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Redhead
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The Forgiver or
In a situation where two people are dealing with forgiveness either giving it or asking for it...
Which do you think is harder....
Being the forgiver or the forgiven?
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Posted 1/20/06 10:08 AM  |
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Marcie
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Re: The Forgiver or
Being the forgiven
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| Posted 1/20/06 10:09 AM |
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dm24angel
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Re: The Forgiver or
Posted by Marcie
Being the forgiven
I agree
Its easy for me to forgive but when faced with being forgiven, it must mean I was wrong, did something wrong etc and thats hard on your pride etc...
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| Posted 1/20/06 10:11 AM |
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BabyAvocado
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Re: The Forgiver or
Being the forgiver.
Although it's hard to be the forgiven also, depending on how serious the offense was. Usually the bigger the offense, the harder it is to forgive.
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| Posted 1/20/06 10:11 AM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: The Forgiver or
Posted by Marcie
Being the forgiven
I agree.
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| Posted 1/20/06 10:12 AM |
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mskimmy98
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Re: The Forgiver or
I think being the forgiver.
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| Posted 1/20/06 10:12 AM |
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Redhead
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Re: The Forgiver or
Posted by BabyAvocado
Being the forgiver.
Although it's hard to be the forgiven also, depending on how serious the offense was. Usually the bigger the offense, the harder it is to forgive.
i agree
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LadyMaravilla
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Re: The Forgiver or
Posted by BabyAvocado
Being the forgiver.
Although it's hard to be the forgiven also, depending on how serious the offense was. Usually the bigger the offense, the harder it is to forgive.
I agree 100% you forgive but you don't forget. The offender moves on but the offended lives with it for a long time.
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| Posted 1/20/06 10:12 AM |
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baghag
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Re: The Forgiver or
Posted by LadyLainez
Posted by BabyAvocado
Being the forgiver.
Although it's hard to be the forgiven also, depending on how serious the offense was. Usually the bigger the offense, the harder it is to forgive.
I agree 100% you forgive but you don't forget. The offender moves on but the offended lives with it for a long time.
Ditto.
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| Posted 1/20/06 10:15 AM |
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Redhead
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Re: The Forgiver or
IMO it is much harder for the forgiver:
1. because most likely in this kind of case the forgiver was very hurt
2. they have to decide if they can even accept what happened and how that affects them as a person
3. IF they decide to forgive...acting holding up to that, meaning trying to let go and go on.
4. If they forgive the possiblility of suspicions, paranoia may still happen, even witht he best intentions...
5. If they chose not to forgive, ultimately it was their decision to end a relationship which in and of itself is hard
Message edited 1/20/2006 10:18:57 AM.
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Diane
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Re: The Forgiver or
Posted by Marcie
Being the forgiven
I agree too
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| Posted 1/20/06 10:19 AM |
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mskimmy98
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Re: The Forgiver or
Posted by Redhead
IMO it is much harder for the forgiver:
1. because most likely in this kind of case the forgiver was very hurt
2. they have to decide if they can even accept what happened and how that affects them as a person
3. IF they decide to forgive...acting holding up to that, meaning trying to let go and go on.
4. If they forgive the possiblility of suspicions, paranoia may still happen, even witht he best intentions...
5. If they chose not to forgive, ultimately it was their decision to end a relationship which in and of itself is hard
I agree 100%.. well said!
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| Posted 1/20/06 10:21 AM |
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Summer05
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Re: The Forgiver or
The forgiven
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IluvBo
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Re: The Forgiver or
Posted by baghag
Posted by LadyLainez
Posted by BabyAvocado
Being the forgiver.
Although it's hard to be the forgiven also, depending on how serious the offense was. Usually the bigger the offense, the harder it is to forgive.
I agree 100% you forgive but you don't forget. The offender moves on but the offended lives with it for a long time.
Ditto.
Totally agree!
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unknown1
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Re: The Forgiver or
Posted by Redhead
In a situation where two people are dealing with forgiveness either giving it or asking for it...
Which do you think is harder....
Being the forgiver or the forgiven?
The forgiver
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| Posted 1/20/06 11:08 AM |
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skygirl
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Re: The Forgiver or
Posted by nrthshgrl
Posted by Marcie
Being the forgiven
I agree.
I agree as well
ETA- it hard to admit dooing the wrong thing and fault as well as having to live with the consequences
Message edited 1/20/2006 11:19:04 AM.
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TwoGirls4Me
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Re: The Forgiver or
Posted by Redhead
Posted by BabyAvocado
Being the forgiver.
Although it's hard to be the forgiven also, depending on how serious the offense was. Usually the bigger the offense, the harder it is to forgive.
i agree
So do I
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