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Blu-ize
Plan B is Now Plan A
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Susan
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UGH-another person pregnant
I'm genuinely happy for them. This is number two in less than two years.
It just makes me feel broken.
It's easy for others.
Thanks for letting me vent.
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lolipep
My prayers have been answered
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Lori
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Re: UGH-another person pregnant
I know it's hard --I'm sorry  you are not broken, you're wonderful!
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| Posted 9/1/09 4:49 PM |
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jerseygirl
LIF Adolescent
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Re: UGH-another person pregnant
I know exactly how you feel. I'm up to 9 friends who are pregnant right at this very moment, and 2 friends who just gave birth in the past month or so.
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| Posted 9/1/09 5:06 PM |
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nycgirl
Angels!
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Re: UGH-another person pregnant
I hear you. I just want to shake them & tell them how damn lucky they are.
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| Posted 9/1/09 5:17 PM |
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BA2008
Need to find some hope!
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Beth -Ann
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Re: UGH-another person pregnant
I know, I hate feeling that way and yet can't help it either. I have 2 friends IRL who are pg, one is expecting twins. For me, I have the "wait for me/what about me" syndrome.
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| Posted 9/1/09 7:14 PM |
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mnmsoinlove
Mommy to 2 sweet girls!
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Melissa
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Re: UGH-another person pregnant
I am with ya. Good friend got married in June and she just announced that she is expecting. I've got two showers in the next 3 weeks, and here I am going on over a year ttc. Its rough, but I am happy for all them. Just wish it would get a little easier for all of us who have been trying for so long.
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| Posted 9/1/09 8:19 PM |
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BA2008
Need to find some hope!
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Beth -Ann
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Re: UGH-another person pregnant
Oh wait, I forgot to mention that one of the two who are pg is my friend that started TTC when we did. This is her 2nd child. So, in our 4 years of hell she will have her 2 kids. I'm happy for her, but it was like a blow to the head when she told me about #2. She's due in November. And let me not forget to mention that she did struggle. Had one IVF that failed. They told her to go straight to DE and then that next month she got pg naturally. And the 2nd was natural too. Now that is luck. But, it does go to show that anything is possible.
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| Posted 9/1/09 8:48 PM |
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Makin-da-baby
Praying so hard this is it!!!
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Re: UGH-another person pregnant
You are not broken...
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| Posted 9/1/09 9:01 PM |
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diva7531
My Peanut
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Ryan 3 boys EDD 11/6!
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Re: UGH-another person pregnant
Posted by Blu-ize
I'm genuinely happy for them. This is number two in less than two years.
It just makes me feel broken.
It's easy for others.
Thanks for letting me vent.
It does s u c k, I have known 18 people get PG in the 2 years we have been trying, crazy right? It's like an epidemic or something. I am genuinely happy for (almost) all of them, but just sorry for myself.
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| Posted 9/2/09 7:30 AM |
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Posted by diva7531
Posted by Blu-ize
I'm genuinely happy for them. This is number two in less than two years.
It just makes me feel broken.
It's easy for others.
Thanks for letting me vent.
It does s u c k, I have known 18 people get PG in the 2 years we have been trying, crazy right? It's like an epidemic or something. I am genuinely happy for (almost) all of them, but just sorry for myself.
Yep, same here! Matter of fact, I think I'm way past 18........the # is still growing. Two more recent pregnancies that happen to be 3 days part from each other.
Nevermind, the showers, the Millions of Kids B/day Parties that we get invited to. Hate to sound bitter here, but enough is enough. It's hard to enjoy ourselves sometimes watching the parents enjoy their kids, while we sit there holding back tears, looking up and asking, Why am I on hold??? Is this hold Forever??? WHY? 
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| Posted 9/2/09 9:54 AM |
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TTC-DL
LIF Infant
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Re: UGH-another person pregnant
I feel like  all the time lately. It seems like I know at least one person who is pregnant from every cycle that DH and I have been TTC.
DH said to me last night, when I told him the Duggars are pregnant with their 19th "Why is it that the people who WANT a kid can't have one, yet these people have MORE then enough and just keep going !!"
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| Posted 9/2/09 10:54 AM |
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BA2008
Need to find some hope!
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Beth -Ann
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Re: UGH-another person pregnant
Posted by TTC-DL
DH said to me last night, when I told him the Duggars are pregnant with their 19th "Why is it that the people who WANT a kid can't have one, yet these people have MORE then enough and just keep going !!"
OMG - I didn't see the 19th...not that I am surprised. She also started TTC at what 20 or was she younger? I guess they are going for the world record or something. Don't you just want one of those kids to rebel!!!
For whatever reason, we are the ones forced to struggle. And some peoples struggles will be harder than others. That is just life I suppose. No real reason for any of it.
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| Posted 9/2/09 11:14 AM |
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MetsGirl07
LIF O2 Vendor
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Deanna
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Re: UGH-another person pregnant
i am so sorry... and you are not broken!!
we can all relate to this.. and its always so tough to find out about another friend/relative getting PG.. its like a stab in the chest
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| Posted 9/2/09 11:34 AM |
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