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Question about godparents

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thejohnsons
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Jen

Question about godparents

Does anyone know if the godparents can be of the same sex. DH and I only have brothers and we feel bad choosing one over the other. Thanks.

Posted 1/14/09 6:16 PM
 
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butterfly20
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Re: Question about godparents

all the things online seem to say one of each sex- by Canon Law...

Posted 1/14/09 6:20 PM
 

thejohnsons
LIF Adolescent

Member since 11/06

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Name:
Jen

Re: Question about godparents

Thank you. Thats what I thought.

Posted 1/14/09 6:22 PM
 

Dani922
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Danielle

Re: Question about godparents

Technically, they have to be one of each sex. However, we didn't have a godfather that the Church saw fit enough (long story) so we picked both of our sisters. DD's Baptismal certificate only has my sister's name as the godmother & a blank for the godfather. However, we had my sister & my SIL come up to the altar with us for the baptism & we will tell DD that her aunts are her godparents.

Posted 1/14/09 6:31 PM
 

thejohnsons
LIF Adolescent

Member since 11/06

848 total posts

Name:
Jen

Re: Question about godparents

Posted by Dani922

Technically, they have to be one of each sex. However, we didn't have a godfather that the Church saw fit enough (long story) so we picked both of our sisters. DD's Baptismal certificate only has my sister's name as the godmother & a blank for the godfather. However, we had my sister & my SIL come up to the altar with us for the baptism & we will tell DD that her aunts are her godparents.



Thanks. That sounds good. I just don't want anyone to have hurt feelings. This is so difficult.

Posted 1/14/09 6:35 PM
 

pandaworm
LIF Adult

Member since 8/08

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Name:
bethany

Re: Question about godparents

i'm assuming you're catholic (b/c of someone's mention of canon law) but if you're not then it really depends on your church.

Posted 1/14/09 7:17 PM
 

Meggo613
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Member since 2/07

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Name:
Megan

Re: Question about godparents

some churches will recognize same sex. a friend of mine baptised her son at a cathloic church with 2 god fathers. so it may depend on the situation. I would ask your church before you make any decisions

Posted 1/14/09 9:19 PM
 

ReiRei13
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Re: Question about godparents

Posted by butterfly20

all the things online seem to say one of each sex- by Canon Law...


My church also said that according to Canon Law it has to be one of each sex.

Posted 1/15/09 7:41 AM
 
 

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