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my2sons
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Help me How to get out of debt

Trying to consolidate bills. Who could I use? Has anyone done this? I just cut all credit cards. Need to lower the rates.

Posted 7/8/07 8:43 AM
 
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mommy2Alex
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

I would start by calling the cc companies and asking for lower rates or if any are offering balance transfers at a low rate. Then I would apply for 0% interest cards and transfer as much as I could to those types cards. Paying the minimum on those balances and as much as I could afford on the higher rate cards.

I would also pay myself each time I got paid. I would figure a budget, how much I would need to pay cash for my gas, groceries and other incidentals. Then each time I got paid, I would withdraw that amount in cash and use it for purchases. If you have any $$ left over for the week, I would use it to pay down debt.

Posted 7/8/07 8:55 AM
 

charon54
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

My in-laws did a home equity and consolidated all of their debt into it. Granted they did not have that much credit cards, but the credit cards plus two car loans and their payment is under $300. Something to consider if your credit card rates are over 8% and you have decent credit and own your own home.

Posted 7/8/07 9:23 AM
 

VickiC
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

I would try to stay away from credit consolidating companies - I have heard nothing but horror stories about them. I would call each CC company to see if you could get the rate lowered and work something out.

Posted 7/8/07 9:53 AM
 

rojerono
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

You have taken the first step by eliminating credit card usage. That is FANTASTIC!

Definitely stay away from credit consolidation companies... most will hurt your score more than help it. My sister used to work for one of them back in the day. She called it a 'legal scam'.

I agree with the poster who spoke about a HELOC or Home Equity Loan. You still owe the money - but it is at a lower rate and much of the interest is tax deductible. Which is a HUGE help.

You can also call your CC companies and tell them that you would like them to consider lowering your interest rate. As long as you have a good payment history, they will usually give you something. I had our chase card lowered from 18% to 11%.

If you are organized, you can also become a credit card 'gamer'. You have to have a good credit score to do this. Basically you look for 'no interest'/'low' interest introductory rates on TRANSFERS. You transfer your balance from the high interest card to the no interest card and soon the old card will come back to you with a new and improved offer for transfers... you transfer funds back. This is a dangerous kind of situation and I would only suggest it if you have less than maybe 5K in outstanding cc debt. But it does work. My husband and I were both out of work after my oldest son was born and we literally LIVED on credit. We had one card. We got 2 more cards and split the balance between them at 0% interest. The original card came back with a no interest for 6 months offer just about when our 0% interest on one of the cards was expiring so we put everything back on that card. It enabled us to pay off the debt by paying into the principle only without worrying about accruing more debt in interest!

HTH!

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ETA: One thing to remember about HELOC's They are great and useful and helpful. And for the first 10 years you will find that the payment is VERY low. The reason is that for that 10 year 'draw' period you are ONLY paying interest. You must start paying back on the principle after that 10 years...and that's when the payments can get hairy if you have borrowed more than you can handle!

Message edited 7/8/2007 10:31:05 AM.

Posted 7/8/07 10:28 AM
 

JenniferEver
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

You're definitely on the right track. Call the CC companaies. Ask if they can lower the rate. Offer to pay $X now and see if it helps. YOu can also threaten to take your business elsewhere. I transfered most of the balance of my highest interest rate card to a 0% card. Pay cards down with a plan. Play as much as you can on the card with the highest rate and only the minimum on the others. This doesn't sound like it makes a difference but with the high CC rates these days it helps you get out of debt faster.

Posted 7/8/07 10:33 AM
 

bklyngirl
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

Posted by VickiC

I would try to stay away from credit consolidating companies - I have heard nothing but horror stories about them. I would call each CC company to see if you could get the rate lowered and work something out.



i was with one. i had a great eexperience. it didn't ruin my credit

Posted 7/8/07 10:36 AM
 

charon54
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

If you are considering a Home Equity Line of credit you can leave it variable for a lower payment (but you will pay back no principal) or fix it in to pay the princpal and interest. My DH is a bank manager and can give you more info if you want to PM me. Just one of many optionsChat Icon

Posted 7/8/07 11:39 AM
 

hazeleyes33
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

We just started a heloc too. We have cut our bills in half and we are able to save the money for things that we had charged before.

Posted 7/8/07 11:58 AM
 

charon54
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

Yep...people don't realize how much more comfortable you can live with the same amount of debt.

Posted 7/8/07 3:46 PM
 

my2sons
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

What company did you use?

Posted 7/8/07 4:45 PM
 

hazeleyes33
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

Posted by my2sons

What company did you use?



Not sure if the post was for me but we used Chase and it was really easy.

Posted 7/8/07 4:59 PM
 

charon54
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

Both my IL's and I used WaMu. Had Chase but they charged $50 a year just to have the lline.

Posted 7/8/07 5:22 PM
 

Tine73

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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

Contrary to what a few above posters said about consolidating, I did it and it saved my life. Seriously! After college I lived like a rock star and it caught up with me.

I used this organization, CESI

They either got rid of all of my APRs or dramatically got them lowered and then I just sent them a monthly payment and i never had to worry about it. When I was finished paying it off, my credit was awesome.

Good luck!

Posted 7/8/07 7:28 PM
 

emilain
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

Posted by bklyngirl

Posted by VickiC

I would try to stay away from credit consolidating companies - I have heard nothing but horror stories about them. I would call each CC company to see if you could get the rate lowered and work something out.



i was with one. i had a great eexperience. it didn't ruin my credit



us too, they negotiated our debts for us (my husband was out of work due to surgery) and they cut it down to almost 1/2Chat Icon I kid you not, for example, we wed Home Depot $2100 and they negotiatedit down to $850. It indeed affects your credit negatively for a brief time but it turns around wuick sinc eyou get out of debt quicker, our scores have only been affected a few points.

Posted 7/8/07 9:01 PM
 

Mommy2Boys
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

But you can't take on anymore debt in the meantime which is what scares me? What if you need to use a credit card for something or buy a new car or I dont know something comes up and you dont have the cash??? Than your kind of stuck, right?

Message edited 7/8/2007 9:41:37 PM.

Posted 7/8/07 9:41 PM
 

emilain
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

Posted by jellybean1420

But you can't take on anymore debt in the meantime which is what scares me? What if you need to use a credit card for something or buy a new car or I dont know something comes up and you dont have the cash??? Than your kind of stuck, right?



no, we got a new car while doing our consolidation program.

Posted 7/8/07 10:13 PM
 

my2sons
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

Thanks everyone. Glad to know I'm not the only one. I'm going to make some calls today.

Posted 7/9/07 7:39 AM
 

Beth
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

Posted by emilain

Posted by jellybean1420

But you can't take on anymore debt in the meantime which is what scares me? What if you need to use a credit card for something or buy a new car or I dont know something comes up and you dont have the cash??? Than your kind of stuck, right?



no, we got a new car while doing our consolidation program.



you wont be able to get a mortgage or re-fi for 2 years if you are in one of those programs

and not all are good- some really mess up your credit bad

Posted 7/9/07 9:20 AM
 

HappyWife
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

Posted by my2sons

What company did you use?



There are some great companies and some shady ones. Things to remember: never ever pay for credit consolidation services. There may be a voluntary/donation fee but it should be minimal and you should be able to opt out of it.

A credit consolidation company is good if you want the ease of having just one bill to pay every month. APRs will be lower and the monthly payment you make will be spread out between the various creditors.

It may not affect your credit (FICO) score b/c the score is calculated on a number of metrics of which enrollment in a credit consolidation plan is calculated. But it will be noted on your credit report that the account was closed and that there is a credit consolidator involved.

If you have the discipline, I would suggest making a list of all your debts and the APR and amount owed. Then go through the list and call each of the companies to negotiate a better rate.

Good luck!

Posted 7/9/07 11:39 AM
 

my2sons
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Re: Help me How to get out of debt

I talked to Chase we are looking into Heloc.
I know consolidation companies are shady that why I asked here. Thanks to all

Posted 7/9/07 1:59 PM
 
 

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