I've had it!!!!!!

I just have to vent. So, I have 5 friends that are now pregnant. This isn't just people I know..these are friends who I hang out with. Well, this morning my DH told me that his best friends girlfriend is PG. This girl does drugs every weekend, is a total gold digger, and also tried to hit on my husband. From day 1 I said that she would try to get pregnant just to keep this guy. Well..mission accomplished. I just don't understand it. She has quite the coke habit and they weren't even "trying." It's honestly not fair.

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Ugh.....I know how u feel.

We have a friend who abandoned her daughter bc she didn't want to be a mom, does coke all the time and now is prego again.

WT Efffff?????

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you have got to be kidding me?!?!?!?!?!?!

Moments like this is when we realize how harsh life can be....I'm so sorry you're dealing with this.

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that is just awful..

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It's almost like people get what they DON'T want.

We all want babies soo badly........but we don't have them (yet).

Drug addicts......I'm sure having kids is the last thing on their mind on wanting.........but they get them.

I sometimes joke and say I should be an addict so it can happen. But in all reality.......that will and can NEVER happen.........

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It's true. She already has a 6 years old daughter with some other guy that she dumps at her moms house. I mean, she is NEVER with her daughter. She spends every weekend down the shore partying it up while her daughter is at her moms house. It's unbelievable.

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Stuff like this makes me sick.. My very oldest friend (30 yrs) had 2 abortions during my IF journey.. drug abuser as well.. Then got pregnant and got her period through the first 3 months and had no idea she was pregnant even tested neg on her pee sticks!!! She was too far gone and had to keep her baby who is now 3yrs old.. and she is still addicted to drugs!!!

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Posted by dilb712

Stuff like this makes me sick.. My very oldest friend (30 yrs) had 2 abortions during my IF journey.. drug abuser as well.. Then got pregnant and got her period through the first 3 months and had no idea she was pregnant even tested neg on her pee sticks!!! She was too far gone and had to keep her baby who is now 3yrs old.. and she is still addicted to drugs!!!

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We are among the last non-pregnant ones in our family & friends group...

On a positive note...this is when you will start to notice others who are dealing with IF (often as the ones who don't talk about kids & don't have any...besides being happily married for years).

That's how we got referred to our RE...the 3 couples we knew who married around when we did or earlier are all struggling...we have 1 happy story (times two) so far.

We'll get there!

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I totally hear you...

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This is the stuff that makes me nuts!

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I feel ya. It is just amazing the people that end up getting pg in a snap, when people who are dying to be mommies have to go through all of this cr@p.
Just try to hang in there and know that we are all there with you and supporting you. You will get there and it will be so incredibly amazing and meaningful to you when you do.

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That makes my blood boil.

try to be strong--we are all her for you

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I know how you feel. I had to go to BRU this weekend to get a shower gift for my good friend. When I was there a girl no more than 15 was registering in the store with her mom. When her mom told her to wait on registering for bedding because she didn't know if it was a boy or girl, she told her mom to get "f" herself, and it was definitely going to be a girl because she hates boys.

I had to bite my tongue, its so unfair.

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Life isn't fair, but I am learning through this whole process that everyone is dealing with their own problems. We have IF issues and this girls obviously has other issues in her life.
I wish you the best and hope you are blessed with good news of your own soon.

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Thanks girls!!!! I was just so annoyed yesterday. But then I got McDonalds for dinner and felt a little bit better.