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rojerono
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Name: Jeannie
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When Someone 'Borrows' - Part 2
You work in an office environment with a small group of people who all get along.
For birthdays you each chip in for a gift for the birthday person. One person consistantly pledges X amount of dollars toward the gift but never has X amount to give when collection day comes up and promises to give later.
Do you continue to ask for it? Or do you write it off? After the first few times do you stop asking the person? Or do you ask and not count their 'contribution' in when doing the actual tally? Do you let them sign the card?
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Posted 3/10/08 10:34 AM |
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LFitzy79
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Name: Lauren
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Re: When Someone 'Borrows' - Part 2
Posted by rojerono
You work in an office environment with a small group of people who all get along.
For birthdays you each chip in for a gift for the birthday person. One person consistantly pledges X amount of dollars toward the gift but never has X amount to give when collection day comes up and promises to give later.
Do you continue to ask for it? Or do you write it off? After the first few times do you stop asking the person? Or do you ask and not count their 'contribution' in when doing the actual tally? Do you let them sign the card?
next birthday, make her go buy the present and get the card!
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Posted 3/10/08 10:35 AM |
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rojerono
Happiest.

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Name: Jeannie
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Re: When Someone 'Borrows' - Part 2
Posted by LFitzy79
Posted by rojerono
You work in an office environment with a small group of people who all get along.
For birthdays you each chip in for a gift for the birthday person. One person consistantly pledges X amount of dollars toward the gift but never has X amount to give when collection day comes up and promises to give later.
Do you continue to ask for it? Or do you write it off? After the first few times do you stop asking the person? Or do you ask and not count their 'contribution' in when doing the actual tally? Do you let them sign the card?
next birthday, make her go buy the present and get the card!
Tried that once and she FORGOT to bring the present to the office. After 3 months we stopped asking where it was.
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Posted 3/10/08 10:36 AM |
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Re: When Someone 'Borrows' - Part 2
next time I would ask the other person to pick up and pay for the gift and they wouldnt dare ask for the $$$$$
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Posted 3/10/08 10:36 AM |
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kerrycec03
Mom of 2 beautiful boys!!

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Name: Kerry
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Re: When Someone 'Borrows' - Part 2
Posted by MamaNDaddyof3
next time I would ask the other person to pick up and pay for the gift and they wouldnt dare ask for the $$$$$
me too. Have that person do the collection and gift buying so they realize was PITA it can be
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Posted 3/10/08 10:38 AM |
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saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!

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Re: When Someone 'Borrows' - Part 2
I would just stop asking. I get that it's only a few bucks each time, but if it's anything like my old office, there were birthdays every week. And that adds up.
Leave this person out and see if they come to you.
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Posted 3/10/08 10:40 AM |
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MeNBobs
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Re: When Someone 'Borrows' - Part 2
I would send an email out that you are buying a gift and if anyone would like to contribute to please come to your desk. I would say the card can only be signed when cash is given. Say that is your way of tracking who has paid and who still owes.
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Posted 3/10/08 10:43 AM |
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hbugal
Lesigh

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Re: When Someone 'Borrows' - Part 2
Start taking checks!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted 3/10/08 10:50 AM |
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headoverheels
s'il vous plaît

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Name: LB
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Re: When Someone 'Borrows' - Part 2
i remind them until the day the gift/gift card is going to be purchased and then that's it. they don't get to sign the card if they didn't contribute.
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Posted 3/10/08 10:56 AM |
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