Feeling Bad Toady-UPDATE

Hi

I know I am very new around here but all of your posts that I have been reading makes me realize how I am not alone. I really needed to vent. My best friend springs on me she might be PG and is ten days late and still have not tested that in itself blew my mind. After everything that as happened to me, 3 failed IVF a surgery and now this thing with my blood I feel sooo bad for myself. I am not sure how to react if she tells me its BFP or what to do. I feel terrible that I am not "happy" for them. This has really knocked me down. Thanks ladies for letting me vent. I wish everyone here the best of luck and tons of

Well I got the news yesterday. She got her BFP. Needless to say I am feeling really bad. I know I have to think postive that it will work for me but I just can not believe she got PG and was not even trying. Sorry for the rant. And know I am totally obbesed with seeing the hematoglist on friday and that they are going to find something wrong that can not be fixed. Thanks for listening.

Message edited 10/16/2007 12:18:17 PM.

Re: Feeling Bad Toady

I'm sorry...I know how you feel. Last year, my friend found out she was pg and was afraid to tell me. When she did, I wasn't exactly thrilled, but eventually got better about it.
Take your time adjusting, it's hardest when old friends get pg and you have been trying for so long.

Re: Feeling Bad Toady

Thank you.

I know your right. I am sure in time I will be able to deal with this. I feel like everyone I know is either has kids and more then 1 or PG. I really need to get a hold of myself today!!

Re: Feeling Bad Toady

We've all felt how you're feeling. It's hard to be happy for someone that has (or may have) what we've been longing for and trying for, but we manage to, usually.
Whenever you need to vent or throw a pity party, there's always somewhere on here ready to join in--- this is my biggest life saver when I look around and no one around me understands.
Hope you feel better soon!

Re: Feeling Bad Toady-UPDATE

I added my update on my first post.

Re: Feeling Bad Toady-UPDATE

Been there and know how hard it is! BF had 2 before I was even pregnant!

Infertiility is really hard to deal with and part of the dealing process is making sure that you have someone to talk to! This was the only way I made it through the IVF process!

Use this board! There are a lot of ladies here with TONS of knowledge! I wish you all the best!

Re: Feeling Bad Toady-UPDATE

I know the feeling. My SIL and her boyfriend broke up and then w/in a couple of weeks after she found out that she was PG. She's 2 years younger than I am and she had the baby right before our wedding (less than a month). I still look at him and feel a sharp jab a lot of the time b/c I feel like it should've been us- we've been together for 10 years and married 3 and are stable enough financially, relationship wise, etc.... I can totally relate