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MaMaTeenie
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To try or not to try?
What do you think ladies? I am now in prime baby making time......I had a mc a week and a 1/2 ago, I am going to see RE on the 16th.....my cycles are short 24 days, AF should be coming on 3/22......no one told me not to try.......
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Rycois
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Re: To try or not to try?
Honestly, given your situation, I'm not sure I would. If you've had 2 unexplained MC in a row, then I would wait to see if they can figure it out. I'm so sorry for your losses.
  
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| Posted 3/9/09 12:54 PM |
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maybeamommy
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Re: To try or not to try?
Posted by SweetCaroline
Honestly, given your situation, I'm not sure I would. If you've had 2 unexplained MC in a row, then I would wait to see if they can figure it out. I'm so sorry for your losses.
ITA.
I think that if you did get pregnant and GOD FORBID something happened... you'd regret trying before they figured this all out and possibly were able to prevent it - KWIM?
Hang in there! 
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| Posted 3/9/09 1:27 PM |
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JennyPenny
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Re: To try or not to try?
Posted by maybeamommy
Posted by SweetCaroline
Honestly, given your situation, I'm not sure I would. If you've had 2 unexplained MC in a row, then I would wait to see if they can figure it out. I'm so sorry for your losses.
ITA.
I think that if you did get pregnant and GOD FORBID something happened... you'd regret trying before they figured this all out and possibly were able to prevent it - KWIM?
Hang in there!
I agree with the above posters.
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| Posted 3/9/09 1:42 PM |
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MaMaTeenie
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Re: To try or not to try?
I guess I know I should wait but the temptation is still there....no matter how short my cycles might be its hard to do nothing and let any opportunity pass me by. I think I just needed someone else to tell me what I already know. This is so hard but I will wait. Thanks for bringing me back from the edge lol!
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| Posted 3/9/09 1:49 PM |
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diva7531
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Re: To try or not to try?
Posted by MaMaTeenie
I guess I know I should wait but the temptation is still there....no matter how short my cycles might be its hard to do nothing and let any opportunity pass me by. I think I just needed someone else to tell me what I already know. This is so hard but I will wait. Thanks for bringing me back from the edge lol!
I have 24 day cycles too and always want everyone to count. But I have heard multiple times you should wait one natural cycle in between a miscarriage and trying again. My sister did and she is now PG with twins, so you never know, but give the RE a chance to find out whats wrong. I am surprised no one told you not to wait, you could always call the RE or OB and ask them, they are the professionals!
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| Posted 3/9/09 3:06 PM |
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MrsMessina
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Re: To try or not to try?
If I were in your shoes, I wouldn't.  I wouldn't want to experience that pain again if it were to work, and there was an underlying issue. Is your dr. testing you for anything? Did he check your progesterone while you were pg? I know it's tempting, but think of the heartache if there is an issue, especially if (as in most cases) it's something that could be easily treatable. GL to you- whatever your decision!! 
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| Posted 3/9/09 10:33 PM |
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