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Jeannad67
LIF Toddler

Member since 5/05 380 total posts
Name: Jeanna
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AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
SO one of the last of my friends with no children has announced her pregnancy. She is 13 weeks... we would have been one week apart if i hadnt miscarried.....
She is wonderful, and she deserves it, and I wish I could honestly say IM thrilled for her... but I feel so selfish because all I can think of is WHY NOT ME??? God I feel like such a spoiled brat.... but Im feeling like its just never going to happen for me..... My doc said I can do FET in July.... and July seems like years away!!!
Sorry to whine like an 8 year old..... vent over......
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Posted 5/21/07 6:47 PM |
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Donna
1 year already!!

Member since 5/05 3360 total posts
Name: Donna
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
vent away...
it's ok to feel like that especially since you just suffered a loss
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Posted 5/21/07 7:09 PM |
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cheshe
LIF Adolescent

Member since 6/06 738 total posts
Name: Cheryl
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
You can vent all you want....that is what we are here for - to help each other during the hard times.
So sorry that you are feeling this way. Try to keep your thoughts on the FET you will be doing in July.
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Posted 5/21/07 8:51 PM |
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angel7
LIF Adolescent

Member since 3/06 775 total posts
Name:
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
I am so sorry and can imagine how you are feeling. You can vent to us. Wishing you a very speeding 2 months till July's FET!!
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Posted 5/21/07 9:36 PM |
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Jenziba
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Member since 5/05 6265 total posts
Name: Jennifer
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
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Posted 5/21/07 11:06 PM |
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Gertyrae
Peace out Homies!

Member since 5/05 20046 total posts
Name: Gerty ®
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
I totally understand how you feel....it just seems like it's not going to happen sometimes.
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Posted 5/21/07 11:44 PM |
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LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis

Member since 8/06 11613 total posts
Name: L-Diddy EDD 11/11/11 :)
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
Believe me, I know exactly how you feel. Vent anytime
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Posted 5/22/07 7:42 AM |
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imyself

Member since 10/06 2938 total posts
Name: me
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
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Posted 5/22/07 9:08 AM |
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calendargrl
LIF Adult

Member since 5/05 1686 total posts
Name: jan
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
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Posted 5/22/07 9:09 AM |
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jellybean78
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Member since 8/06 13103 total posts
Name: Mommy
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
Don't feel bad or selfish...it's totally OK to feel like that.
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Posted 5/22/07 9:53 AM |
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CAT215
The Merlster

Member since 10/06 2540 total posts
Name: Cathie
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
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Posted 5/22/07 12:11 PM |
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DancinBarefoot
06ers Rock!!

Member since 1/07 9537 total posts
Name: The One My Mother Gave Me ;-)
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
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Posted 5/22/07 12:16 PM |
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lmnscc
LIF Adolescent
Member since 1/07 598 total posts
Name:
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
Yeah, life isn't fair sometimes. We found out that I was pregnant right before on of our friends told us. We were due the same month, but I found out I had a c/p. The other couple tried that month and got pregnant ... grrrrrr! We've been ttc forever. I saw them early on in her pregnancy, but I just can't now. It's hard to put my feelings aside. Good luck in July.
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Posted 5/22/07 12:31 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness

Member since 5/05 34581 total posts
Name: Donna
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
Dont feel like a spolied brat...My GOD..you have every right to feel , why not me...Thats 100% normal...No one would ever deny you that.
Its hard as hell and your doing a great job if you can even be happy for her...thats a hard task in itself.
Dont be so hard on yourself.
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Posted 5/22/07 9:40 PM |
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Wishing4ababy
My life is complete!

Member since 1/07 2494 total posts
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
I'm sorry for your loss. ' Vent Away!!!! I feel the same exact way as you.
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Posted 5/22/07 10:04 PM |
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karacg
Babygirl is 4!

Member since 5/05 17076 total posts
Name: Kara®
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
We have all felt like that at one time or another...... feel free to let it all out!
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Posted 5/22/07 10:21 PM |
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halisa
adore

Member since 7/06 2168 total posts
Name: lisa
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH
don't feel bad at all for your feelings-they are totally normal and understandable! i have felt that way too, many times.
just try to not lose hope and look forward to your next step, fet.
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Posted 5/22/07 10:22 PM |
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MrsPornStar
Partners in crime

Member since 10/05 14656 total posts
Name: Mama
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Posted 5/23/07 8:58 AM |
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