over heard DH on phone....

So i feel so bad. I over heard dh on phone talking to one of his friends about how nervous he is about this pregnancy and how he will be more relaxed once october comes. I asked why and he said "because you will be farther along. I wish he wasn't so nervous.

Re: over heard DH on phone....

We had a very difficult time getting pregnant. I had a chemical last summer miscarried after my first IVF attempt, and then told I was carrying twins with this pregnancy only to lose one of them at 7 weeks. So, we were both very cautious very early on, and that 12 week mark seemed soooooooo far away. Then came time for the ultrascreen and I was beyond nervous because I was so scared they would see that the baby had stopped growing. The second I saw the baby squirming around and heard the heartbeat what a sense of relief I felt! My husband on the other hand became much more nervous than he was earlier on. I really want to enjoy this time in our lives, but it's so hard, and it's hard for me to see him try to hold his excitement back.

It's only natural to feel this way!

Re: over heard DH on phone....

Posted by MrsRbk

We had a very difficult time getting pregnant. I had a chemical last summer miscarried after my first IVF attempt, and then told I was carrying twins with this pregnancy only to lose one of them at 7 weeks. So, we were both very cautious very early on, and that 12 week mark seemed soooooooo far away. Then came time for the ultrascreen and I was beyond nervous because I was so scared they would see that the baby had stopped growing. The second I saw the baby squirming around and heard the heartbeat what a sense of relief I felt! My husband on the other hand became much more nervous than he was earlier on. I really want to enjoy this time in our lives, but it's so hard, and it's hard for me to see him try to hold his excitement back.

It's only natural to feel this way!