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Dolphinsbaby
My 3 little guys!
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Been avoiding my mom
I feel so bad. I've been avoiding my mom basically because I feel like a ticking timebomb. Any little thing these days seems to set me off crying. I swear the other day I saw a dandelion and I lost it. DH was like really???
My mom knows everything that is going on and has been so strong and I've always held it together. I know as soon as I see her I'm just going to have a complete meltdown and start blubbering like a baby which will make her start crying and get her all upset and I don't want to do that.
It doesn't help that my cousin is due with her baby in May and my mom and aunt are really close. I think my mom feels that my aunt was kind of flaunting the pregnancy in her face (like oh, I get to be a grandma again) and my mom isn't a grandma yet. But, my mom won't talk to me about it because she knows it upsets me.
Uggh, I just hate this. I hate IF!
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Posted 1/20/11 7:50 PM  |
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AnnaBella816
LIF Infant
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Re: Been avoiding my mom
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| Posted 1/20/11 8:39 PM |
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Irishgrl1017
It happened :)
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Colleen
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Re: Been avoiding my mom
I feel you...were all in the same boat, and just try and stay as positive as you can...try
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| Posted 1/20/11 8:58 PM |
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kelkel09
Love my twins!!!
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Re: Been avoiding my mom
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| Posted 1/20/11 9:45 PM |
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MrsKS
Thank You St. Gerard.....
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Kerri
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Re: Been avoiding my mom
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| Posted 1/20/11 10:04 PM |
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cowgirlkate
Twins times TWO!
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Re: Been avoiding my mom
 Hang in there.... My Mother in Law doesn't know we are having trouble, but my big mouth brother in law told her we have been trying. She has been emailing me about her dreams that we have a baby and how happy it makes her and how she cries just thinking about the day that we tell her about her first grandchild.... I had to finally tell her that I am going through a lot and I am not ready to talk about it with her because she was so intense....
Good luck with your Mom!!! Remember your mom cares about you and only wants the best...Maybe it will help you to cry it out with your mom???
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| Posted 1/20/11 10:25 PM |
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Ritse
LIF Adolescent
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Who's asking?
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Re: Been avoiding my mom
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| Posted 1/20/11 11:40 PM |
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LoLaBlue
PARTY OF 5
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Re: Been avoiding my mom
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| Posted 1/21/11 8:29 AM |
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Wishing4ababy
My life is complete!
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Re: Been avoiding my mom
I feel your pain. We're in a similar situation. I'm sorry.
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| Posted 1/21/11 10:03 AM |
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pp1107
LIF Adolescent
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Re: Been avoiding my mom
I was like that in the beginning but broke down one day and told her everything we were going through. Honestly I felt so much better. She has been there for me the whole time. She knows when I want to talk about it and when to just let me be. When you are ready I think if you talk to her you will feel so much relief.
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| Posted 1/21/11 11:57 AM |
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