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Is this normal? Am I thinking TOO much?!?!

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EasyBake
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Member since 12/09

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Jill

Is this normal? Am I thinking TOO much?!?!

5day transfer was last Thurs 1/21.

PG Test will be tomorrow.

I have been having mild muscle-like cramps in my lower abdomen (like just about my vajay-jay).

Is this normal? Am I worrying for nothing? I just hope and pray everything is okay. I know I'll be upset if we get a BFN, but I am worried for my SIL (the mom).

Could it be b/c I had been taking it really easy for like 4-5 days and being conscious of not lifting my DC (who's 35 lbs) and the last coupld days I've been lifting him?????

Trying to stay positive!

Posted 1/28/10 8:58 AM
 
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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A

Member since 7/05

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Name:
Susan

Re: Is this normal? Am I thinking TOO much?!?!

First, are you a surrogate for your SIL?

I think that's wonderful!

try to stay positive. There are all kinds of symptoms and you never know.

I would continue taking good care of yourself.

Good luck!

Posted 1/28/10 10:46 AM
 

EasyBake
LIF Zygote

Member since 12/09

34 total posts

Name:
Jill

Re: Is this normal? Am I thinking TOO much?!?!

Posted by Blu-ize
First, are you a surrogate for your SIL?
Yes I am

I think that's wonderful!
Thank you Chat Icon

try to stay positive. There are all kinds of symptoms and you never know.
Thank you again. I am trying to stay positive for both of us!!

I would continue taking good care of yourself.

Good luck!

Posted 1/28/10 2:58 PM
 

Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A

Member since 7/05

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Name:
Susan

Re: Is this normal? Am I thinking TOO much?!?!

I know there is a tremendous amount of pressure on you and a lot riding on it.

Your SIL thinks you are a hero either way.

I feel the same way.Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/10 3:43 PM
 

ChiefMT
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Member since 9/08

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Re: Is this normal? Am I thinking TOO much?!?!

I know it is so hard not to think about every symptom. My friend who did IVF had cramping and still got a BFP! Good luck - hang in there! You are doing a beautiful thing - don't beat youself up over anything.Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/10 4:06 PM
 

smp123
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Re: Is this normal? Am I thinking TOO much?!?!

Posted by Blu-ize

I know there is a tremendous amount of pressure on you and a lot riding on it.

Your SIL thinks you are a hero either way.

I feel the same way.Chat Icon



wow very well said! i totally agree - praying very hard for you Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/10 4:47 PM
 

diva7531
My Peanut

Member since 2/07

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Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!

Re: Is this normal? Am I thinking TOO much?!?!

Posted by smp123

Posted by Blu-ize

I know there is a tremendous amount of pressure on you and a lot riding on it.

Your SIL thinks you are a hero either way.

I feel the same way.Chat Icon



wow very well said! i totally agree - praying very hard for you Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



I agree too, good luck

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Posted 1/28/10 8:05 PM
 

Jenn1621
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Re: Is this normal? Am I thinking TOO much?!?!

I totally agree! You are doing an amazing thing!! Good Luck! I will be praying for you!Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/10 8:13 PM
 

Angelsmusic
LIF Infant

Member since 11/09

176 total posts

Name:
B

Re: Is this normal? Am I thinking TOO much?!?!

good luckChat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/28/10 8:34 PM
 

marleyhope
LIF Zygote

Member since 9/09

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Re: Is this normal? Am I thinking TOO much?!?!

r u on progesterone? That makes little cramping.
so does implantation =) It may be a good sign rather than other wise.
And I think if it was cramping due to m/c you'd have to be further along - cuz there isnt really anything in there to cramp out - does that make sense? sounds awful.

good luck and bless you mamas angel =)

Posted 1/28/10 9:11 PM
 

shelby34
Love being a twin mommy!

Member since 5/07

2934 total posts

Name:
Michele

Re: Is this normal? Am I thinking TOO much?!?!

I had some pretty strong cramping the month I got my BFP...even called DH to say Af was coming!
Good luck! This is so amazing of you to do and take on for your SIL!

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Posted 1/29/10 6:18 PM
 
 

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