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MarathonKnitter
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really disliking dh, right now
as many other wives and mothers out there, i do more in the home than dh. i do the laundry, the vaccuuming, scrubbing the toilet... you get the picture.
so, whenever dh gets an itch up his azz to do SOMETHING/ANYTHING and i don't jump like a good little soldier, he has the nerve to call me names.
a friend/neighbor gave us patio furniture yesterday. dh wants to move them into their permanent location NOW and i don't want to. so he's calling me LAZY!!!!
W T F!!!!
i'm a grown woman who does more than my share around here. if it wasn't for me, he wouldn't have clean underpants. can i have a few hours on a saturday morning to just veg out?!
vent over.
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JennZ
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Re: really disliking dh, right now
Then let him do it!! I hate when DH gets like this. Enjoy your time for once and tell him to chill out. Sorry but Im only on my first coffee so far.
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| Posted 5/26/07 8:32 AM |
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LittleBlueBug
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Re: really disliking dh, right now
Posted by JennZ
Then let him do it!! I hate when DH gets like this. Enjoy your time for once and tell him to chill out. Sorry but Im only on my first coffee so far.
Agreed!
I know your pain I'm still cranky that I was woken up at 7:30 on a weekend because God forbid I sleep until 9 I have "wasted half the day".
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| Posted 5/26/07 8:42 AM |
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mrsmck
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Re: really disliking dh, right now
My Dh will say things like "WE" need to do food shopping, "WE need to do laundry, etc. He really means "I" need to do all those things!!! Well you know what??? I do them ALL THE TIME!!!! 
I can sympathize w/the patio set too. Ours was delivered a few weeks ago, and has been sitting in the garage, which is cluttered enough as it is. Last Sunday I decided to do it myself. He wasn't home in the morning, so I went at it. I was just putting the tiles into the table top when he comes home and has the nerve to say "Let me put some tiles in. I want to do this TOGETHER". Then he sits in the chair (which I assembled too) and pretends to wipe the sweat from his brow and says "Whew....I"m exhausted"
Message edited 5/26/2007 10:04:55 AM.
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| Posted 5/26/07 8:43 AM |
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MarathonKnitter
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Re: really disliking dh, right now
Posted by JennZ
Then let him do it!! I hate when DH gets like this. Enjoy your time for once and tell him to chill out. Sorry but Im only on my first coffee so far.
oh, i did.
he moved it all by himself and he survived the experience.
i refused to be bullied around!!!
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| Posted 5/26/07 8:44 AM |
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Wendy1220
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Re: really disliking dh, right now
Glad you didn't help him. Now sit down and relax. I'm so horrible, DH called me lazy once so I went on strike for 2 weeks. Needless to say he learned real quiickly never to say that again.
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| Posted 5/26/07 8:46 AM |
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JennZ
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Re: really disliking dh, right now
Posted by libby2595
Posted by JennZ
Then let him do it!! I hate when DH gets like this. Enjoy your time for once and tell him to chill out. Sorry but Im only on my first coffee so far.
oh, i did.
he moved it all by himself and he survived the experience.
i refused to be bullied around!!!
Good for you. Im sure you will be hearing how wiped out he is, if he is anything like mine  Oh the stress of ALL they have to do.  Just now having cup of coffee number 2, still need to get to that happy place.
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| Posted 5/26/07 8:48 AM |
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MrsBumbleb
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Re: really disliking dh, right now
AMEN sista
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| Posted 5/26/07 8:56 AM |
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MarathonKnitter
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Re: really disliking dh, right now
it seems like we're married to the same man. he's now moaning every time he stands up and/or sits down. you would think that he moved a building! what a big baby.
i'm feeling better that i'm not alone.
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| Posted 5/26/07 8:58 AM |
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MarathonKnitter
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Re: really disliking dh, right now
ladies, thanks for listening to me and being supportive.
i hope you all have a wonderful three-day weekend.
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| Posted 5/26/07 9:01 AM |
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DaniJude
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Re: really disliking dh, right now
wow, i wouldn't do his laundry and everything else you do for him for a few days-- maybe even a week. then, when he's like "i have no clean underwear" say "i just wanted to give you a taste of what it's REALLY like to have a lazy wife" i would tell him- you called me lazy, so i'm being LAZY- clean your own D A M N underwear and everything else!
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| Posted 5/26/07 9:03 AM |
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