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Preguntas
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I have to say, the fear is gone
Up until now, I have always felt like a bad mom to be, for dreading the actual birth of my child. I was terrified of labor, and of finally knowing the reality of motherhood.
I would read all these posts by women who were so anxious for the baby to be here already, and I would feel so guilty because I was being so selfish for wanting it to be stalled as long as possible.
Well I'm over it. I feel like spit. I'm ready. Please come out now, child.
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Re: I have to say, the fear is gone
Posted by Preguntas
Up until now, I have always felt like a bad mom to be, for dreading the actual birth of my child. I was terrified of labor, and of finally knowing the reality of motherhood.
I would read all these posts by women who were so anxious for the baby to be here already, and I would feel so guilty because I was being so selfish for wanting it to be stalled as long as possible.
Well I'm over it. I feel like spit. I'm ready. Please come out now, child.
OH dear god up above and every saint under the sun,,,,I could have wrote that! I 'm DONE I hate being home alone DH owns his own restaurant he leaves at 11 and is back home at 11pm OMG You just got me going this is my day watch tv 5 min lay down 7 min computer 12 min OMG I WILL S T F UP
BABY Mommy is ready come on !
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| Posted 3/11/08 4:28 PM |
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Preguntas
it's pretty precious
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Re: I have to say, the fear is gone
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| Posted 3/11/08 4:31 PM |
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bicosi
life is a carousel
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Re: I have to say, the fear is gone
And this is why we're pregnant for so dang long! lol I am a true believer that you have this child when you are good and ready. You'll be fantastic! 
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Bluepixie
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Re: I have to say, the fear is gone
You're gonna be the coolest mom there is!
Come out, Max- Mom is going to pluck you from your warm spot if you don't leave soon!!
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| Posted 3/11/08 4:33 PM |
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jambalady
Is it summer yet?
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Re: I have to say, the fear is gone
Is it a spiritual lifting, enlightening-type feeling where you just floated above yourself and saw what a wonderful mom you will be . . .
OR
more of a "GET THIS KID OUT OF ME, I"M DONE" type feeling??? 
J/K - whatever it is, Max is going to be lucky to have you as a mom!
You're like amusement in a bottle, how can you not you!!!
You'll be wonderful mom!!
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| Posted 3/11/08 4:39 PM |
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Preguntas
it's pretty precious
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Re: I have to say, the fear is gone
Posted by jambalady
more of a "GET THIS KID OUT OF ME, I"M DONE" type feeling???
totally. I no longer am afraid of labor. I welcome it. I also welcome sleeping for 2 hours at a time in between feedings.
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| Posted 3/11/08 4:44 PM |
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Re: I have to say, the fear is gone
I am so with you! I even told my ob, I am done being pregnant, lets get this baby out asap... I remember asking everyone here if they were scared about giving birth and btdt moms kept saying " eventually you wont be scared anymore and will just want your baby to be born" and I never understood, I thought they were just crazy, but its so true!
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| Posted 3/11/08 5:41 PM |
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Tara77
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Re: I have to say, the fear is gone
Posted by Maybeababyin08
I am so with you! I even told my ob, I am done being pregnant, lets get this baby out asap... I remember asking everyone here if they were scared about giving birth and btdt moms kept saying " eventually you wont be scared anymore and will just want your baby to be born" and I never understood, I thought they were just crazy, but its so true!
It IS so true! Somehow episiotomy talk came up with my BIL's girlfriend and me today, and I was like seriously, I really don't care WHAT they have to do to me anymore, I just want this baby to come already!!! This whole time cutting and tearing scared the begeezus out of me!
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| Posted 3/11/08 5:44 PM |
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eroxgirl
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Re: I have to say, the fear is gone
Posted by Preguntas
Please come out now, child.
Go ahead. Touch 'em 
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mrspetunia77
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Re: I have to say, the fear is gone
i am somehow able to simultaneously exist in great fear and immense desire to get the thing out already!
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| Posted 3/11/08 6:09 PM |
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JChia
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Re: I have to say, the fear is gone
Posted by Tara77
It IS so true! Somehow episiotomy talk came up with my BIL's girlfriend and me today, and I was like seriously, I really don't care WHAT they have to do to me anymore, I just want this baby to come already!!! This whole time cutting and tearing scared the begeezus out of me!
ITA!!!
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| Posted 3/11/08 6:55 PM |
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LovingLife
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Re: I have to say, the fear is gone
Posted by Preguntas
Up until now, I have always felt like a bad mom to be, for dreading the actual birth of my child. I was terrified of labor, and of finally knowing the reality of motherhood.
I would read all these posts by women who were so anxious for the baby to be here already, and I would feel so guilty because I was being so selfish for wanting it to be stalled as long as possible.
Well I'm over it. I feel like spit. I'm ready. Please come out now, child.
I could have written this myself...up to recently I was not ready...I even said I need more time....NOW....YEAH RIGHT....COME OUT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!
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