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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew
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ugh. vent.
my little sister is 15.
well, she has been upset since i told her the news.
i dont get it. i asked her to be godmother, and all.
i thought she came around but then my mom said she hasnt.
she said she doesnt want to see me til after the baby is born....
shes been crying over it since i told her....
she thinks my bf looks like a bum....
she says i havent been seeing him long enough...
she said (this is WEIRD) that she thinks she has a phobia of pregnant women who are close to her....
what this means we dont know.. my mom asked and she just said it had something to do with what she learned in health class.
i just wrote her a message on myspace. so i am waiting to hear back form her.
what would you do? i dont really get it. me and my mom think she needs to talk to someone... a guidence counsler or something, who knows....
its very strange.
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Posted 1/20/09 11:37 PM  |
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Jen2999
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Re: ugh. vent.
I def would ask the school social worker to speak with her.
Could she be jealous?
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| Posted 1/20/09 11:43 PM |
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babyonthebrain
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Re: ugh. vent.
That doesn't sound right at all. She should def. speak with someoen about her feelings. Teenagers these days can be so weird...lol
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| Posted 1/20/09 11:49 PM |
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Kidsaplenty
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Re: ugh. vent.
Maybe she is upset because she doesn't think you should be having a baby in your situation?
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| Posted 1/20/09 11:53 PM |
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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew
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Re: ugh. vent.
Posted by greeneyes361708
Maybe she is upset because she doesn't think you should be having a baby in your situation?
even if she THINKS that, fine... but when it comes down to it its really none of her business.... im happy, she should try to be happy for me too.
my mom had me in a MUCH worse situation and she knows this and my mom told her if she has anything bad to say about it she is basically saying it about her too....
i dont know. she hates everything about me.
she *CLAIMS* shes not "embarrassed" which is good, just the things she is saying are so strange.
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| Posted 1/20/09 11:56 PM |
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Kidsaplenty
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Re: ugh. vent.
Posted by Jesaroo
Posted by greeneyes361708
Maybe she is upset because she doesn't think you should be having a baby in your situation?
even if she THINKS that, fine... but when it comes down to it its really none of her business.... im happy, she should try to be happy for me too.
my mom had me in a MUCH worse situation and she knows this and my mom told her if she has anything bad to say about it she is basically saying it about her too....
i dont know. she hates everything about me.
she *CLAIMS* shes not "embarrassed" which is good, just the things she is saying are so strange.
IDK, teenagers are so strange. It could be jealously, or she's just being a normal evil teenager 
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| Posted 1/20/09 11:58 PM |
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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew
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Jes
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Re: ugh. vent.
true true.
the whole not wanting to see me til after birth and the "phobia" thing makes me wonder if itll be about my appearance
eh, who knows.... we'll see what she writes back
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| Posted 1/21/09 12:01 AM |
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Smalls72
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Re: ugh. vent.
maybe she should really speak to someone at her school. I hope everything works out for you. 
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| Posted 1/21/09 7:50 AM |
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partyof6
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Re: ugh. vent.
maybe she just feels like she will lose you and you will have less time for her.
Tell her you need her and you want her to help you pick out things and so on...
I bet thats it.
Whether or not she likes your b.f is none of her business she will get over it.
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| Posted 1/21/09 9:19 AM |
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MarisaK
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Re: ugh. vent.
Posted by Jesaroo
Posted by greeneyes361708
Maybe she is upset because she doesn't think you should be having a baby in your situation?
even if she THINKS that, fine... but when it comes down to it its really none of her business.... im happy, she should try to be happy for me too.
my mom had me in a MUCH worse situation and she knows this and my mom told her if she has anything bad to say about it she is basically saying it about her too....
i dont know. she hates everything about me.
she *CLAIMS* shes not "embarrassed" which is good, just the things she is saying are so strange.
Well, maybe that IS what whe thinks and she doesn't want to say it about her sister - Especially b/c your Mom basically told her if she DOES voice that opinion, she's talking badly about your Mom as well .......KWIM?
I don't think a 15 year old has to see a therapist b/c she's not overjoyed about her sister's pregnancy - 
Maybe she's jealous, maybe she's not -
Like you said, she thnks your BF is a bum and that you haven't known him long enough - Whether she's right or wrong is irrelevant, it's not her decision to make ........but at 15 I think she's old enough to form her own opinion of the situation - you may not agree with it - but it doesn't make her a 'weird teenager' .......
Maybe she IS just upset about your situation and she doesn't want to hurt you w/ the reasons why (or doesn't want to p*ss off your Mom -) so she's saying she has this 'phobia' of PG women ?? -
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| Posted 1/21/09 9:28 AM |
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Re: ugh. vent.
Posted by lastchance1222
maybe she just feels like she will lose you and you will have less time for her.
Tell her you need her and you want her to help you pick out things and so on...
I bet thats it.
Whether or not she likes your b.f is none of her business she will get over it.
I agree.
My little SILs were 13 and 15 when my DS was born and they got a little skeeved when I first said I was pregnant (I think the whole their brother has sex thing )
But they came around and they are WONDERFUL aunts to my DS. They came to the hospital and are so proud of their nephew
Maybe give her some time, if she doesn't come around then maybe ask the social worker to speak to her
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| Posted 1/21/09 9:49 AM |
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pinkandblue
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Re: ugh. vent.
you really have no control over how she is going to react or feel
she is old enough, she will need to get over it
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| Posted 1/21/09 9:55 AM |
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EricaAlt
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Re: ugh. vent.
Posted by MarisaK
Posted by Jesaroo
Posted by greeneyes361708
Maybe she is upset because she doesn't think you should be having a baby in your situation?
even if she THINKS that, fine... but when it comes down to it its really none of her business.... im happy, she should try to be happy for me too.
my mom had me in a MUCH worse situation and she knows this and my mom told her if she has anything bad to say about it she is basically saying it about her too....
i dont know. she hates everything about me.
she *CLAIMS* shes not "embarrassed" which is good, just the things she is saying are so strange.
Well, maybe that IS what whe thinks and she doesn't want to say it about her sister - Especially b/c your Mom basically told her if she DOES voice that opinion, she's talking badly about your Mom as well .......KWIM?
I don't think a 15 year old has to see a therapist b/c she's not overjoyed about her sister's pregnancy -
Maybe she's jealous, maybe she's not -
Like you said, she thnks your BF is a bum and that you haven't known him long enough - Whether she's right or wrong is irrelevant, it's not her decision to make ........but at 15 I think she's old enough to form her own opinion of the situation - you may not agree with it - but it doesn't make her a 'weird teenager' .......
Maybe she IS just upset about your situation and she doesn't want to hurt you w/ the reasons why (or doesn't want to p*ss off your Mom -) so she's saying she has this 'phobia' of PG women ?? -
ITA
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