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bigfathuh
LIF Zygote
Member since 3/11 10 total posts
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Beta #2
Beta number two came back as 3. So it's over.
I am just trying to come to terms with what the heck I did to deserve this. It's so hard to understand. I feel like I can do everything "right" and still nothing will work out. It's even worse to have a taste of happiness only to have it so quickly taken away.
And why does nobody know what to say when this happens? My own mother said "So besides that, how was your day?" Really, Mom? You mean besides losing a baby, my life's dream, feeling the world crashing down on me, how was my day? Just PEACHY 
Oh and sorry to Dr. B lovers but he gave me the news about my beta via text message. That's a harsh welcome into the 21st century!
Thanks to everyone who responded to my thread. I'm a regular poster who was hiding and is now hiding even further, so I appreciate all the responses even if you don't "know" me.
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Posted 3/22/11 8:27 PM  |
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MCD0524
LIF Adult
Member since 4/10 1199 total posts
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Re: Beta #2
 I am really sorry. I didn't like anyone's response after my mc's so I can totally understand.
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| Posted 3/22/11 8:35 PM |
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Re: Beta #2
I'm sorry for your loss! 
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| Posted 3/22/11 8:47 PM |
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prunepie
LIF Adult
Member since 7/06 4357 total posts
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jennifer
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Re: Beta #2
i am so sorry. i too have had a chemical preg loss. its so up and down and emotional!!!! i hope you feel better soon xoxoxoxo
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| Posted 3/22/11 8:59 PM |
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JavaJunkie
Someday, Somehow
Member since 6/05 5857 total posts
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Lois
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Re: Beta #2
I'm really sorry 
And I'm sorry that dr b texted you, that's not right!
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| Posted 3/22/11 9:01 PM |
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Daisy21
My Little Loves
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Re: Beta #2
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| Posted 3/22/11 9:10 PM |
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FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...
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Re: Beta #2
im so sorry. ive had 2 chemicals so i know how you feel. im also sorry about dr. B. this pregnancy he emailed me my betas (because we were already emailing anyway) but prior cycles when it was bad news he always called.
have you had the immune/thrombo panel done??
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| Posted 3/22/11 9:17 PM |
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Re: Beta #2
I'm sorry!
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| Posted 3/22/11 11:05 PM |
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Dolphinsbaby
My 3 little guys!
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Re: Beta #2
Oh hon. I am so sorry. It is really just not fair. And no one deserves to be told that over a text. Sending you tons of .
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| Posted 3/22/11 11:42 PM |
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AllyCat
Twin Mommy!
Member since 8/09 1346 total posts
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Allyson
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Re: Beta #2
I'm sorry!
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| Posted 3/23/11 7:53 AM |
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RGEC47
Feeling blessed!
Member since 11/09 3039 total posts
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Rosa
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Re: Beta #2
I am so sorry! It definitely s*cks the way you found out.
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| Posted 3/23/11 8:18 AM |
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LoLaBlue
PARTY OF 5
Member since 6/10 6900 total posts
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Re: Beta #2
I am so sorry- that wasnt the right way for Dr. B to give you the results 
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| Posted 3/23/11 8:21 AM |
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BlueDiamonds
mommy to 3 boys
Member since 2/07 3885 total posts
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Re: Beta #2
i'm so sorry
i really don't think anyone understands this whole process and how hard it is unless they have been there.
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| Posted 3/23/11 9:25 AM |
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keepingsecrets
ridiculously blessed!!
Member since 7/09 1912 total posts
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Re: Beta #2
i'm so sorry
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| Posted 3/23/11 9:41 AM |
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Champ
2 little ladies
Member since 1/11 2918 total posts
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Rose
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Re: Beta #2
I am so sorry, and there is no way of having a good conversation about it. No one understands it unless they have experienced it. None of us deserve what we have been dealt. Cry, kick, and scream, and when you are ready you will jump back on the roller coaster and find that hope we all find at the beginning of each cycle.
Good Luck
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| Posted 3/23/11 10:57 AM |
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curiousO
he is here.. thank you God
Member since 10/07 2344 total posts
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Me
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Re: Beta #2
i am sorry for your loss
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| Posted 3/23/11 11:07 AM |
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Pomegranate5
LIF Adult
Member since 2/11 4798 total posts
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Re: Beta #2
I'm so sorry about the bad news
And I'm so sorry about your mom's reaction. It seems like no one ever knows what to say, but that response seems especially thoughtless.
I truly hope you get your happy ending soon. 
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| Posted 3/23/11 11:21 AM |
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Anne44
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Beta #2
I am so sorry. I had 2 chemicals after FET's and I know how hard it can be.
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| Posted 3/23/11 11:39 AM |
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MrsG72907
Mommy of 2 girls!
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Re: Beta #2
im sooooo sorry for your loss. I felt the same way when i had my chemical, so lost and confused.....you are not alone. 
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| Posted 3/23/11 6:06 PM |
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