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Sympathy cards & money?

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babymakes3
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Sympathy cards & money?

I'm sending a sympathy card to DH's cousin (she lost her baby at 32 weeks pregnant). We can't be there for the funeral but we are sending a card. Do I send money in the card? What amount is appropriate?

I haven't experienced a death as a married couple. The last string of deaths I experienced was in college and I never thought to donate or send money because I didn't have any.

Posted 3/15/08 10:01 PM
 
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Christine
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Re: Sympathy cards & money?

I wouldn't send money in the card - either send flowers, food or make a donation to a relevant charity.

Posted 3/15/08 10:07 PM
 

KateDevine
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Re: Sympathy cards & money?

I've never heard of sending money.

I'd send food or make a donation, but not send money unless you feel the family needs it for the burial or something like that.Chat Icon

Posted 3/15/08 10:07 PM
 

Arieschick29
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Re: Sympathy cards & money?

I thought you only send money for a happy occasion- birthdays for example.

I would only send the card and maybe order some flowers or a basket as a sympathy gift.

Posted 3/15/08 10:20 PM
 

june262004
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Re: Sympathy cards & money?

Never heard of sending money.

Send food or Flowers

Posted 3/15/08 10:23 PM
 

MrsYank
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Re: Sympathy cards & money?

actually a lot of Italians send money when someone passes (or we used to?) but in this sitch I prob wouldn't. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 3/15/08 10:37 PM
 

butterfly20
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Re: Sympathy cards & money?

money is the italian way... most people do flowers or such... those edible fruit arrangements are nice

Posted 3/15/08 10:39 PM
 

Reese32
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Re: Sympathy cards & money?

FM

Posted 3/15/08 10:41 PM
 
 

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