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Hire someone to paint or let family do it?

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Let Mom Pay for a Professional 21 63.64%
Have a painting party with family and friends 11 33.33%
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WWYD - House Painting

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Ma-n-Pa2008
Mommy's Big Boy

Member since 3/09

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Melissa

WWYD - House Painting

So I'll try to make a long story short...DH and I are hoping to close on our house next month and I'm stressing about paint colors, but that's another story! FIL and SIL have offered to help paint, obviously DH and I would too. DH and I have never painted, FIL has painted rooms in his house here and there over the years, and although it sounds like fun, I'm not really sure I want to get into painting 6 rooms. I want it done quickly and right. My mom on the otherhand has offered to hire a painter as a housewarming gift. DH and I are arguing about it b/c he doesn't want to use her money for that (she gives us a lot already) and b/c his family has offered to help and they usually do nothing for us. I also think I insulted his father and sister when I told them we are thinking about hiring someone. They were even starting to argue with me about it.

PS- they don't know my mom has offered to pay for it

Posted 7/19/10 8:19 PM
 

lbride
Lovin' my mini man!

Member since 3/07

2475 total posts

Name:
Lisa

Re: WWYD - House Painting

theres nothing fun about painting.... We painted our whole house ourselves and if I coulddo it again I'd hire someone... you can def tell the difference between a professionals work and your own

Posted 7/19/10 8:34 PM
 

OStewarts
LIF Adult

Member since 11/07

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Re: WWYD - House Painting

Honestly, hire the professional painter!!

We had a professional painter (DH's brother) paint our main floor LR, kitchen, DR and 2 bedrooms. He did all the prep work, was quick and neat as a pin and cleaned up afterward. The results are beautiful and it was great to move into a fresly painted home!

DH and I are very handy people, we've painted in the past a number of times, I am meticulous about stuff like this, and you can still see the difference between our work and his brother's work.

Trust me, it will look that much better and it will be a really nice treat to move into a house that was freshly painted by a professional. You have plenty of other things to worry about and maybe your DH's family can help out in some other area that needs work.

By the way congrats on the house!Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 7/19/10 8:44 PM
 

alli3131
Peanut is here!!!!!!

Member since 5/09

18388 total posts

Name:
Allison

Re: WWYD - House Painting

I personally wouldn't waste money on a painter. Painting is probably the easiest thing we did in our house.

We painted the entire place....mouldings and doors too. I used the money for better things.

But then again I wont hire anyone except an electrician to do work cause I'd rather do it myself.

Posted 7/19/10 8:50 PM
 

JldDolphin

Member since 1/07

6929 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: WWYD - House Painting

Coming from someone that has painted 12 rooms in our home, I would hire the prop in a heart beat. It really isn't much fun. Room after room after room. It's a long process. If your mom is will to give you a great gift like that I would take it. DH family can help out with something else. GL!Chat Icon

Posted 7/19/10 8:53 PM
 

rkoenke
my little piggys

Member since 3/08

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Name:
rachel

Re: WWYD - House Painting

Posted by alli3131

I personally wouldn't waste money on a painter. Painting is probably the easiest thing we did in our house.

We painted the entire place....mouldings and doors too. I used the money for better things.

But then again I wont hire anyone except an electrician to do work cause I'd rather do it myself.



i second this. besides it being your first opportunity to "do something"hands on in your own home...

Posted 7/19/10 9:05 PM
 

katiebell
Hoping, wishing, waiting....

Member since 8/06

1418 total posts

Name:
K

Re: WWYD - House Painting

When we bought our house, we were all set to paint all of the rooms our selves, we got half way through our livingroom and hired a professional the next day. Best money we ever spent!!

Posted 7/19/10 9:19 PM
 

JDubs
different, not less

Member since 7/09

13160 total posts

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Re: WWYD - House Painting

we had family members help out and it saved a lot of $$$ but if youre not sure then hire the prof. to keep your mind at ease.... btw congrats!! are u in the neighboorhood?

Posted 7/19/10 9:26 PM
 

Ma-n-Pa2008
Mommy's Big Boy

Member since 3/09

2584 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: WWYD - House Painting

thanks for your opinions and advice everyone. i know that we will be saving a lot of money in the long run doing it ourselves and it would be nice to say we did it ourselves. of course at the same time i just want it DONE!

i have some other reasons, that i won't go into, why i would rather not have my ILs painting but that's my own problem! DH and I have some thinking to do!! Chat Icon

Posted 7/19/10 9:44 PM
 

Ma-n-Pa2008
Mommy's Big Boy

Member since 3/09

2584 total posts

Name:
Melissa

Re: WWYD - House Painting

Posted by jenbill61210

we had family members help out and it saved a lot of $$$ but if youre not sure then hire the prof. to keep your mind at ease.... btw congrats!! are u in the neighboorhood?



thanks jen!! we are moving to farmingdale. not to far up the road, but i would have like to stay in seaford/wantagh. how is your house coming along???

Posted 7/19/10 9:44 PM
 

mikeandjess
LIF Adult

Member since 10/07

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Re: WWYD - House Painting

We were in the same situation and ended up hiring painters. Right after you've closed the last thing you want to do is paint, there's just so many other things that you're going to want to do. It actually cost less than we thought it would and it was nice to have it done in just a few hours opposed to us doing it in a few days.

Posted 7/19/10 9:56 PM
 

JandJ1224

Member since 6/06

5911 total posts

Name:
Jannette

Re: WWYD - House Painting

We did a mix of both, we had family help painting the bedrooms and hired a prof do the living areas, lr, dr kitchen, entry

Posted 7/19/10 11:20 PM
 

JDubs
different, not less

Member since 7/09

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Re: WWYD - House Painting

Posted by Ma-n-Pa2008

Posted by jenbill61210

we had family members help out and it saved a lot of $$$ but if youre not sure then hire the prof. to keep your mind at ease.... btw congrats!! are u in the neighboorhood?



thanks jen!! we are moving to farmingdale. not to far up the road, but i would have like to stay in seaford/wantagh. how is your house coming along???



that is still close, congrats!! we closed on june 29th but have not moved in yet, we painted and now are fixing up a bathroom and doing our floors, then we will move in... prob by mid august. good luck with everything!! Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/10 7:18 AM
 

Nifheim
allo

Member since 1/09

5476 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: WWYD - House Painting

honestly i wish we saved enough to have a pro paint. We did a horrible job and now when we repaint will have to hire a professional to sand what we did paint (drips) and we have on the ceiling streaks. So if you can have a pro do it.

Posted 7/20/10 8:51 AM
 

snowprincess
My happy babies

Member since 3/06

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Re: WWYD - House Painting

make a compromise - hire a painter fro bathrooms - the paint for bathrooms and kitchens is harder to paint with and lots more prep work - big rooms are easy to do just a takes effort

Posted 7/20/10 2:54 PM
 

Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A

Member since 7/05

32475 total posts

Name:
Susan

Re: WWYD - House Painting

Hire pro painters. Pay for it yourself.

Posted 7/20/10 3:14 PM
 

Kara
Now Zagat Rated!

Member since 3/07

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They call me "Tater Salad"

Re: WWYD - House Painting

Family helped us paint two rooms (if a half bath counts as a room), and it was a nightmare. Honestly, this was experienced family who has painted their entire house themselves, and it was awful. Our painter did the entire rest of the house in less time than it took my MIL to do two rooms, and the difference in work quality was obvious. We had to have him re-paint the other two rooms.

Painting is easy, but spackling properly and getting the walls smooth first is not.

ETA -- Until we had the pro come in, we thought the family-done job was great... Then it was right up against the pro's job and the professional job was just so much better and so much less hassle.

Message edited 7/20/2010 5:02:22 PM.

Posted 7/20/10 3:14 PM
 

Samira0407
Love being a Mom

Member since 6/08

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Re: WWYD - House Painting

Hire the professional painter!

I dread painting! We painted ALL the rooms in our house before we moved in-bad decision; cause by the time we got to the dining room i dind't want to look at another paint color! We put a color we later thought was ugly up and are NOW repainting it with a color we like.

Go with the Pro painter!

Posted 7/20/10 3:37 PM
 

MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!

Member since 5/06

14562 total posts

Name:
Marisa

Re: WWYD - House Painting

If you can afford it - hire someone.

It's NOT a fun job.

We painted everything ourselves, multiple times - it's totally do-able, so I can understand why it's something you WOULDN"T want to pay someone to do - but it's NOT pleasant !!

Posted 7/20/10 4:42 PM
 

Tine73

Member since 3/06

22093 total posts

Name:
*********

Re: WWYD - House Painting

My parents paid for us to get a professional and I am SO glad they did! It was a huge time saver and everything looks great. I wouldn't have been able to do as nice of a job and if we did it ourselves we would probably still have unpainted rooms (3 years later) Chat Icon

Posted 7/20/10 5:05 PM
 

LINewbie
Tigger the the Rescue!

Member since 8/08

5647 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: WWYD - House Painting

She offered, so take her up on it.

Dh and I painted our bedroom, and I haaaated it. Painting was such a PITA. If we had to do more than 1 room, I woulda hired an outsider.

Posted 7/20/10 8:38 PM
 
 

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