isnt it annoying!

i just want to say that everyone carries differently, never believe anything or be offended when people say "oh u must be carrying a ...."............ive even heard some people say "u must be carrying a girl bc she is taking your good looks" (girls taking the beauty from their moms!!) ***???!!

so its crazy....it doesnt matter what u are having it is your body....your telling me that at 5'9" im going to carry a girl the same way a 5'3" person would??

no........

and in the meantime, think up some mean comments back whenever u hear something like this.......

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I totally agree with you. I am 6'0" and no way am I carrying the same way someone shorter than me is.

People can say what they want... AND THEY WILL. I just look at them, nod politely, and walk away.

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I know people really dont know how to act! When I was 27 weeks some stupid lady Oh are you pregnant??? No I always have my stomach sticking out 92 feet in front of me! Just ingnore them!

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There is a Filipino woman who works in the cafeteria in my building. I see her every morning and every morning she asks how I'm feeling.

One morning she said to me, "You're having a girl"...and I almost ripped her head off (b/c I felt like crap that day and just assumed it was one of those "beauty drawn" comments").

Nope. Apparently in her country, the more beautiful you look when pregnant...the more you glow/smile, the happier you look - means you're carrying a girl.

I like the way they think.

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I remember one of DH's friend's girlfriends saying to me at 21w "you're pregnant? oooooh! I just thuoght you looked like you put on weight." Idiot.

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People are just downright rude.

If I have to hear one more person say to me "well, when I was pregnant with...." I will puke in their face and say "you had morning sickness?"