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Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

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hbugal
Lesigh

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Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

I nominate......DING DING DING..."CT"...."I so wish I could post her real name..."


Exhibit A: Takes DSDs away the week Caden was going to be born so they would miss his birth..Koodoos to you Chat Icon (she swears it was unitentional)

Exhibit B: Schedules her vacation the same week DHs family is coming in to visit...pretending that she knew NOTHING about it Chat Icon ...and plans on taking them away.

Exhibit C: Allows DSD to go to a sport related activity instead of coming to DHs Birthday Dinner then questions DH about it really being his birthday that day..Chat Icon

Why should your BM be the BM of the year???? Cast your votes now!!!!!!!

Posted 6/24/09 7:30 PM
 

Bops
My 3 wishes

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Re: Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

Your a rip Chat Icon

God, theres not enough room in this pathetic little box to announce my nomination....

You're all just going to have to take my word for it- She takes the cake ! Not only would she take the cake, she would ask for more and say that there is never enough cake even though she herself is up to her ears in cake . She would then proceed to tell SD that her father doesnt love her enough to give her any cake and that he only has enough cake for his other children who consequently are not considered my SD's siblings...MY SD would then only be told that all the cake that she does get comes only from BM and her father has never given her any cake even though my SD gets more cake than any other child I know...And not only any old cake will do, it must be very expensive cake and lots of them, and the BM does not even ask my DH what type of calke he would like my SD to have and he is never told she did have any cake until after the cake is gone and she needs more cake....


Now that I have confused you all, do I at least get an A+ for originality ?Chat Icon

But in all honesty, she really does take the cake Chat Icon

Posted 6/24/09 8:11 PM
 

1stimemom
Love my boys

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Mrs Dee

Re: Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

Posted by Bops

Your a rip Chat Icon

God, theres not enough room in this pathetic little box to announce my nomination....

You're all just going to have to take my word for it- She takes the cake ! Not only would she take the cake, she would ask for more and say that there is never enough cake even though she herself is up to her ears in cake . She would then proceed to tell SD that her father doesnt love her enough to give her any cake and that he only has enough cake for his other children who consequently are not considered my SD's siblings...MY SD would then only be told that all the cake that she does get comes only from BM and her father has never given her any cake even though my SD gets more cake than any other child I know...And not only any old cake will do, it must be very expensive cake and lots of them, and the BM does not even ask my DH what type of calke he would like my SD to have and he is never told she did have any cake until after the cake is gone and she needs more cake....


Now that I have confused you all, do I at least get an A+ for originality ?Chat Icon

But in all honesty, she really does take the cake Chat Icon



A+++++++Chat Icon

Posted 6/25/09 9:06 AM
 

1stimemom
Love my boys

Member since 2/08

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Mrs Dee

Re: Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

My contender had actually called the cops (numerous times) on her own son, because he was irritating her and she wanted him out of the house.

Not to mention the typical $$ hungry, greedy crap.

She also told the Sks that "daddy" left them to be with me, when in fact she was cheating while they were married and kicked him out on his birthday - and then moved her bf in the next day!

Posted 6/25/09 9:09 AM
 

JennasMom
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does it matter

Re: Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

To be equally fair can you nominate Birth Fathers too, since there are MANY of them that are selfish and self centered as wellChat Icon

Posted 6/25/09 9:35 AM
 

Lucky2008
LIF Adult

Member since 5/08

1005 total posts

Name:
Chris

Re: Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

Posted by Bops

Your a rip Chat Icon

God, theres not enough room in this pathetic little box to announce my nomination....

You're all just going to have to take my word for it- She takes the cake ! Not only would she take the cake, she would ask for more and say that there is never enough cake even though she herself is up to her ears in cake . She would then proceed to tell SD that her father doesnt love her enough to give her any cake and that he only has enough cake for his other children who consequently are not considered my SD's siblings...MY SD would then only be told that all the cake that she does get comes only from BM and her father has never given her any cake even though my SD gets more cake than any other child I know...And not only any old cake will do, it must be very expensive cake and lots of them, and the BM does not even ask my DH what type of calke he would like my SD to have and he is never told she did have any cake until after the cake is gone and she needs more cake....


Now that I have confused you all, do I at least get an A+ for originality ?Chat Icon

But in all honesty, she really does take the cake Chat Icon



Bops...that was great!! Sounds exactly like my situation to a "T" and it has recently become worse - however I think you forgot the part where BM would have to have the most expensive cake for her and SD but expect DH to pay for it!!

Also, BM has recently stooped to sending DH and I emails...stating that I have STDs, am a drug addict and that DH chooses me over his DD - and this is what she is telling SD - no wonder she hates me

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Message edited 6/25/2009 9:56:10 AM.

Posted 6/25/09 9:49 AM
 

Bops
My 3 wishes

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Re: Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

I hereby declare a unaniamous tie across the board Chat Icon

And for all our grand prize winners ( and winners to be, keep 'em coming girls)
I would like to offer a one way all inclusive dream vacation to a far away planet Chat Icon

Posted 6/25/09 10:55 AM
 

hbugal
Lesigh

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Re: Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

Posted by JennasMom

To be equally fair can you nominate Birth Fathers too, since there are MANY of them that are selfish and self centered as wellChat Icon



That's a whole other thread....

I have one of them too...2 in fact..Chat Icon

Posted 6/25/09 12:48 PM
 

imthecindyofcindyandkevin
Four-nado

Member since 8/07

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Cindy

Re: Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

Aww, this thread is almost making me sad that I really have nothing to contribute!! Your stories make me want to call BM up and thank her.....hmmm, NAH I won't go that far. Chat Icon

So sorry you all have to deal with these people, but that cake bit was great!! Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 6/25/09 2:10 PM
 

Mrs. Ben
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Member since 7/09

39 total posts

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Mrs.Ben

Re: Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

I'm new to the board and someone suggested I should try the Step board...well I am 24 no kids of my own, but DH has 2 boys, 7 & 10....and their BM gets BM of the YEAR as:

1) she dropped them off at DH job stating she wants nothing to do with them, with only one small luggage of the 10yrs clothing nothing for the 7 yr old.

2) leaves DH nasty, lunatic messages at his job phone.

3) DH is going for full custody and she is making it hard by telling the court his name is not on 1 of the boys birth certificate

4) she tells her own kids I am giving you to your father bc I you look like him, and don't bother coming back home cause I won't open the door....


and so so much more....I guess there is always worse, but she sure does come close to those women you hear on tv.

Never thought this is what it would have been like marrying a man who had a BM.

Posted 7/1/09 4:28 PM
 

MrsSteflily
I love chocolate

Member since 4/06

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Stef

Re: Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

You guys are so brave to post these.

Congrat's to all of them. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Message edited 7/1/2009 4:49:10 PM.

Posted 7/1/09 4:47 PM
 

MrsSteflily
I love chocolate

Member since 4/06

2047 total posts

Name:
Stef

Re: Nominate your BM as BM of the YEAR!!!!

Posted by MrsBernabe

I'm new to the board and someone suggested I should try the Step board...well I am 24 no kids of my own, but DH has 2 boys, 7 & 10....and their BM gets BM of the YEAR as:

1) she dropped them off at DH job stating she wants nothing to do with them, with only one small luggage of the 10yrs clothing nothing for the 7 yr old.

2) leaves DH nasty, lunatic messages at his job phone.

3) DH is going for full custody and she is making it hard by telling the court his name is not on 1 of the boys birth certificate

4) she tells her own kids I am giving you to your father bc I you look like him, and don't bother coming back home cause I won't open the door....


and so so much more....I guess there is always worse, but she sure does come close to those women you hear on tv.

Never thought this is what it would have been like marrying a man who had a BM.



My heart breaks for your SSs.

Posted 7/1/09 4:47 PM
 
 

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