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InCogNito79
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Why do I do this to myself.....
Since we are considering getting second opinions & going to a different clinic if we have to do another IVF, i picked up all of my records when i was at the RE yesterday.
Stupid me decides to look through everything last night & the results from the chrmosome testing of the fetus from my D&C were in there.
Everything was normal, which i knew. But it was a boy............which i didnt know...
Some things you are just better off not knowing...................
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Beachlover
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
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| Posted 11/19/10 8:02 AM |
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Bops
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
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| Posted 11/19/10 8:15 AM |
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angel333
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
I'm so sorry you are going through this... This is all too much to handle sometimes 
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| Posted 11/19/10 8:16 AM |
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JavaJunkie
Someday, Somehow
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Lois
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
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| Posted 11/19/10 8:21 AM |
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PennyCat
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
I can imagine how hard that must have been. It's so much harder knowing the gender!
I had a loss later on in the 2nd tri and found out about the complications the same day we found out the gender. When they told us it was a boy, we had no reason to believe there were any issues. We spent the first part of the appointment with the sono tech in dreamland of all our hopes and dreams for our son (who we named Jack Nathan, btw, and had him buried) ...... and I will never forget the moment they told us we would lose him.
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| Posted 11/19/10 8:29 AM |
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readts78
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
so sorry. Ugh...it's so hard.
I opted not to have a D&C but to take the misoprostol and miscarry. I knew my pregnancy wasn't a strong one from the start so a miscarriage was not a shock.
It is so hard. Hugs to you and your DH!
God has a plan...believe in that.
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| Posted 11/19/10 8:32 AM |
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
I'm sorry.
Me, on the other hand, wanted to know so I asked the doctor. It was the same sex as yours.
I did not tell DH. That's something he doesnt need to know even though I wanted to know.
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| Posted 11/19/10 8:58 AM |
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Blu-ize
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
oy! I'm so sorry you had to relive that.
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| Posted 11/19/10 9:02 AM |
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maybemommy10
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
Ouch, I can't imagine the pain you feel.
Thanks to this board, (forgot the poster) I have the heads up that on my follow up apt. next week, I will get the results of the D&C and he may mention the sex. I would not want that to be a surprise.
Lots of
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| Posted 11/19/10 9:12 AM |
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InCogNito79
LIF Infant
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
Thanks Ladies - so many conflicting emotions ...........just feeling sorry for myself...
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| Posted 11/19/10 9:20 AM |
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Jax430
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
I'm so sorry. That is not information that anyone would want to find out unexpectedly.
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| Posted 11/19/10 9:21 AM |
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InCogNito79
LIF Infant
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
Posted by PennyCat
I can imagine how hard that must have been. It's so much harder knowing the gender!
I had a loss later on in the 2nd tri and found out about the complications the same day we found out the gender. When they told us it was a boy, we had no reason to believe there were any issues. We spent the first part of the appointment with the sono tech in dreamland of all our hopes and dreams for our son (who we named Jack Nathan, btw, and had him buried) ...... and I will never forget the moment they told us we would lose him.
Thanks Penny - I know your story & I cant imagine being another 4 weeks along & having a belly & having to go through this. I know how attached & excited i was at only 11 weeks.
Prayers for all of us to stay strong & have our family soon
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| Posted 11/19/10 9:22 AM |
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NeedtoHide
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
im so sorry.....
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| Posted 11/19/10 9:27 AM |
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JennyPenny
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| Posted 11/19/10 11:29 AM |
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RGEC47
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Re: Why do I do this to myself.....
I am sorry.
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| Posted 11/19/10 12:26 PM |
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