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Niblet
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Friendship

Do you think it is possible for 3 female friends to be EQUALLY close with one another?

Or do you think that 2 of the friends will be a bit "tighter" or have a stronger bond~ regardless of how much they love the 3rd girl and appreciate her friendship?

Posted 1/16/08 5:03 PM
 
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glinda-goodwitch
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Name:
Beth

Re: Friendship

Two times in my life I was part of a triplet friendship. Both times, I did feel like it waxed and waned. Sometimes I felt like I was closer to one friend than the other, and sometimes I felt like the two friends were closer to each other than to me. I don't think it's equal all the time, but I think it evens out, if that makes sense.

Posted 1/16/08 5:08 PM
 

Preguntas
it's pretty precious

Member since 1/07

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Name:
Lauren

Re: Friendship

Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.

Posted 1/16/08 5:10 PM
 

Niblet
LIF Adult

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Name:
Cher

Re: Friendship

Posted by Preguntas

Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.



Chat Icon Maybe I'm a perv....but I immediately thought of the sexual connotation of the term Daisy Chain.

I was strictly referring to freindship. Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/08 5:14 PM
 

Preguntas
it's pretty precious

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Lauren

Re: Friendship

Posted by Niblet

Posted by Preguntas

Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.



Chat Icon Maybe I'm a perv....but I immediately thought of the sexual connotation of the term Daisy Chain.

I was strictly referring to freindship. Chat Icon



I wa salso referring to pervertness.
I am unable to take things seriously.

Posted 1/16/08 5:22 PM
 

Niblet
LIF Adult

Member since 5/07

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Name:
Cher

Re: Friendship

Posted by Preguntas

Posted by Niblet

Posted by Preguntas

Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.



Chat Icon Maybe I'm a perv....but I immediately thought of the sexual connotation of the term Daisy Chain.

I was strictly referring to freindship. Chat Icon



I wa salso referring to pervertness.
I am unable to take things seriously.



Oh, good! Then I know I am in good compaNY

Posted 1/16/08 5:31 PM
 

Ophelia
she's baaccckkkk ;)

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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: Friendship

Posted by Preguntas

Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.



Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/08 5:36 PM
 

itkocak

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Re: Friendship

Message edited 11/15/2011 9:50:46 PM.

Posted 1/16/08 5:38 PM
 

-DonnaMarie-
<3

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Re: Friendship

Posted by Preguntas

Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.



omg you are on fire today! Chat Icon

Posted 1/16/08 5:38 PM
 

Ophelia
she's baaccckkkk ;)

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remember, when Gulliver traveled....

Re: Friendship

Posted by imthekevinofcindyandkevin

Posted by Preguntas

Ina daisy chain, no one is left out.



except the guy with the watering can



every daisy needs a sprinkle every now and then...

Posted 1/16/08 5:40 PM
 

missus-hbradio
Twin mommy

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Re: Friendship

Hmm not sure...to me there might always be an odd man out at one time or another. I suppose its possible though.

Posted 1/16/08 6:54 PM
 

DaniJude
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Member since 11/06

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Danielle

Re: Friendship

Posted by missus-hbradio

Hmm not sure...to me there might always be an odd man out at one time or another. I suppose its possible though.



i agree.

i've been there before - and when i became friends with the first person and then another friend was intro'd - i was like "well, it's just a matter of time" haha knowing that one person is always going to get jealous and sure enough - it just didn't work. i was never the jealous one - b/c i'm secure - but yeah, it's hard for that to work - but i guess it can be possible for some.

Posted 1/16/08 7:42 PM
 

islandersgirl74
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Member since 6/06

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Michelle

Re: Friendship

definitly possible with 3or 4!!. Myself, my twin and our 2 best friends from high school have the greatest friednship in the world.

Posted 1/16/08 10:22 PM
 

beautyq115
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Member since 5/05

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Name:
Me

Re: Friendship

NO...When I was in college I was very close with two girls...I actually was friends with each of them independently at first then we pledged our sorority . There was always an odd man out. Now they are best friends and I am not speaking to either one

Posted 1/16/08 10:34 PM
 

watersdeb04
Back to school is here

Member since 12/07

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Name:
Deb

Re: Friendship

I'm the odd man out with most of DH's friends' wives. My female friends are scattered all over LI and FL so none of them or I am the odd man out. I hope this makes sense.

Posted 1/17/08 8:43 AM
 

headoverheels
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Member since 6/07

42079 total posts

Name:
LB

Re: Friendship

hmm...

well in HS i was clsoe with two girls, they were closer with each other, so in that instance i would say yes.

right now i am good friend with two girls, i am close with one, and that girl is close with the third girl, and although the third girl and i are good friends, we're not as close as i am with the first or as close as she is with the first.

hope that made sense Chat Icon

so i guess that i believe in most instances it is possible to be equally close, but not likely.

Posted 1/17/08 8:46 AM
 

mka06
LIF Adult

Member since 8/06

1079 total posts

Name:
Melis

Re: Friendship

i think it's possible to be friends, and while with everything there are exceptions here and there, i think it is highly unlikely that all three would be equally as close with each.

i was part of a three person BF group of girls in hs. i was definitely closer to one girl than the other was to either of us. It stayed that way for quite some time - and then at some piont in college or post-college (i can't remember which) the two of them became closer.

years later - i don't speak to either. i assume they are still close.

Posted 1/17/08 8:51 AM
 

2PreciousBlessings
The Perfect Pair

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Name:
Best Wife & Mommy

Re: Friendship

I have three best friends and we are super super close to each other equally.

Posted 1/17/08 8:53 AM
 

Bxgell2
Perfection

Member since 5/05

16438 total posts

Name:
Beth

Re: Friendship

I have a circle of two other friends who live in Philly with me. We are tremendously close, but in different ways with one another. BUt, I wouldn't say that anyone's friendship with the other is deeper - it's pretty much equal.

Posted 1/17/08 9:21 AM
 

FelAndJon
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Member since 6/05

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Name:
Felice (aka LuckyBride2004)

Re: Friendship

It depends Chat Icon
For the most part, it depends on who sees who more. I think friendships can wax and wane at times and sometimes I am closer with others than at other times. I also know though, that if I ever needed any of my girlfriends, they would be there in a hearbeat. They also know this about me.

Posted 1/17/08 11:55 AM
 
 

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