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LIgirl
LIF Zygote
Member since 6/07 48 total posts
Name:
valerie
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Is it wrong....
....to not want to go on vacation with only "the girls"? Throughout my whole high school career (up until senior year) I never had a boyfriend. I had to hang out with everyone else with their boyfriends and wish maybe one would come along. It seems like now that I'm married everyone wants to do things with no guys. It probably wouldn't bother me if I wasn't alone for so long in my life or if DH and I had been together for many many years. Right now I feel like I want to share vacations and weekend fun with him also. Does anyone else feel like this? I need to make sure I'm not the only one. 
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Posted 6/19/07 9:42 PM  |
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VirginiaDeb
Don't eat me, hippo!
Member since 5/05 9252 total posts
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Deb
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Re: Is it wrong....
I love doing things with my DH - and a majority of weekends are spent with him - but I still love my girls only times.
I need to have my time away.
ETA: I'll do long weekend vacations with the girls (i'm going away with a friend this weekend sat-tues) but I wouldn't do longer than that.
Message edited 6/19/2007 9:47:29 PM.
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| Posted 6/19/07 9:45 PM |
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maybebaby
LIF Adult
Member since 11/05 6870 total posts
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Maureen
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Re: Is it wrong....
No, not wrong at all. I was the same way, still am 
I do pretty much everything with DH (and now my son too!) and like it that way...not to say I won't go out for a girls night here and there, I think that is important. But if I'm going to take any kind of vacation, its with DH. We just like being together, there is nothing wrong with that in my eyes!! I think it's sweet!
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| Posted 6/19/07 9:45 PM |
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lvdolphins
My Loves!
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Re: Is it wrong....
It's not wrong at all. I love spending time with DH and my son as well.
We do have girls night out like once a month.
You need time alone as well.
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| Posted 6/19/07 9:51 PM |
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nickipa
love my boys!
Member since 4/06 5648 total posts
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Nicki
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Re: Is it wrong....
Posted by lvdolphins
It's not wrong at all. I love spending time with DH and my son as well.
We do have girls night out like once a month.
You need time alone as well.
ITA!!
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| Posted 6/19/07 10:16 PM |
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BellaRock
I am all the Me I will ever Be
Member since 5/06 9746 total posts
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She who shall remain nameless
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Re: Is it wrong....
Posted by maybebaby
No, not wrong at all. I was the same way, still am
I do pretty much everything with DH (and now my son too!) and like it that way...not to say I won't go out for a girls night here and there, I think that is important. But if I'm going to take any kind of vacation, its with DH. We just like being together, there is nothing wrong with that in my eyes!! I think it's sweet!
ITA! I am the same way too.
Message edited 6/19/2007 10:29:46 PM.
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| Posted 6/19/07 10:28 PM |
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Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!
Member since 5/05 20046 total posts
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Gerty ®
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Re: Is it wrong....
I'm not into "girl's vacations" either. I do see my friends fairly often and really don't see the need to go away with them. Travel is definitely best with DH.
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| Posted 6/19/07 10:33 PM |
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july06bride
I'm a mom!
Member since 5/05 3966 total posts
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Nicole
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Re: Is it wrong....
I see my friends often enough so we do have "girl time"... but at this point if I am paying good money for a vacation, I want it to be with my DH... maybe for a bachelorette party or something out of the ordinary I would do a weekend somewhere-but not an all out vacation
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| Posted 6/19/07 10:35 PM |
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Shorty
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Member since 5/05 30390 total posts
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really
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Re: Is it wrong....
I'm with you 100%. I'm 24, I've been "attached" for 7 years, and I have no desire to play tea party or spa with just the ladies.
Truth be told, I never had many female friends growing up...I don't really get along with many women!
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| Posted 6/19/07 10:39 PM |
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