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does your DH go to appts with you?

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cateyemm
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does your DH go to appts with you?

I ask cuz usually I'm uncomfortable having DH come in the room with me- he has accompanied me on appts in the past, but never went past the waiting room. In 2 weeks I am going to have a hysteroscopy which I'm trying not to think about. I dont know- for some reason I want him there. Its mostly cuz I want his opinion on my RE. I still cant decide though... Does your DH go into the appt with you?

Posted 12/16/10 2:13 PM
 
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FlowerWife
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Re: does your DH go to appts with you?

DH didnt come to all of the appts, but the ones he did come to (including the hysteroscopy) he was there in the room the whole time.

just think, when you go get pregnant he'll likely be there for internal sonos and obviously the birth.. so you might as well get used to it now!

Message edited 12/16/2010 2:17:45 PM.

Posted 12/16/10 2:17 PM
 

RGEC47
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Re: does your DH go to appts with you?

DH comes to all appts, except when I have to get blood drawn, he steps out of the room. The last time he threw up and almost fainted. Now I really believe his fear of needles. Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/10 2:22 PM
 

kelkel09
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Re: does your DH go to appts with you?

so far i have only had 1 consultation and then had to go to the lab to get a bunch of bloodwork. DH came with me for both. I am hoping as we continue with any treatments, that DH can come to everything but I know that won't be possible with his work schedule. I know he will try to come to as much as he possibly can.

Posted 12/16/10 2:44 PM
 

ODonnell
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Re: does your DH go to appts with you?

No. Only the consulations and the appointments where he is needed. Chat Icon

I work in the city and go for monitoring in the city and DH works in Babylon, so it just would not be possible.

Posted 12/16/10 3:18 PM
 

keepingsecrets
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Re: does your DH go to appts with you?

we've only had a consult and then today a hysteroscopy.....DH has been there both times. i don't know if he'll keep coming for every appt, it depends on his work schedule, but i'd like him to be there for as many as he can. i was happy he was with me at the hysteroscopy today.

Posted 12/16/10 3:28 PM
 

Daisy21
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Re: does your DH go to appts with you?

My DH has come to a lot of appointments. I like when he is there if there is any decision being made, so he can hear everything. I also have him come if he is off from work because I feel like he should be there when he can easily be there. I feel like a lot falls on the woman, so it's nice when they can be there also. He obviously doesn't miss work if it's just a monitoring appointment.

Posted 12/16/10 4:50 PM
 

CarlieJLD7
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Re: does your DH go to appts with you?

DH Only came to some appts, but when he was there, he always came in the room...

If you want him to be in there with you, it is totally normal...

Good Luck! I got my BFP after my hysto!

Posted 12/16/10 7:50 PM
 

PennyCat
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Re: does your DH go to appts with you?

My DH comes to any appointment where it's convenient for him to come even if it's not necessary for him to be there. I like having him there and also like having the extra ear since he remembers everything the doctor says and I don't! Chat Icon

Posted 12/16/10 9:40 PM
 

bookworm
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Re: does your DH go to appts with you?

he's come to some. he was there with me a few years ago when i had the hysteroscopy.

Posted 12/19/10 5:54 AM
 

NeedtoHide
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Re: does your DH go to appts with you?

mine comes to all the appts he can make.

i have gone alone many times too.

he comes in the room with me and the nurse shows him the sonogram screen and follies etc.

(its not like he is stanading there under the stirrups, lol) so i have no issues

Message edited 12/19/2010 8:03:23 AM.

Posted 12/19/10 8:02 AM
 
 

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