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Stefanie

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Temper temper temper

I think I have to give myself a time out...

Jared is out of control. I don't know what has gotten into him lately but whatever it is, it's getting worse. He has temper tantrums for everything.

When he finishes his bottle, he throws it and screams, jerking himself back. When we're playing together, he'll take a toy and throw it and scream, jerking himself backwards. I wipe his face...same reaction, when I'm feeding him with the spoon..same reaction. I was in the store buying something and he was holding a pack of pens. I took the pens away and gave them to the girl to ring up...same reaction.
These tantrums are short lived, they only last a minute...but he's driving me crazy!!

Is this normal 10-11 month old behavior? Is it because he's teething?

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Posted 5/2/06 9:25 PM
 
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Tany
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Re: Temper temper temper

oh my dear, sadly to say it gets worse.

My daughter is the same way but since she a little bit older I put her in a corner and call time out.

hang in there, you are definitely not alone.

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Posted 5/2/06 9:27 PM
 

emilain
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Re: Temper temper temper

totally normal, try to give as little reaction as possible and just say "no" once.

imagine, I have a 6yo, 3yo, and 8 month old all with the same tantrums as Jared, no wonder I have a glass of wine each night Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/06 9:30 PM
 

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Re: Temper temper temper

Perfectly normal behavior, unfortunately. He's now decided that he's the boss... he's independent and doesn't need you anymore. Chat Icon And yes, it does get worse. Chat Icon

He'll start to get used to "no" and it will work... some of the time. Chat Icon

My toddler now calls his own timeouts. If he pushes his brother down (from a seated position) he says "1, 2, 3 timeout" and runs to his room. Chat Icon

Posted 5/2/06 9:51 PM
 

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Re: Temper temper temper

Stef, I feel your pain. Nate is doing the same thing.

Posted 5/3/06 12:44 AM
 

hazeleyes33
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Re: Temper temper temper

Posted by Aliasmom

oh my dear, sadly to say it gets worse.

My daughter is the same way but since she a little bit older I put her in a corner and call time out.

hang in there, you are definitely not alone.

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I have to agree! My almost 8 year old still has tantrums every once in a while-they are different though but are still there! I don't they ever end-lol!!

Posted 5/3/06 8:05 AM
 

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Re: Temper temper temper

Posted by steph4777

Stef, I feel your pain. Nate is doing the same thing.



Me too, it seems that at about 11 months Alex started getting a huge temper. Forget it if he is tired. Yesterday he was smashing the star shape against the shape sorter because he couldn't get it in. He has quite the temper too. Now he is refusing to eat anything I put in front of him. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I know it is going to get worse before it gets better but it is frustrating.

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Posted 5/3/06 8:08 AM
 

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Abby has been getting like this at dinner time. It is very stressful. I am hoping that it is just a stage.

Posted 5/3/06 9:57 AM
 

JennyGirl
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Re: Temper temper temper

DD is 18 months and ****** off! Sure she looks sweet, but the terrible twos are here early. I can relate to you. These little outbursts are starting to become too frequent. ( Sometimes I think it's kind of funny, thoughChat Icon )

Posted 5/3/06 9:57 AM
 

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So this is what us new moms have to look forward to? Chat Icon

Posted 5/3/06 10:08 AM
 

paulandles912
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Re: Temper temper temper

Andrew started the same thing at Jared's age and he still has those fits. Except now he also hits when he doesn't get his way and then he laughs if he's reprimanded Chat Icon

Posted 5/3/06 10:13 AM
 

Stefanie

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Re: Temper temper temper

Thanks everyone...I wanted to seriously rip my hair out yesterday. I also noticed that he's not eating like he used to...in fact, he sometimes refuses his dinner.

Posted 5/3/06 11:24 AM
 

MelToddJulia
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My nephew is 16 mts, and is doing the same thing. He is just testing your limits. Dont give in it will only get worse. My sister is going through it also right now but with both of her kids......Chat Icon

Posted 5/3/06 11:27 AM
 

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Re: Temper temper temper

Posted by Stefanie

Thanks everyone...I wanted to seriously rip my hair out yesterday. I also noticed that he's not eating like he used to...in fact, he sometimes refuses his dinner.



Alex is refusing almost everything he used to eat. I can only get him to eat ravioli with tomato sauce and Gerber mashed potatoes. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/3/06 11:33 AM
 

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Re: Temper temper temper

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Posted by Stefanie

Thanks everyone...I wanted to seriously rip my hair out yesterday. I also noticed that he's not eating like he used to...in fact, he sometimes refuses his dinner.



Alex is refusing almost everything he used to eat. I can only get him to eat ravioli with tomato sauce and Gerber mashed potatoes. Chat Icon Chat Icon



I am so glad to hear that we are not the only ones with feeding issues. Abby used to be such a good eater and now she will only eat puffs, yogurt and fruit. I try and mix pasta or little pieces of meat on her tray with the puffs but the stinker picks them out and throws them on the ground. She is a smart cookie but driving me crazy. Not sure how to fix this problem. Any ideas?Chat Icon

Posted 5/3/06 11:50 AM
 

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Re: Temper temper temper

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Posted by mommy2Alex

Posted by Stefanie

Thanks everyone...I wanted to seriously rip my hair out yesterday. I also noticed that he's not eating like he used to...in fact, he sometimes refuses his dinner.



Alex is refusing almost everything he used to eat. I can only get him to eat ravioli with tomato sauce and Gerber mashed potatoes. Chat Icon Chat Icon



I am so glad to hear that we are not the only ones with feeding issues. Abby used to be such a good eater and now she will only eat puffs, yogurt and fruit. I try and mix pasta or little pieces of meat on her tray with the puffs but the stinker picks them out and throws them on the ground. She is a smart cookie but driving me crazy. Not sure how to fix this problem. Any ideas?Chat Icon



My ped says its a phase and to feed him what he will eat. Keep offering a variety of things. That is what I am trying. It isn't working to well. I would be open to anything.

Posted 5/3/06 12:23 PM
 

hazeleyes33
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Re: Temper temper temper

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So this is what us new moms have to look forward to? Chat Icon




No one told me how hard motherhood was!!!

Posted 5/3/06 12:38 PM
 
 

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