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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
Member since 7/05 32475 total posts
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Susan
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I've had a trying day
you know those days that IF seems worse than others? When everything else in your life is just blah and then you think about your struggle and all of the shots and time you spent and wonder if you are ever going to get there?
I am looking for the joy in other parts of my life right now and it seems harder and harder to find it.
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Posted 8/27/10 9:21 PM  |
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FlowerWife
Positive Vibrations...
Member since 1/08 8423 total posts
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Re: I've had a trying day
i felt like that yesterday...trying to psyche up for next cycle...
HANG IN THERE!!
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| Posted 8/27/10 9:38 PM |
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MrsDeVito
Gio's gonna be a big brother!
Member since 7/09 4671 total posts
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Christina
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Re: I've had a trying day
I know all to well exactly what you described. For me weeks can go by where I am positive and happy, hopeful and optimistic and then BAM something or sometimes even nothing brings me back to this place where all I can think is "it's all just too much".
I have been lucky that thus far the good days far out number the bad, I am terrified that a time will come where that won't be the case.
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| Posted 8/28/10 2:50 AM |
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immabmommab
LIF Infant
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Re: I've had a trying day
I completely understand! This has been one of those WEEKS for me...got a shower invite, went to buy gift, insurance denying IVF and appeals process...hang in there! People have starting saying, "it WILL happen one way or the other" and I'm trying to decide if that's more annoying than "relax."
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| Posted 8/28/10 8:59 AM |
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PennyCat
Just call me mommy :)
Member since 7/08 19084 total posts
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Jib
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Re: I've had a trying day
I have been such a rollercoaster lately 
I think I have felt every emotion possible this month... from sheer joy to utter sorrow and heartache. Ever since finding out the horrible news and trying to move forward, I have moments where I convince myself everything will be OK .... and then have moments where I have to come up with legitimate reasons to get out of bed in the morning.
We have to believe it will happen for us eventually- a healthy full term pregnancy. With all the uncertainty to we are forced to go through in this process, we MUST have our faith! 
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| Posted 8/29/10 1:23 AM |
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bride07
Ava Rose you are an angel!!!
Member since 3/09 6115 total posts
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Re: I've had a trying day
I'm sorry!
IF is such a struggle that can really wear you down. Just try to stay positve, keep yourself busy with friends and family. Take some time to do things you enjoy ( massage, pedicure, shop, cooking class, etc). The process can be very emotional and distracting, so just try to take some time out every week to do things to help you.
Maybe even yoga, acupuncture, or pilates...to help release stress. The yoga/pilates def helped me when I was TTC.
You will get there. I am keeping you in my prayers and one day you will be holding your child in your arms.
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| Posted 8/29/10 7:29 AM |
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angel333
Sigh.....
Member since 3/10 1803 total posts
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AKS
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Re: I've had a trying day
Sometimes I feel like Dr Jekyl and Mr Hyde  .... One day I'm optimistic and the next day I fall so deep into my misery and wonder how I'm gonna get through my day I wonder if it's all the meds I'm on 
I've done some hypnosis recently which seems to have really helped with my attitute, I've been having a very positive outlook on things  At this point I can honestsly say that I've tried everything...
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| Posted 8/29/10 11:26 AM |
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shhhbaby2
LIF Infant
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Re: I've had a trying day
I've been having a lot of those days lately. 
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| Posted 8/29/10 12:25 PM |
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july0105
My three little miracles
Member since 4/06 2628 total posts
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Alison
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Re: I've had a trying day
I am so sorry you are feeling this way today. This process has so many ups and downs and not too many people who can really relate. Know we are right there with you. Hang in there....
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| Posted 8/29/10 12:37 PM |
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| Posted 8/29/10 3:36 PM |
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BA2008
Need to find some hope!
Member since 2/08 2485 total posts
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Beth -Ann
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Re: I've had a trying day
Its worse when you are on the meds!!!! Try to do some meditation to clear your head. Or read a good book to escape. Go for a walk. Or go buy some new shoes!!! Love new shoes. They always fit right.
And a big at ya!!!!
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| Posted 8/29/10 9:06 PM |
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