LIFamilies.com - Long Island, NY


RSS
Articles Business Directory Blog Real Estate Community Forum Shop My Family Contests

Log In Chat Index Search Rules Lingo Create Account

Quick navigation:   

OMG maternity leave

Posted By Message

secretbabymaker
I love my kids

Member since 12/06

2503 total posts

Name:

OMG maternity leave

I am really upset right now, because I have not been at my job for a year I am not eligable for FMLA which would give me 12 weeks off, well I do get 6 weeks off paid and can request to use vacation time and unpaid leave time....So I requested to use 2 weeks vacation and two weeks unpaid which would bring my total time off to 10 weeks !!!!!!!!! Well I submit my request to my manager to give to the head of the dept and I find out that he said he didnt think I would take that much time offChat Icon What are you kidding me, isnt that like the standard!!!!!!!!!!!!! as pathetic as it is....I am so ******, its bad enough I need to leave my little baby after 10 weeks....am I crazzy for thinking this way!!!!!!!!!

Posted 1/16/09 9:23 AM
 
Long Island Weddings
Long Island's Largest Bridal Resource

thejohnsons
LIF Adolescent

Member since 11/06

848 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: OMG maternity leave

No. You're not crazy. I want as much time with my little one too. Good luck.Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/09 9:24 AM
 

MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!

Member since 5/06

14562 total posts

Name:
Marisa

Re: OMG maternity leave

No, you're not crazy for thinking that way as an expectant mother - But as a manager who recently hired a new employee, I can also see why they didn't 'expect you to take that much time off' ........

Posted 1/16/09 9:26 AM
 

BabyAvocado
Happy New Year

Member since 5/05

17334 total posts

Name:

Re: OMG maternity leave

No you're not crazy. I absolutely HATE the way most companies treat maternity leave in this country. Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/09 9:32 AM
 

secretbabymaker
I love my kids

Member since 12/06

2503 total posts

Name:

Re: OMG maternity leave

Well I am actually not that new, I was hired in Feb of 08 but that company was taken over by a bigger company which they say changed my start date to June instead of Feb, which is why they said I cant use FMLA

Posted 1/16/09 9:36 AM
 

DoublyBlessed09
LIF Adolescent

Member since 12/08

862 total posts

Name:
KK

Re: OMG maternity leave

Posted by secretbabymaker

Well I am actually not that new, I was hired in Feb of 08 but that company was taken over by a bigger company which they say changed my start date to June instead of Feb, which is why they said I cant use FMLA



That exuse of theirs doesn't sound very logical to me! Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/09 9:38 AM
 

Babyonmind
LIF Toddler

Member since 12/07

495 total posts

Name:
wishingfor3rd

Re: OMG maternity leave

thats not fair are they aloud to change your start date?

Posted 1/16/09 9:38 AM
 

MarisaK
HELLO Manolo !!

Member since 5/06

14562 total posts

Name:
Marisa

Re: OMG maternity leave

Posted by secretbabymaker

Well I am actually not that new, I was hired in Feb of 08 but that company was taken over by a bigger company which they say changed my start date to June instead of Feb, which is why they said I cant use FMLA



What ??? - I'd fight that one if I were you -

ESPECIALLY if you're due JUST in time to benefit from FMLA -

Posted 1/16/09 9:41 AM
 

Ababy4me
LIF Infant

Member since 1/09

129 total posts

Name:

Re: OMG maternity leave

Posted by secretbabymaker

Well I am actually not that new, I was hired in Feb of 08 but that company was taken over by a bigger company which they say changed my start date to June instead of Feb, which is why they said I cant use FMLA



Wow - that doesn't sound right to me! Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/09 9:48 AM
 

miraclebaby08
LIF Infant

Member since 12/08

83 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: OMG maternity leave

That definitely does not sound right. Why did they adjust your start date? Even though a company took over they should have "grandfathered" you. That's odd..have you spoken to HR?

Posted 1/16/09 9:51 AM
 

mrsgafforio
LIF Adult

Member since 3/07

3929 total posts

Name:
Christine

Re: OMG maternity leave

Posted by secretbabymaker

Well I am actually not that new, I was hired in Feb of 08 but that company was taken over by a bigger company which they say changed my start date to June instead of Feb, which is why they said I cant use FMLA



I am in the same boat except my company was just taken over this month!! I have no idea what I am entitiled to as they are keeping my hire date of my old firm. Noone has answers for me and I will probably have to go back after even less than 10 weeks!! I feel your pain!!

Posted 1/16/09 10:15 AM
 
 

Potentially Related Topics:

Topic Posted By Started Replies Forum
NYC teachers what did you do for maternity leave 04bride 3/11/06 8 Pregnancy
Maternity Leave... Chatham-Chick 3/2/06 14 Pregnancy
NYS Laws - Disability vs. Maternity Leave Elbee 2/14/06 6 Pregnancy
Anyone have maternity leave with ZERO pay? xoxo 2/11/06 24 Pregnancy
Great news on my maternity leave! Shelly 2/10/06 12 Pregnancy
maternity Leave.. Dee 1/30/06 13 Pregnancy
 
Quick navigation:   
Currently 161023 users on the LIFamilies.com Chat
New Businesses
1 More Rep
Carleton Hall of East Islip
J&A Building Services
LaraMae Health Coaching
Sonic Wellness
Julbaby Photography LLC
Ideal Uniforms
Teresa Geraghty Photography
Camelot Dream Homes
Long Island Wedding Boutique
MB Febus- Rodan & Fields
Camp Harbor
Market America-Shop.com
ACM Basement Waterproofing
Travel Tom

      Follow LIWeddings on Facebook

      Follow LIFamilies on Twitter
Long Island Bridal Shows