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I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

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curliegirl
He's here!!!!

Member since 3/06

10128 total posts

Name:
Gina

I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

I had to suffer through MIL and SIL at a shower yesterday, drilling me about names.....it has gotten a little nutty.

MIL even said to me that if DH wants his son to have his name, then he should have it.......ummmm, what about ME? Dh refuses to give me the name I want because too many people in his family have it, but we can now make our son, if it IS a boy, a IIIrd?

Get over yourself.....Chat Icon

From now on, names are top secret, except for sharing with you, of course!

Posted 8/6/07 11:05 AM
 
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DancinBarefoot
06ers Rock!!

Member since 1/07

9537 total posts

Name:
The One My Mother Gave Me ;-)

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

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You have my sympathy. My mother insists we are having a Chat Icon and insists on calling said future child Jake. If we have a Chat Icon he will be named after both grandfathers aka Charles Joseph. She was Chat Icon Chat Icon about the name we picked for a Chat Icon and wants to know "where on earth we came up with that?!" Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/6/07 11:13 AM
 

jms100303
Luv my munchkins

Member since 5/05

4789 total posts

Name:
Jennifer

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

This is exactly why I refuse to talk about names with anyone!!!

Posted 8/6/07 11:16 AM
 

traceyd
Big Sister to Be!

Member since 5/05

3644 total posts

Name:
Tracey

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

This is exactly the reason why DH and I have kept the name a secret-although that hasn't been easy either b/c people have been hounding us about keeping it a secret as well.

Posted 8/6/07 11:20 AM
 

MrsDiamondgrlie
Bailey

Member since 5/05

12810 total posts

Name:
D

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Sorry they are giving you a hard time.

We shared the name as well and now I feel "locked in" because EVERYONE in the family is referring to him as Andrew. There is no backing out now! Chat Icon

Posted 8/6/07 11:25 AM
 

ckone
LIF Adult

Member since 8/06

3014 total posts

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Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

Many of us feel that way. And, there will always be someone to say that they don't like it or make a face.

It's better to keep it a secret...

Posted 8/6/07 11:29 AM
 

octoberbride
Big sister to be!

Member since 11/05

2174 total posts

Name:

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

That is why we are keeping the name secret from everyone!!

Posted 8/6/07 11:30 AM
 

DanaRenee
Fitness Junkie!

Member since 6/06

6470 total posts

Name:
Dana

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

I agree w/you 100%!! Although most people have been pretty good about it when we tell them, we still have a few that criticize or voice their unwelcomed opinion. I can't stand it, I would never do that to someone if they told me their baby's name!

Posted 8/6/07 11:42 AM
 

alexlynn7
Big brother to be!

Member since 9/06

6314 total posts

Name:

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

this is why we've decided against sharing the name with anyone until he is physically born and the name is written in ink on his birth certificate!

sorry you are going through this, it's so unnecessary Chat Icon

Posted 8/6/07 11:46 AM
 

CAT215
The Merlster

Member since 10/06

2540 total posts

Name:
Cathie

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

Ugh how annoying for you Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 8/6/07 11:57 AM
 

skygirl
Our prayers were answered:)

Member since 6/05

4919 total posts

Name:
Erica

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

People are always over stepping their boundariesChat Icon
Sorry you have ti deal with thisChat Icon

Posted 8/6/07 12:27 PM
 

Laura1
Fun in the Snow!

Member since 11/06

4512 total posts

Name:
Laura

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

I actually changed the name I wanted for DD. I made the mistake of telling some people I wanted to name her Emma. People started constantly referring to her as Emma and I got so tired of it that I told them that name was out and we changed it to Taylor

Posted 8/6/07 12:33 PM
 

CrankyPants
I'm cranky

Member since 7/06

18178 total posts

Name:
Mama Cranky

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

I agree with you-it's funny, most people when they hear the name we chose at least have the decency to say "that's pretty/nice/sweet/etc/", whether they really like it or not. However, we have gotten "what made you decide on that?" and "is that a family name?".

I am not into trendy names, though I like many of them I prefer classic names for my own reasons. And the name isn't that old fashioned (Claire)!

Next baby-no one gets to know until the big day!

Posted 8/6/07 12:47 PM
 

AimeeE2006
Time flies!

Member since 1/06

5698 total posts

Name:
Aimee

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

Posted by MrsDiamondgrlie

We shared the name as well and now I feel "locked in" because EVERYONE in the family is referring to him as Andrew. There is no backing out now! Chat Icon



This is the way I feel! My mom had people give me books instead of cards at the shower and people wrote "Dear Sydney" inside...I know that is the name we are leaning towards - but now I feel like I HAVE TO name her that.

Posted 8/6/07 1:35 PM
 

boobanick
GO YANKEES!!!!!!!!!!

Member since 4/07

1223 total posts

Name:

Re: I am officially DONE with discussing names with ANYONE!!!!

Sorry you have to go through that... But if it makes you feel better you are not the only one. We decided to find out the sex so we told everyone and now the question is whats the name so my response is that since we told everyone what it is we are deciding to keep the name a secret!!!!! But people are VERRRRRRY ANNOYING!!!! Hang in there..... Tell your MIL & SIL that when they decide to have another baby then they can pick whatever name that they want and for now to buttttttttttttt out

Posted 8/6/07 1:47 PM
 
 

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