What is wrong with me??

My SIL(my bestfriend) always asks me to babysit her 4 boys (my nephews) 2 of which are my godsons.........anyway she didnt ask me Thursday when she had soccer practice and she asked my BIL and SIL to watch them tomorrow night on her bday because they are going out
so she told me she didnt want to bother me anymore(because I am pregnant)then she asked me how I am feeling and I said FINE!!I am not an INVALID I am just pregnant and then later on she said she didnt mean to upset me and I gave her the hand
Well I got home and I am like hysterical crying

CAN SOMEONE TELL ME WHY I AM SO UPSET??

I also feel like she will get closer to our other SIL and I will be left out

WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME?????

Message edited 4/23/2006 8:19:02 PM.

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Dont worry what you are feeling is very normal. Your emotions are out of whack right now. I dont think your SIL didnt ask you to be mean but to let you rest since she knows you are PG and I think didnt want to wear you out with her kids too. I dont think you will be left out at all, you guys are BF so honestly I just think she was being considerate to your PG for the first weeks when we are tired the most until our last trimester. Dont worry

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It's you're hormones. Don't worry, everything will be fine

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I know this but I cant stop crying .
and I am not a cryer

I just dont want people treating me like I am an invalid

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Hormones can do evil things to us! I'm sure it's the hormones that are making you cry and I'm not sure there's much you can do to stop. Ice Cream maybe Just try to realize your SIL was just being considerate of your pregnancy - you are in your first trimester and should be taking it easy. I'm sure she didn't mean to make you feel like an invalid. So chin up!!

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I really feel like such an a$$ right now because I am so WRONG!!!!
but now I am too embarrassed to call her and tell her I am sorry

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I am still crying .....and I really dont know why so I think I will wait til tomorrow to call
But my SIL is a VERY VERY sensitive person (she is also on anxiety medication and antidepressants) so DH thinks she is probably crying because I am mad at her and she probably wont sleep so I am not sure what I am gonna do

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Posted by girlygrl33

Posted by MamaNDaddyof2

I am still crying .....and I really dont know why so I think I will wait til tomorrow to call
But my SIL is a VERY VERY sensitive person (she is also on anxiety medication and antidepressants) so DH thinks she is probably crying because I am mad at her and she probably wont sleep so I am not sure what I am gonna do

then def call her!!!! You guys can cry together on the phone and heal one another too, so you both dont have a sleepless night!!! Go call her!!!!!!!!!!

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ok I just gor off the phone with her ....she was crying the whole time too

I FEEL so much BETTER!!!!!!
I told her that she is one of the most important people in my life and I was so wrong for making her feel bad.
She also pointed out that it is stressful not being able to tell your own mother your pregnant and my HORMONES etc

Thanks girls for the encouragement

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Glad to hear it went well

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Glad you are doing well. IT is so the hormones.
I started to cry yesterday when i told my dad that i was preggo.

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Oh good Im glad, I havent had the crying yet but Im not a cryer so I wait for it to happen.