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Niblet
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Name: Cher
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Friendship
Do you think it is possible for 3 female friends to be EQUALLY close with one another?
Or do you think that 2 of the friends will be a bit "tighter" or have a stronger bond~ regardless of how much they love the 3rd girl and appreciate her friendship?
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Posted 1/16/08 5:03 PM |
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Re: Friendship
Two times in my life I was part of a triplet friendship. Both times, I did feel like it waxed and waned. Sometimes I felt like I was closer to one friend than the other, and sometimes I felt like the two friends were closer to each other than to me. I don't think it's equal all the time, but I think it evens out, if that makes sense.
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Posted 1/16/08 5:08 PM |
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Preguntas
it's pretty precious

Member since 1/07 3839 total posts
Name: Lauren
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Re: Friendship
Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.
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Posted 1/16/08 5:10 PM |
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Niblet
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Member since 5/07 922 total posts
Name: Cher
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Re: Friendship
Posted by Preguntas
Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.
Maybe I'm a perv....but I immediately thought of the sexual connotation of the term Daisy Chain.
I was strictly referring to freindship.
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Posted 1/16/08 5:14 PM |
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Preguntas
it's pretty precious

Member since 1/07 3839 total posts
Name: Lauren
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Re: Friendship
Posted by Niblet
Posted by Preguntas
Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.
Maybe I'm a perv....but I immediately thought of the sexual connotation of the term Daisy Chain.
I was strictly referring to freindship.
I wa salso referring to pervertness. I am unable to take things seriously.
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Posted 1/16/08 5:22 PM |
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Niblet
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Member since 5/07 922 total posts
Name: Cher
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Re: Friendship
Posted by Preguntas
Posted by Niblet
Posted by Preguntas
Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.
Maybe I'm a perv....but I immediately thought of the sexual connotation of the term Daisy Chain.
I was strictly referring to freindship.
I wa salso referring to pervertness. I am unable to take things seriously.
Oh, good! Then I know I am in good compaNY
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Posted 1/16/08 5:31 PM |
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Ophelia
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Re: Friendship
Posted by Preguntas
Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.
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Posted 1/16/08 5:36 PM |
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Re: Friendship
Message edited 11/15/2011 9:50:46 PM.
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Posted 1/16/08 5:38 PM |
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Re: Friendship
Posted by Preguntas
Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.
omg you are on fire today!
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Posted 1/16/08 5:38 PM |
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Ophelia
she's baaccckkkk ;)

Member since 5/06 23378 total posts
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Re: Friendship
Posted by imthekevinofcindyandkevin
Posted by Preguntas
Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.
except the guy with the watering can
every daisy needs a sprinkle every now and then...
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Posted 1/16/08 5:40 PM |
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Re: Friendship
Hmm not sure...to me there might always be an odd man out at one time or another. I suppose its possible though.
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Posted 1/16/08 6:54 PM |
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DaniJude
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Name: Danielle
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Re: Friendship
Posted by missus-hbradio
Hmm not sure...to me there might always be an odd man out at one time or another. I suppose its possible though.
i agree.
i've been there before - and when i became friends with the first person and then another friend was intro'd - i was like "well, it's just a matter of time" haha knowing that one person is always going to get jealous and sure enough - it just didn't work. i was never the jealous one - b/c i'm secure - but yeah, it's hard for that to work - but i guess it can be possible for some.
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Posted 1/16/08 7:42 PM |
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islandersgirl74
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Re: Friendship
definitly possible with 3or 4!!. Myself, my twin and our 2 best friends from high school have the greatest friednship in the world.
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Posted 1/16/08 10:22 PM |
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beautyq115
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Re: Friendship
NO...When I was in college I was very close with two girls...I actually was friends with each of them independently at first then we pledged our sorority . There was always an odd man out. Now they are best friends and I am not speaking to either one
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Posted 1/16/08 10:34 PM |
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watersdeb04
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Name: Deb
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Re: Friendship
I'm the odd man out with most of DH's friends' wives. My female friends are scattered all over LI and FL so none of them or I am the odd man out. I hope this makes sense.
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Posted 1/17/08 8:43 AM |
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headoverheels
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Name: LB
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Re: Friendship
hmm...
well in HS i was clsoe with two girls, they were closer with each other, so in that instance i would say yes.
right now i am good friend with two girls, i am close with one, and that girl is close with the third girl, and although the third girl and i are good friends, we're not as close as i am with the first or as close as she is with the first.
hope that made sense
so i guess that i believe in most instances it is possible to be equally close, but not likely.
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Posted 1/17/08 8:46 AM |
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mka06
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Name: Melis
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Re: Friendship
i think it's possible to be friends, and while with everything there are exceptions here and there, i think it is highly unlikely that all three would be equally as close with each.
i was part of a three person BF group of girls in hs. i was definitely closer to one girl than the other was to either of us. It stayed that way for quite some time - and then at some piont in college or post-college (i can't remember which) the two of them became closer.
years later - i don't speak to either. i assume they are still close.
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Posted 1/17/08 8:51 AM |
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2PreciousBlessings
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Re: Friendship
I have three best friends and we are super super close to each other equally.
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Posted 1/17/08 8:53 AM |
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Bxgell2
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Name: Beth
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Re: Friendship
I have a circle of two other friends who live in Philly with me. We are tremendously close, but in different ways with one another. BUt, I wouldn't say that anyone's friendship with the other is deeper - it's pretty much equal.
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Posted 1/17/08 9:21 AM |
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FelAndJon
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Name: Felice (aka LuckyBride2004)
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Re: Friendship
It depends For the most part, it depends on who sees who more. I think friendships can wax and wane at times and sometimes I am closer with others than at other times. I also know though, that if I ever needed any of my girlfriends, they would be there in a hearbeat. They also know this about me.
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Posted 1/17/08 11:55 AM |
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