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Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

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teaforthree
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Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

I'm 12 weeks and was overweight before the BFP. I've technically been showing for 34 years!!! Chat Icon


MYOB you skinny b!@tch!

I am scared I won't have that cute little pregnant belly look... :(

Message edited 2/10/2011 1:41:44 PM.

Posted 2/10/11 1:37 PM
 
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babyonboard11
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Re: Coworker just told me it loks like I'm showing...

You will - don't worry!!
Tell people to SHUT UP - they tend to feel it is ok to be rude to preggos!!
Tell her you are prego what is her excuse - that will shut her up Chat Icon

Posted 2/10/11 1:38 PM
 

julesrbf
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Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

I was overweight to begin with and I definitely have (what I feel!) is a cute preggo belly at almost 27w! Don't worry! Chat Icon

Posted 2/10/11 1:53 PM
 

maybeababy2010
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Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

People are so dumb! I absolutely hate it when people comment on my belly (whether to say it is big, small, etc.). I don't just walk up to random people and start commenting on their size, so why should pregnant women have to endure this daily discussion about their bodies. It is so annoying!

Sorry you have to deal with this!

Posted 2/10/11 1:56 PM
 

BabyLoveBug143
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Jessica

Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

people are soo rude! why cant they say it in a way that isnt soo rude! like aww look at that little belly!

someone told me today
"ohhh jess your really filling out!!!!"

really i dont even wanna put a fake smile on when i hear comments like that!

Posted 2/10/11 2:12 PM
 

summerbaby11
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Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

i got the "you look tired" for the gajillionth time today [i'm 17 weeks and work does not know]. i just said "thanks". maybe if i keep responding this way they will stop saying it? Chat Icon

annoying!!

Posted 2/10/11 2:36 PM
 

medikalmomma
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Kerri

Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

Yeah... Always loved that! I work with a girl who has been rubbing my belly since she found out I was pregnant at about 12 weeks. I was like, " yeah, you're rubbing my fat right now, but thanks for making me feel like a fat slob!"

Posted 2/10/11 3:06 PM
 

LINewbie
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LB

Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

You will get the bump!!!

Posted 2/11/11 7:32 PM
 

TiffanyM
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Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

some people are soooo rude! i'm sure you look terrific!

Posted 2/11/11 7:34 PM
 

cds58019
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Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

Sounds like my MIL. She told me it looked like my thighs were "a little bigger already." How far along was I? 6 weeks!!!

Dont listen to people. Chat Icon

Posted 2/11/11 8:01 PM
 

Ready4aBaby
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Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

Posted by medikalmomma

Yeah... Always loved that! I work with a girl who has been rubbing my belly since she found out I was pregnant at about 12 weeks. I was like, " yeah, you're rubbing my fat right now, but thanks for making me feel like a fat slob!"




OMGGG me too, I'm 13 weeks now and when people try to rub my belly I say "you're actually just rubbing ice cream right now"

Posted 2/12/11 8:33 AM
 

pteradactylmama
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Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

I had a friend say. . "Oh your belly is really getting big" and then say "and this is the one time it's okay to say that right?"

um. . wrong!


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Posted 2/12/11 8:45 AM
 

pteradactylmama
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Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

Posted by Ready4aBaby

Posted by medikalmomma

Yeah... Always loved that! I work with a girl who has been rubbing my belly since she found out I was pregnant at about 12 weeks. I was like, " yeah, you're rubbing my fat right now, but thanks for making me feel like a fat slob!"




OMGGG me too, I'm 13 weeks now and when people try to rub my belly I say "you're actually just rubbing ice cream right now"




OMG this made me Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 2/12/11 8:46 AM
 

teaforthree
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Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

Posted by pteradactylmama

Posted by Ready4aBaby

Posted by medikalmomma

Yeah... Always loved that! I work with a girl who has been rubbing my belly since she found out I was pregnant at about 12 weeks. I was like, " yeah, you're rubbing my fat right now, but thanks for making me feel like a fat slob!"




OMGGG me too, I'm 13 weeks now and when people try to rub my belly I say "you're actually just rubbing ice cream right now"




OMG this made me Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



Sooooo friggin' hysterical!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

One of my other coworkers did the same thing... I was shocked and stunned when she did it!!!

Posted 2/12/11 11:12 AM
 

DeeGoody78
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Dee

Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

i'm in the same situation as you... overweight to begin with and 10 weeks pregnant tomorrow. i think about this too sometimes but i try to remember that can't control what i will look like... i know that I'm taking care of myself to the best of my ability and i feel very blessed everyday!

Posted 2/13/11 11:13 AM
 

KevinNKristin8-15-08
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Kristin

Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

People seriously just don't have a clue how to speak to pregnant woman. The things I've heard I still can't believe sometimes. I tell people off now and it seems to work.

I just don't get it, you would never ever comment on someones weight, size or shape normally so what makes it ok to say it to a pregnant woman?!?

And seriously brush it off and don't worry, you will have that cute preggo belly!!!!! Chat Icon

Posted 2/13/11 12:23 PM
 

medikalmomma
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Kerri

Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

Posted by Ready4aBaby

Posted by medikalmomma

Yeah... Always loved that! I work with a girl who has been rubbing my belly since she found out I was pregnant at about 12 weeks. I was like, " yeah, you're rubbing my fat right now, but thanks for making me feel like a fat slob!"




OMGGG me too, I'm 13 weeks now and when people try to rub my belly I say "you're actually just rubbing ice cream right now"



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It totally amazes me that people say things and do things like this!

Posted 2/13/11 3:34 PM
 

mrsyoungmommy
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Danielle

Re: Coworker just told me it looks like I'm showing...

I guess I'm not the norm here, but it doesn't sound like something that I would be offended by. I was about 15 pounds overweight before getting pregnant, and since finding out, have been eating too much and now my stomach is popping out, but it isn't baby yet. If someone said that to me, I would be happy, I love being pregnant and can't wait until I'm showing.

I would just take what people say with a grain of salt, and don't let anyone bother you!

Posted 2/13/11 8:52 PM
 
 

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