Intimacy and your weight?

Maybe it's just me, but I feel like lately I am less motivated to have sex because of the extra weight I have on me since DD was born. She will be 9 months in 2 weeks and I don't think I am fat but I def. don't have the figure I had before DD was born. I was always very weight conscious and took care of myself but my boobs are flatter and some areas are just larger then they were and I am uncomfortable and almost don't want DH to see me, he of course would think I am crazy and therefore I don't share that with him. I was always well a horn dog but lately I am ok with not having it as much until I get to where I am comfortably in my weight. Does anyone else feel like this? Not sure if i have this on the wrong board either so sorry if I do!!

Re: Intimacy and your weight?

OMG!! I know, i was skinny and looked great before DD and now i have this belly that won't go away and moves when we DTD. It makes me feel so unsexy and no want to DTD at all. DD will be 9 months next week. I totally thought it would be easier after she came. I have to get my butt in gear and do something else. I would like to lose a little more weight and find a way to get my belly back in shape, poor DH. We used to do it alot and now we are lucky for 2-3 times a week, i need to do something so we can get out sex life back, i know it's affecting DH even though he doesn't say anything because he knows i don't feel good about myself.

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I feel you. I feel grotesque as I have never been this overweight in my life. I cry when I look at pics and in the mirror. It took a hit on my sex life.