepSmiling
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
Im so sorry ....My fingers are crossed for a bfp in the next coming days
I know the feeling of being mad you tested early AND of signing onto facebook with tears in your eyes you dont even want---Keep your chin up. your bfp is coming!!
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| Posted 4/12/11 7:56 PM |
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AllyCat
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
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| Posted 4/12/11 8:00 PM |
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MCD0524
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
Thanks, sometimes I feel like I should really stop signing on facebook. I never thought other peoples posts would upset me but It does. Especially my sisters, I really thought she would be a godmother to my baby before her friends (shes a lot younger) .Pity party over
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| Posted 4/12/11 8:04 PM |
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Jax430
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
I know that feeling all too well. None of us want to feel jealous, but it is inevitable in our situations. I really, really, really hope you get your BFP!
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PennyCat
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
Posted by Jax430
I know that feeling all too well. None of us want to feel jealous, but it is inevitable in our situations. I really, really, really hope you get your BFP!
I agree, I can't begin to tell you how many times I've felt bad about similar situations all in the past year. In DH's family, we will be the last of the cousins (in our age group anyway) to have a baby. One of his cousins just got married in August and is already 6 months along. Even though I'm pregnant now, I can't help feeling like that still irks me.
Believe me, your time WILL come!!!!!!!!!!
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| Posted 4/12/11 8:23 PM |
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MCD0524
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
I don't know what I would do without you girls..Thank you
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Brit
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
Your not out yet, I tested too early and cried for a week meanwhile I was pregnant. Hang in there lets pray for a BFP 
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| Posted 4/12/11 9:47 PM |
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PennyCat
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Posted by Brit
Your not out yet, I tested too early and cried for a week meanwhile I was pregnant. Hang in there lets pray for a BFP
The cycle I had a chemical, I didn't get a positive till 12dpo! Granted it was a chemical ... but I'm not sure that had much to do with the later bfp!
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| Posted 4/12/11 10:01 PM |
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JavaJunkie
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jellybean78
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
Posted by MCD0524
Thanks, sometimes I feel like I should really stop signing on facebook. I never thought other peoples posts would upset me but It does. Especially my sisters, I really thought she would be a godmother to my baby before her friends (shes a lot younger) .Pity party over
I'm so sorry. IF sucks. 
I deactivated my FB for that reason. I love all my friends and family on FB but the baby pics, belly pics and status updates sometimes can get to me so I decided to avoid them altogether.
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| Posted 4/12/11 10:23 PM |
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quierounotro
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
I'm just a few days behind you.
We can get through this together!
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| Posted 4/13/11 6:36 AM |
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Leb
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
Awww try not to be too sad, it is still early!
I agree with you on fb, I basically hate it now.
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| Posted 4/13/11 9:07 AM |
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july0105
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
So sorry you are feeling this way right now. I've felt that way before and felt that no on in the world understood.... except here! Vent away! I hope things work out for you. Take care of yourself.... even if that means feeling sorry for yourself right now.
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| Posted 4/13/11 9:24 AM |
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kelkel09
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
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| Posted 4/13/11 9:27 AM |
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Daisy32
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
I understand completely! Right now, my BFF from high school, three BFFs from college and five closest post-college friends are ALL preggo (well two just had their babies in last 2 weeks)! And, my DD's three best friends at pre-schools' Moms are preggo, my cousin and sister in law! Of all 14 of them, only two started trying before me. 
Of course I'm so happy for all of my friends and family members, but like you, I can't help feeling sorry for myselft at times. Leaving the hospital last week after meeting one of those friend's newborns, I stopped at the nursery window and started to cry when I saw all of the babies. 
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| Posted 4/13/11 11:26 AM |
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maternity1
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Re: Feeling sorry for myself
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