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spooks
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Name: Sarah
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Bday Cards and In-Laws
Do you think its weird to send a bday card to my SIL (married to DH's bro) but not to her hubby (DH's bro) on his bday? I tend to do that in his family, buy gifts or cards for the women, but not the men - just b/c I'm closer to them. Is it rude?
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Posted 6/10/07 1:50 PM |
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danielleandscott
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Member since 5/05 13476 total posts
Name: Scott
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Re: Bday Cards and In-Laws
We send cards and gifts to all the SILs and BILs. I always remind my DH when his sister and brtoher's b-days are coming up.
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Posted 6/10/07 1:56 PM |
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july06bride
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Member since 5/05 3966 total posts
Name: Nicole
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Re: Bday Cards and In-Laws
I usually buy for everyone...
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Posted 6/10/07 2:25 PM |
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JavaJunkie
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Member since 6/05 5857 total posts
Name: Lois
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Re: Bday Cards and In-Laws
I buy for everyone
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Posted 6/10/07 3:16 PM |
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Kate07
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Member since 5/05 4476 total posts
Name: Kate
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Re: Bday Cards and In-Laws
Posted by spooks
Do you think its weird to send a bday card to my SIL (married to DH's bro) but not to her hubby (DH's bro) on his bday? I tend to do that in his family, buy gifts or cards for the women, but not the men - just b/c I'm closer to them. Is it rude?
I do think that is a little strange. Why would you acknowledge DH's brother's wife but not DH's brother?
Message edited 6/10/2007 3:32:13 PM.
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Posted 6/10/07 3:19 PM |
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Kristin616
Member since 8/06 3595 total posts
Name: Kris
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Re: Bday Cards and In-Laws
Posted by july06bride
I usually buy for everyone...
same here
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Posted 6/10/07 3:24 PM |
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Bellaocchi
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Re: Bday Cards and In-Laws
I feel bad when reading this.. I don't send cards.. I call rather than sending a card.
If you send cards though, I think it would be better to send cards to the SIL's DH's as well... JMO
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Posted 6/10/07 4:34 PM |
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LisaI
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Re: Bday Cards and In-Laws
I don't think it's rude, but if I were the male in the family I may wonder why I don't get a card from you?
I send cards to all in law members. We decided to not send gifts to the siblings (we and BIL/SIL agreed, however do for MIL and FIL)
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Posted 6/10/07 5:01 PM |
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Wendy
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Re: Bday Cards and In-Laws
I only send cards to the nieces & nephews ...
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Posted 6/10/07 7:01 PM |
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