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headoverheels
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do you think...

that some people are prone to causing drama, without meaning to, or do you think that if someone is a "known" sh!t-stirrer, that they are doing it intentionally?

Posted 3/20/08 3:26 PM
 
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HeathKernandez
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Re: do you think...

both. I think SOME people do it on purpose, and I think some people just have a natural tone to them that automatically makes other people go on the defense...

Posted 3/20/08 3:27 PM
 

bicosi
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Re: do you think...

Posted by carolinep24

both. I think SOME people do it on purpose, and I think some people just have a natural tone to them that automatically makes other people go on the defense...



I agree.

Posted 3/20/08 3:28 PM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: do you think...

I think that even expressing contrary points of view are now considered drama...which is sad.

we should be more open to discussion and differences of opinion without getting so heated.

Posted 3/20/08 3:30 PM
 

2BEANS
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Re: do you think...

Both. I see it at my job, there are those who just dont think which causes drama and those that RIVAL in it.

Posted 3/20/08 3:31 PM
 

headoverheels
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LB

Re: do you think...

Posted by Ophelia

I think that even expressing contrary points of view are now considered drama...which is sad.

we should be more open to discussion and differences of opinion without getting so heated.



i totally agree with this... but i truly am referring to people who create drama posts and make inappropriate comments, not just dissenting views.

Posted 3/20/08 3:31 PM
 

bicosi
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Re: do you think...

Posted by Ophelia

I think that even expressing contrary points of view are now considered drama...which is sad.

we should be more open to discussion and differences of opinion without getting so heated.



I agree.

I've noticed alot of that as well. I don't get into those discussions, (because really, most of the time I don't have a strong enough opinion or back-up to really contribute) but I do read the threads word-for-word and I love reading insight from both sides of every equation. It makes my mind sizzle. lol

Posted 3/20/08 3:33 PM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: do you think...

Posted by bicosi
I love reading insight from both sides of every equation. It makes my mind sizzle. lol



this is the only reason I participate! my brain would be mushier if it wasn't for some kind of though provloking debate now and again Chat Icon

and LB...in answer to your question...some people say things the wrong way, some people interpret things the wrong way...and some people are just a$$holes Chat Icon

Posted 3/20/08 3:36 PM
 

bicosi
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M

Re: do you think...

Posted by Ophelia

Posted by bicosi
I love reading insight from both sides of every equation. It makes my mind sizzle. lol



this is the only reason I participate! my brain would be mushier if it wasn't for some kind of though provloking debate now and again Chat Icon



I'll admit that your posts really puts mine through the ringer sometimes! lol Chat Icon

Posted 3/20/08 3:38 PM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: do you think...

Posted by bicosi

Posted by Ophelia

Posted by bicosi
I love reading insight from both sides of every equation. It makes my mind sizzle. lol



this is the only reason I participate! my brain would be mushier if it wasn't for some kind of though provloking debate now and again Chat Icon



I'll admit that your posts really puts mine through the ringer sometimes! lol Chat Icon



Imagine being married to me Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I think like this IRL..and I'm always wondering/questioning/pondering...I just "look" nicer than I "sound" maybe...cuz people in the real world think I am sweet Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/20/08 3:43 PM
 

bicosi
life is a carousel

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M

Re: do you think...

Posted by Ophelia

Posted by bicosi

Posted by Ophelia

Posted by bicosi
I love reading insight from both sides of every equation. It makes my mind sizzle. lol



this is the only reason I participate! my brain would be mushier if it wasn't for some kind of though provloking debate now and again Chat Icon



I'll admit that your posts really puts mine through the ringer sometimes! lol Chat Icon



Imagine being married to me Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon I think like this IRL..and I'm always wondering/questioning/pondering...I just "look" nicer than I "sound" maybe...cuz people in the real world think I am sweet Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon



oh no! lmaooo

Posted 3/20/08 3:46 PM
 

Ophelia
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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: do you think...

but in all seriousness, I enjoy hearing others opinions, and have even been swayed by others arguments on occassion, if not to completely change my mind...to at least see and acknowledge another point of view. which is something I love. Chat Icon

Posted 3/20/08 3:51 PM
 

Bxgell2
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Re: do you think...

Posted by Ophelia

I think that even expressing contrary points of view are now considered drama...which is sad.

we should be more open to discussion and differences of opinion without getting so heated.



Totally agree - I know that some people view me as a pot-stirrer but it's more that I just love delving into a good, intellectual debate every now and then. It's spices things up around here Chat Icon

Posted 3/20/08 3:58 PM
 

QuoteTheRaven424
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Re: do you think...

i really don't try to cause drama

it just sorta happens Chat Icon

Posted 3/20/08 4:07 PM
 

Katie111806
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Re: do you think...

Posted by Ophelia

I think that even expressing contrary points of view are now considered drama...which is sad.

we should be more open to discussion and differences of opinion without getting so heated.



i totally agree with this!

Posted 3/20/08 4:47 PM
 

donegal419
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Re: do you think...

Posted by BabySammie

Both. I see it at my job, there are those who just dont think which causes drama and those that RIVAL in it.



agreed....

Posted 3/20/08 4:57 PM
 

Goldi0218
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Re: do you think...

I much prefer to Chat Icon in privacy. I don't think that Ron and Liz have provided enough space for me to write my full opinion on this subject.

Posted 3/20/08 5:13 PM
 

JessInCA
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Re: do you think...

Posted by bicosi

Posted by carolinep24

both. I think SOME people do it on purpose, and I think some people just have a natural tone to them that automatically makes other people go on the defense...



I agree.



Same here. There are definitely the ones who do it on purpose, but I've also known people that are very contrary and then wonder why no one likes them!

Posted 3/20/08 5:40 PM
 

igottabeme
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Re: do you think...

i know that the one sh!t stirrer in my life does it cause she looks for attention. she must be bored with her own life and looks for drama.Chat Icon

Posted 3/20/08 5:41 PM
 

headoverheels
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Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

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LB

Re: do you think...

Posted by igottabeme

i know that the one sh!t stirrer in my life does it cause she looks for attention. she must be bored with her own life and looks for drama.Chat Icon



Chat Icon i can't imagine who that is Chat Icon

Posted 3/20/08 6:51 PM
 
 
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