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ODonnell
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Today of all days?
About a year ago I donated IF meds to a girl living in VA. It was for an injectible IUI cycle and they had no insurance. Sure enough, some time in March I got an email saying that she got pregnant on that cycle. How amazing! I felt really good and had just started IVF so I was hoping that we would have success some time soon too.
Today I get an email out of the blue from her letting me know that she had a baby girl 10 weeks ago and attaching a photo.  It's so wonderful and I really want to be happy, but I can't help but feel envious, especially when I'm so raw from my own BFN.
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monkeybride
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| Posted 1/24/11 3:03 PM |
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AllyCat
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Re: Today of all days?
You did such a wonderful thing... that good karma WILL come back to you!! 
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| Posted 1/24/11 3:07 PM |
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JavaJunkie
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Re: Today of all days?
It's such a great thing you did and that couple is so grateful 
But it still stings
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| Posted 1/24/11 3:09 PM |
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angel333
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Re: Today of all days?
Posted by AllyCat
You did such a wonderful thing... that good karma WILL come back to you!!
ITA! You cannot let this BFN bring you down. You know you got closer than ever. It WILL happen.
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| Posted 1/24/11 3:22 PM |
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jellybean78
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| Posted 1/24/11 3:40 PM |
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Otherme
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so bittersweet 
but you did a great thing, and that will come full circle back to you.. you know it will
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| Posted 1/24/11 3:41 PM |
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maybemommy10
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Re: Today of all days?
If its any consolation at all, you donated meds to me too, and I'm still not knocked up 
*i hope you lol'd to that one*
I won't try to sugar coat anything or give you THE "hang in there" speech. It sucks. You have every right to kick, scream and cry today. You have been thru a lot and deserve happiness.
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| Posted 1/24/11 3:49 PM |
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AngnShaun
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im so sorry... i cant imagine how difficult that is for you!
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| Posted 1/24/11 3:51 PM |
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nicknmb
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Re: Today of all days?
I'm sorry...but you did a totally amazing thing!!!!!
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| Posted 1/24/11 3:56 PM |
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Jax430
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Re: Today of all days?
You did such a wonderful thing, but it's understandable that this is so bittersweet at this time. I hope that you'll have good news to shar with her before too long.
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| Posted 1/24/11 4:13 PM |
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kelkel09
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Re: Today of all days?
i am so sorry that she had to send that today of all days, but you should feel proud that you did such an amazing thing! you will get your BFP too!!
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| Posted 1/24/11 5:47 PM |
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InShock
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| Posted 1/24/11 5:48 PM |
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DaisyGirl
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Re: Today of all days?
I'm so sorry that you got that email today of all days. You did a wonderful thing and I believe it will come back to you. Maybe the fact that she emailed you today is a sign that you will get your BFP soon!
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| Posted 1/24/11 7:15 PM |
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Daisy21
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I'm so sorry about your day and the IVF cycle. It's great that you found a way to make some good embryos. A lot of IF is luck. Hopefully next cycle is better.
In the meantime, IF totally sucks.
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| Posted 1/24/11 7:44 PM |
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LoLaBlue
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| Posted 1/25/11 8:07 AM |
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ODonnell
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Re: Today of all days?
Posted by maybemommy10
If its any consolation at all, you donated meds to me too, and I'm still not knocked up
Thanks for the chuckle! I'm  ing that's going to change for you very soon.
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| Posted 1/25/11 8:16 AM |
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classc1
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Posted by DaisyGirl
I'm so sorry that you got that email today of all days. You did a wonderful thing and I believe it will come back to you. Maybe the fact that she emailed you today is a sign that you will get your BFP soon!
This is what I was about to say. I believe in signs and such and my first thought was that FX....maybe this was a positive sign for you. So sorry that you are feeling the way you are though...its totally understandable.
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| Posted 1/25/11 8:30 AM |
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maybemommy10
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Re: Today of all days?
Just wanted to add although this cycle failed, there are some positives. In all your cycles, this is the furthest you have come, you CAN make good embies, you made it to transfer and those are things not too long ago you didn't know were even possible. Many people say IVF is trial and error, I hope that this is the beginning to finding your one lucky embie!
Hope you are feeling a little better today.
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