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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
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I just did something so incredibly horrible.
I kicked JT out of the house.  I don't know what is wrong with me. I feel like an absolute psycho right now. I totally picked a fight with him over nothing and then kicked him out. He didn't even do anything. I'm such a horrible person I don't even know what to do. I don't know why I'm even posting this here, but I don't know what else to do I feel so absolutely crazy right now
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Posted 12/22/05 2:56 PM  |
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dpli
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
awww, it's probably the hormones and the stress of the holiday. I am sure he'll get over it if you apologize.
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| Posted 12/22/05 2:58 PM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
I'm just so horrible. I have the most amazing husband anyone could ask for and I just treated him like a piece of sh-t.
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| Posted 12/22/05 2:59 PM |
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saraH
happy birthday sweet kate!
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I know that God exsists, I held her in my arms...
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
you are not a horrible person. stop beating yourself up. just talk to him and i'm sure you can work things out
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| Posted 12/22/05 3:01 PM |
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LadyMaravilla
Fall Is Here
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Sonia
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
Rachel, don't kill yourself over it. It's called hormones, stress, and part of being a woman. Once you are calm and feeling better I would either call him or leave him a note to apologize. 
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| Posted 12/22/05 3:07 PM |
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Redhead
You Live, You Learn
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| Posted 12/22/05 3:08 PM |
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Moehick
Ready for the sun!
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
Call him and apologize! Tell him to come home so you two can talk
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| Posted 12/22/05 3:08 PM |
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leighla
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
I think I remember that a while ago he threw a mini-fit and then threw a can of soda across the room, right?
Point is, we all do silly and stupid and hurtful things sometimes and the strength of the relationship is in getting over those things and moving past them.
I'm sure he will forgive you, just like you forgave him.
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| Posted 12/22/05 3:12 PM |
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nrthshgrl
It goes fast. Pay attention.
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
Don't be so hard on yourself. I hate to just blame everything on pregnancy but when you're pregnant, it really is a difficult time for most people. Your hormones are trying to stabilize, combined with the fact that any little thing DHs do are magnified a million times because NOW you are tied for life.
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| Posted 12/22/05 3:25 PM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
Thanks girls. No sooner than I posted this, he came home. He understood. I'm just an emotional basketcase right now. I really DO have the most amazing husband. And to whomever reminded me of the soda can incident, thank you! That made me feel a little better.
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| Posted 12/22/05 3:58 PM |
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JennChris
life moves fast
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
When you calm down call him and tell him to come home to talk I cannot even tell you the battles I had with my DH when I was pregnant... it makes you a little cranky... I'm sure he understands... my DH tried and tried to be understanding, lucky for him it was only 9 months
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| Posted 12/22/05 4:01 PM |
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Sweetpea130000
My Love!
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
Glad things worked out!
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| Posted 12/22/05 4:01 PM |
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Jesaroo
is not the girl you knew
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
poor guy. dont worry rach, we all do it--- at least i do.
call him up and say how incredibly sorry you are and how wonderful he is and how much you love him.
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| Posted 12/22/05 4:03 PM |
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BaroqueMama
Chase is one!
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
Posted by Lolita4Life
poor guy. dont worry rach, we all do it--- at least i do.
call him up and say how incredibly sorry you are and how wonderful he is and how much you love him.
I didn't even have to. He didn't go too far
I'm glad to hear I'm not alone in this, though. I was thinking I was this horrible monster. JT and I hardly EVER fight. We disagree, but we're more talkers than fighters. Not that I'm happy anyone else has had a huge fight like that with their husband, but I just can't believe I did that.
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| Posted 12/22/05 4:05 PM |
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GenLCSW
Baby # 3 is here!!!
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
Dont worry..I have done it too...its a horrible feeling but after you calm down you could think about it rationally and talk to him.
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| Posted 12/22/05 4:07 PM |
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Myrockette
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| Posted 12/22/05 4:12 PM |
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mishy
My Girls
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
Damn hormones, I get so angry sometimes and if I can cool myself down before I explode I am good but then other times I go off then I feel silly afterwards!!!!
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| Posted 12/22/05 4:45 PM |
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kelswiss
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| Posted 12/22/05 4:47 PM |
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PiyoPika566
talk to the hand
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
don't be too hard on yourself, it happens to most of us.. just a few months ago I was going thru my "girlie days" .. turned into a crazy b*itch, almost broke off my engagement and asked FH to move out! 
I soon came to my senses and my wonderful FH wasn't even mad at me at all.. how I got so lucky to find him.. I'll never know 
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| Posted 12/22/05 5:08 PM |
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JE7391
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
we ALL have those moments! you guys will talk it out!
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| Posted 12/22/05 6:21 PM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
Glad things worked out
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| Posted 12/22/05 6:57 PM |
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Re: I just did something so incredibly horrible.
Your pregnancy hormones can really make you bonkers. Don't beat yourself up over it. Just give that JT a big fat hug and kiss
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