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I'm worried updated: he is fine

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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew

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Jes

I'm worried updated: he is fine

i dont know what to do

dh and i got in a fight last night lets say around 3am...
he left (by car)
i havnt heard from him since.

i checked his voicemail, he has not listened to the last two i left him. one was at 10:13am, one later.

he wont return my texts.

we were/are supposed to go to therepy at 1pm. he has work at 3pm.


what should i do????????????
im wondering if i should call hospitals and police stations.Chat Icon

eta: he said last night he was on his way to his sisters house on LI. she never heard ffrom him.




UPDATE: he is fine. now im not worried, just mad! he IS at his sisters house. not sure if she didnt know or if he just got there. thanks guys.

Message edited 5/1/2008 12:18:56 PM.

Posted 5/1/08 11:49 AM
 
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FelAndJon
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Felice (aka LuckyBride2004)

Re: I'm worried

I have no advice, just Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/1/08 11:50 AM
 

chikita315
Love

Member since 8/06

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M-lo

Re: I'm worried

Can you call any of his friends? Maybe someone he went to visit/stay with?

Posted 5/1/08 11:50 AM
 

Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew

Member since 5/05

14266 total posts

Name:
Jes

Re: I'm worried

Posted by chikita315

Can you call any of his friends? Maybe someone he went to visit/stay with?




he doesnt really have any friends on that caliber. he told me he was going to his sisters house but she said she never heard from him

Posted 5/1/08 11:51 AM
 

Beth
The Key to your new home....

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Re: I'm worried

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Posted 5/1/08 11:51 AM
 

HoneyBadger
YourWorstNightmare.

Member since 10/06

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Name:
BahBahBlackJeep

Re: I'm worried

I agree with the PP, maybe call some of his friends. He may have gone there instead of all the way out to the island.

Also, go to therapy, maybe he still intends to meet you there.

Posted 5/1/08 11:52 AM
 

MarathonKnitter
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EMBRACING CHANGE

Re: I'm worried

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Posted 5/1/08 11:52 AM
 

HoneyBadger
YourWorstNightmare.

Member since 10/06

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Name:
BahBahBlackJeep

Re: I'm worried

Posted by Jesaroo

Posted by chikita315

Can you call any of his friends? Maybe someone he went to visit/stay with?




he doesnt really have any friends on that caliber. he told me he was going to his sisters house but she said she never heard from him



Maybe she was just saying that b/c he wasn't ready to speak to you? Would she do that?

I would think if something bad happened to him you would have already found out.

Unfortunately, in my experiences, bad news travels fast.

Posted 5/1/08 11:53 AM
 

pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe

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Stephanie

Re: I'm worried

I am sure he is fine, just letting off steam.....Chat Icon

Posted 5/1/08 11:54 AM
 

Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew

Member since 5/05

14266 total posts

Name:
Jes

Re: I'm worried

i dont know, but if he is safe and sound i am PIZZED.

no, she'd never lie for him. if he was there she would tell me. she is getting worried too.

its just strange for him to totally not come home.

Posted 5/1/08 11:54 AM
 

luckystars3
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Julie

Re: I'm worried

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Posted 5/1/08 11:55 AM
 

HoneyBadger
YourWorstNightmare.

Member since 10/06

15979 total posts

Name:
BahBahBlackJeep

Re: I'm worried

Has your SIL tried calling him? Maybe he'll take her call and she can then let you know that he's ok.

Posted 5/1/08 11:55 AM
 

MrsMessina
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Re: I'm worried

what about leaving a message for your therapist to call him? Maybe he'd call her back to confirm the appointment or something--- and at least then you'd know he's ok.
Or could you *67 your phone first so he doesn't know who's calling--- would he just not pick up if it's you calling? Did his sister try to call him after hearing that he was supposed to head there last night and didn't show?

Posted 5/1/08 11:57 AM
 

Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew

Member since 5/05

14266 total posts

Name:
Jes

Re: I'm worried

i wont freak out until its work time.
i dont see his work bag or shoes so it is posible he packed a change of clothes and intends on going straight there.

Posted 5/1/08 11:57 AM
 

Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew

Member since 5/05

14266 total posts

Name:
Jes

Re: I'm worried

Posted by MrsMessina

what about leaving a message for your therapist to call him? Maybe he'd call her back to confirm the appointment or something--- and at least then you'd know he's ok.
Or could you *67 your phone first so he doesn't know who's calling--- would he just not pick up if it's you calling? Did his sister try to call him after hearing that he was supposed to head there last night and didn't show?




lol i tried *67. his sisters # is private so i thought he'd think it was her. no answer.

Posted 5/1/08 11:58 AM
 

LFitzy79
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Re: I'm worried

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don't worry too much, bad news tends to travel fast, he's probably planning on meeting you at therapy....

Posted 5/1/08 11:59 AM
 

J9-13
We're gonna be big sisters!

Member since 6/06

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Name:
J9

Re: I'm worried updated: he is fine

I'm glad to hear that he is ok. I would be a little upset about the whole thing too but the most important thing is that he is ok.
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Posted 5/1/08 12:57 PM
 

Jackie24
~We Did it~

Member since 7/06

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Jackie

Re: I'm worried updated: he is fine

im glad he's ok Chat Icon

Posted 5/1/08 8:40 PM
 

Wendy
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Re: I'm worried updated: he is fine

Did he show for therapy?

Posted 5/1/08 8:45 PM
 
 

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