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baghag
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Re: How judgemental are you?
whats the difference between being judgemental, and having/voicing an opinion?
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CaseyGirl
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Re: How judgemental are you?
not much at all.....i do not know what it is like in the other person's shoes...who am I to judge?
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| Posted 3/9/06 10:39 AM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: How judgemental are you?
Judgemental:
Of, relating to, or dependent on judgment: a judgmental error.
Inclined to make judgments, especially moral or personal ones: a marriage counselor who tries not to be judgmental.
Opinion:
A belief or conclusion held with confidence but not substantiated by positive knowledge or proof: “The world is not run by thought, nor by imagination, but by opinion” (Elizabeth Drew).
A judgment based on special knowledge and given by an expert: a medical opinion.
A judgment or estimation of the merit of a person or thing: has a low opinion of braggarts.
The prevailing view: public opinion.
Law. A formal statement by a court or other adjudicative body of the legal reasons and principles for the conclusions of the court.
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| Posted 3/9/06 10:40 AM |
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Elbee
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Re: How judgemental are you?
personally I think being judgemental helps us form who we are.
You judge the way people other people 'live' and make unconscious judgements about how you want to be or live your life ...
am I off base?
Message edited 3/9/2006 10:45:05 AM.
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| Posted 3/9/06 10:42 AM |
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unknown1
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Re: How judgemental are you?
Posted by Elbee
personally I think being judgemental helps us form who we are.
You judge the way people other people 'live' and make unconscious judgements about how you want to be or live your life ...
am I off base?
Of course it helps is form who we are.. I completely agree with you. I take everyones inventory ... If how they live there lives if I don't like it I don't get involved nor do I surround myself with them.
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| Posted 3/9/06 10:46 AM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: How judgemental are you?
Posted by Elbee
personally I think being judgemental helps us form who we are.
You judge the way people other people 'live' and make unconscious judgements about how you want to be or live your life ...
am I off base?
I don't think you are off base. I think these words have different menaings to all of us.
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| Posted 3/9/06 10:46 AM |
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MrsS2005
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Re: How judgemental are you?
Posted by Elbee
Is it wrong to be judgemental?
I don't think it's really a good quality to possess, but I don't think it's as bad if you keep your judgments/opinions to yourself.
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| Posted 3/9/06 10:46 AM |
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Elbee
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Re: How judgemental are you?
every one just seems 'embarrased' with the  about being judgemental. I don't see why.
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| Posted 3/9/06 10:47 AM |
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Elbee
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Re: How judgemental are you?
Posted by LadyLainez
I don't think you are off base. I think these words have different menaings to all of us.
That is true.
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| Posted 3/9/06 10:48 AM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: How judgemental are you?
Posted by Elbee
every one just seems 'embarrased' with the about being judgemental. I don't see why.
I think because being judgemental has a stigma that goes along w/ it & we don't associate being judgmental as being a good thing. 
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| Posted 3/9/06 10:48 AM |
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dpli
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Re: How judgemental are you?
Posted by Elbee
every one just seems 'embarrased' with the about being judgemental. I don't see why.
I think it's all in how the word is perceived. I think we are all judgemental, looking at the definition that was posted, or how you were describing it. Everyone takes in what they see and experience around them and decides how they will let it affect their life and choices.
I think many people perceive the word as negative when you take those experiences or impressions and force your judgements and decisions on other people, or expect them to live up to your expectations, rather than expectations they set for themselves. At least that's how I see it. 
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| Posted 3/9/06 10:51 AM |
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: How judgemental are you?
I think it's all in how the word is perceived. I think we are all judgemental, looking at the definition that was posted, or how you were describing it. Everyone takes in what they see and experience around them and decides how they will let it affect their life and choices.
I think many people perceive the word as negative when you take those experiences or impressions and force your judgements and decisions on other people, or expect them to live up to your expectations, rather than expectations they set for themselves. At least that's how I see it.
I agree 100%!!!! Great way pf putting this into context! 
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| Posted 3/9/06 10:55 AM |
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LAMGAJ28
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Re: How judgemental are you?
Posted by dpli
I think it's all in how the word is perceived. I think we are all judgemental, looking at the definition that was posted, or how you were describing it. Everyone takes in what they see and experience around them and decides how they will let it affect their life and choices.
I think many people perceive the word as negative when you take those experiences or impressions and force your judgements and decisions on other people, or expect them to live up to your expectations, rather than expectations they set for themselves. At least that's how I see it.
You always said things very eloquently.
I couldn't have said it better and I agree so much with your statement.
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dpli
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Re: How judgemental are you?
Posted by MrsFresca
You always said things very eloquently.
I couldn't have said it better and I agree so much with your statement.
Awww, thanks
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| Posted 3/9/06 10:58 AM |
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unknown1
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Re: How judgemental are you?
Posted by MrsS2005
Posted by Elbee
Is it wrong to be judgemental?
I don't think it's really a good quality to possess, but I don't think it's as bad if you keep your judgments/opinions to yourself.
it's not a bad thing either
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