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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A

Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
Name: Susan
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Thank you all
For your prayers and good wishes and your sympathy and understanding. I'm so grateful for you all.
After a sleepless night I'm still feeling stung by the news. DH doesn't know how to console me. I feel like I let him down. He doesn't feel that way.
We have decisions to make and thoughts and feelings to get through.
I wish you all the best with your upcoming and pending cycles. I hope you all get your BFP soon. For those who have had success, I wish you the best with your DCs.
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Posted 2/23/11 8:58 AM |
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kelkel09
Love my twins!!!
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Name: K
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Posted 2/23/11 9:18 AM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)

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Name: Jib
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Re: Thank you all
You are my hero for all the strength you have shown throughout all this.
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Posted 2/23/11 9:20 AM |
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angel333
Sigh.....

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Name: AKS
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Posted 2/23/11 9:41 AM |
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AngnShaun
Sisters

Member since 1/10 21015 total posts
Name: Ang
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Re: Thank you all
my moms tenant was unsuccessful in their last IVF... they made the decision to stop treatments for a while and wait a few months to just feel normal again and they'd talk about it in a few months... its not easy but shes been doing fertility treatments on and off for 10 years...
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Posted 2/23/11 9:42 AM |
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SJSM
LIF Adolescent
Member since 1/09 764 total posts
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Re: Thank you all
I am so so sorry that this did not work out for you. I wish it did.
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Posted 2/23/11 9:48 AM |
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Daisy21
My Little Loves

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Re: Thank you all
Good luck with whatever decision you make
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Posted 2/23/11 9:54 AM |
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RGEC47
Feeling blessed!

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Name: Rosa
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Posted 2/23/11 10:53 AM |
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beanie571
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Posted 2/23/11 11:08 AM |
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Susan, you are in my thoughts. Whatever you decide, you have our support!
I most likely will be back at Cornell in April so perhaps we can be cycle buddies if you do decide to give it another try.
Remember this will be my 6th IVF cycle and until I am completly broke and have No more eggs, I will not give up!
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Posted 2/23/11 12:04 PM |
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PhillyGirl
LIF Adolescent

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Re: Thank you all
I am still for you. This is a rough journey. Please know that you are in our thoughts.
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Posted 2/23/11 12:11 PM |
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A

Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
Name: Susan
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Re: Thank you all
Posted by Inhidingfornow
Susan, you are in my thoughts. Whatever you decide, you have our support!
I most likely will be back at Cornell in April so perhaps we can be cycle buddies if you do decide to give it another try.
Remember this will be my 6th IVF cycle and until I am completly broke and have No more eggs, I will not give up!
Just had a convo with Dr. Davis. I may try an injectible IUI cycle since the stats are about the same for my age group with that and IVF.
I'm not sure I can go through another IVF with this result. As sad as any bfn is I think that if you don't have to go through the actual procedures it doesn't seem as daunting. Still haven't spoke to DH about it though so he may just decide he's done. I have to honor his wishes as well.
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Posted 2/23/11 12:25 PM |
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LoLaBlue
PARTY OF 5

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Posted 2/23/11 1:30 PM |
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JennyPenny
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Member since 1/08 12702 total posts
Name: Jen
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Posted 2/23/11 1:34 PM |
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KMCGK
Gotta have faith

Member since 7/09 2176 total posts
Name: Keep the Faith
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I couldn't get myself to read your updates on the other thread. I was hoping that this "thank you" was different. There are no words.
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Posted 2/23/11 3:46 PM |
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curiousO
he is here.. thank you God

Member since 10/07 2344 total posts
Name: Me
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Re: Thank you all
may God help you with any decision that you make
Message edited 2/23/2011 3:49:26 PM.
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Posted 2/23/11 3:49 PM |
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classc1
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Thank you all
Posted by Blu-ize
Posted by Inhidingfornow
Susan, you are in my thoughts. Whatever you decide, you have our support!
I most likely will be back at Cornell in April so perhaps we can be cycle buddies if you do decide to give it another try.
Remember this will be my 6th IVF cycle and until I am completly broke and have No more eggs, I will not give up!
Just had a convo with Dr. Davis. I may try an injectible IUI cycle since the stats are about the same for my age group with that and IVF.
I'm not sure I can go through another IVF with this result. As sad as any bfn is I think that if you don't have to go through the actual procedures it doesn't seem as daunting. Still haven't spoke to DH about it though so he may just decide he's done. I have to honor his wishes as well.
This may be a very good idea. A lot of ladies on another board I belong to really believe that in our age group, the success rates for IVF are not that much better than IUI. They also did some informal track-keeping and it seems like more ladies over-40 seemed to get pregnant with IUI and naturally than with IVF. Go figure? I think it's worth a shot if this is the path you and your husband decide to choose. Whatever the case, I wish you all the best.
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Posted 2/23/11 5:29 PM |
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Jax430
Hi!
Member since 5/05 18919 total posts
Name: Jackie
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Re: Thank you all
Best of luck to you with whatever the future holds.
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Posted 2/23/11 7:26 PM |
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prunepie
LIF Adult

Member since 7/06 4357 total posts
Name: jennifer
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Re: Thank you all
I hope u and your husband can agree and be ok with either decision. Big hugs xoxooxoxo
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Posted 2/23/11 8:47 PM |
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I am so sorry this didn't work out, Susan. All my best for you and DH as you figure out the next step in your journey.
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Posted 2/23/11 9:16 PM |
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