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janet
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PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
Ok here is the set up
I started bowling tonight and there is a couple who is also on the league. The wife of this couple exspodes tonight and walks out for what reason unknown to me is about me she feels that her dh follows me out when i go to have a ciggie or in the bar to get a drink or vis versa.... so I AM TO BLAME FOR HER INSERCUTIES UMMMM not i WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM. first he is twich my age, second i just lost my dh, 3 just not like that, never have never will be.. HE IS MARRIED... Ok but this is not the reason I am so upset....
My best friend(and MOH) is on my team and telling me I SHOULD WATCH OUT for him and stay away from him, talked behind my back to other people saying I AM WRONG
 PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE but i not to go into the bar to get a drink if he is there , not to go outside because he is there, heck i can't even call 911 becasue he is a emt that covers my block AM I WRONG should i be the one who watchs where he goes so it looks like even more so that i am "watching him" Ok sorry i am done venting Please be honnest
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bklyngirl
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
its not your fault. the girl should take it out on her husband. if she doesn't want her husband to follow u, then she should tell him
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| Posted 9/9/07 9:58 PM |
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mrsmeyer06
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
First off I am SOOOOOOOOOOO sorry for your loss I don't know what I would do if I lost my dear DH.
You are NOT wrong at all. Who the hell is this guy. Why would your best friend do that to you. You have no control over what this guy does or where he goes...
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| Posted 9/9/07 10:01 PM |
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SweetestOfPeas
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
her husband is a POS and she's mad at you?  that's nice!
don't give it a 2nd thought.
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| Posted 9/9/07 10:03 PM |
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Tany
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
don't let it bother you mama!!
you did nothing wrong, he is the jerk.
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| Posted 9/9/07 10:05 PM |
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lvdolphins
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
No way are you wrong!!!
Some people are just morons!
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| Posted 9/9/07 10:06 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
In my book, you were only wrong if you were encouraging his attention.
Your best friend should only be saying something in support of you. I don't think there is anything wrong with her telling you to watch out. She's your best friend & is supposed to be looking out for you. I do think it's an issue if she's talking behind your back.
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| Posted 9/9/07 10:11 PM |
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janet
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
Posted by nrthshgrl
In my book, you were only wrong if you were encouraging his attention.
Your best friend should only be saying something in support of you. I don't think there is anything wrong with her telling you to watch out. She's your best friend & is supposed to be looking out for you. I do think it's an issue if she's talking behind your back.
thanks for being honest, as for encouaging his attention, no, tonight they where bowling on the next lane so yeah if he gets up to walk to the snack counter he is going to bump into me... my lane was right there. and the isle is not all that big
she was telling me to watch out and fine but the way she said it is i should not even be there kinda attatuide and her telling them no i was wrong... i think i was more hurt that she did that then anything
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| Posted 9/9/07 10:16 PM |
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nrthshgrl
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
I would watch out if I were you. Apparently the couple has their own issues. I would distance myself until they can get their act together. You dont need the extra drama in your life. You're starting a new job, a new beginning. Keep it simple.
Message edited 9/9/2007 10:33:31 PM.
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| Posted 9/9/07 10:32 PM |
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Wendy1220
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
You're not wrong at all. Clearly they have issues which have nothing to do with you. As for your friend, I'd be upset as well. As your friend, she should be backing you up, not playing into their dramatics.
Sorry you got caught up in the middle of their soap opera
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| Posted 9/9/07 10:39 PM |
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mamaA
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
Posted by nrthshgrl
I would watch out if I were you. Apparently the couple has their own issues. I would distance myself until they can get their act together. You dont need the extra drama in your life. You're starting a new job, a new beginning. Keep it simple.
ITA!
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| Posted 9/10/07 12:40 AM |
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nyteacher13
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
Posted by mamaA
Posted by nrthshgrl
I would watch out if I were you. Apparently the couple has their own issues. I would distance myself until they can get their act together. You dont need the extra drama in your life. You're starting a new job, a new beginning. Keep it simple.
ITA!
ITA as well.
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| Posted 9/10/07 1:28 AM |
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Posted by nyteacher13
Posted by mamaA
Posted by nrthshgrl
I would watch out if I were you. Apparently the couple has their own issues. I would distance myself until they can get their act together. You dont need the extra drama in your life. You're starting a new job, a new beginning. Keep it simple.
ITA!
ITA as well.
You said it perfectly, Barbara.... Whenever I found something like that occurring where I was the blamed party in a situation like this, I just stayed the hell away. It's not like this guy has been your friend. Even if he was, who needs a friendship like this?
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| Posted 9/10/07 4:01 AM |
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janet
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
THANKS guys I just wanted to be sure i was not wrong exspecially that my MOH was telling me i was in the wrong. I do not know if they are returning next week so if they are i will make sure i do..... I also know you guys would be very honest with me
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| Posted 9/10/07 6:12 AM |
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luvsbob4603
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
NO you are'NOT' wrong, I think like everyone else said this couple has issues and it has nothing to do with you , I think whenever you see this guy ignore him and when he goes up to get a drink wait a while than go up after he does, just completely avoid him. I would confront your Bf and tell her that she is wrong to assume that you are wrong because'You' did nothing wrong and if she was a BF she would know that. You just started a new job, I am proud of you Janet because you a very Honest person and would never do anything to hurt anyone.
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| Posted 9/10/07 6:34 PM |
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LightUpOurLife
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Re: PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT WRONG HERE?
I agree with Barbara as well, but I would say something to your friend. As a friend, she is out of line.
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