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Jeannad67
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Jeanna

AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

SO one of the last of my friends with no children has announced her pregnancy. She is 13 weeks... we would have been one week apart if i hadnt miscarried.....


She is wonderful, and she deserves it, and I wish I could honestly say IM thrilled for her... but I feel so selfish because all I can think of is WHY NOT ME??? God I feel like such a spoiled brat.... but Im feeling like its just never going to happen for me..... My doc said I can do FET in July.... and July seems like years away!!!

Sorry to whine like an 8 year old..... vent over......

Posted 5/21/07 6:47 PM
 
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Donna
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

vent away...Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

it's ok to feel like that especially since you just suffered a loss

Posted 5/21/07 7:09 PM
 

cheshe
LIF Adolescent

Member since 6/06

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Name:
Cheryl

Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

You can vent all you want....that is what we are here for - to help each other during the hard times.

So sorry that you are feeling this way. Try to keep your thoughts on the FET you will be doing in July.

Posted 5/21/07 8:51 PM
 

angel7
LIF Adolescent

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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

I am so sorry and can imagine how you are feeling. You can vent to us. Wishing you a very speeding 2 months till July's FET!!
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Posted 5/21/07 9:36 PM
 

Jenziba
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Jennifer

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Posted 5/21/07 11:06 PM
 

Gertyrae
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

I totally understand how you feel....it just seems like it's not going to happen sometimes.Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/21/07 11:44 PM
 

LaurenExp
Waiting patiently for baby sis

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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

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Believe me, I know exactly how you feel. Vent anytime Chat Icon

Posted 5/22/07 7:42 AM
 

imyself

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Posted 5/22/07 9:08 AM
 

calendargrl
LIF Adult

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jan

Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

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Posted 5/22/07 9:09 AM
 

jellybean78
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

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Don't feel bad or selfish...it's totally OK to feel like that. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/22/07 9:53 AM
 

CAT215
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Posted 5/22/07 12:11 PM
 

DancinBarefoot
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Posted 5/22/07 12:16 PM
 

lmnscc
LIF Adolescent

Member since 1/07

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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

Yeah, life isn't fair sometimes. We found out that I was pregnant right before on of our friends told us. We were due the same month, but I found out I had a c/p. The other couple tried that month and got pregnant ... grrrrrr! We've been ttc forever. I saw them early on in her pregnancy, but I just can't now. It's hard to put my feelings aside.
Good luck in July.

Posted 5/22/07 12:31 PM
 

dm24angel
Happiness

Member since 5/05

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Donna

Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

Dont feel like a spolied brat...My GOD..you have every right to feel , why not me...Thats 100% normal...No one would ever deny you that.

Its hard as hell and your doing a great job if you can even be happy for her...thats a hard task in itself.

Dont be so hard on yourself.

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Posted 5/22/07 9:40 PM
 

Wishing4ababy
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Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH


I'm sorry for your loss. '
Vent Away!!!! I feel the same exact way as you. Chat Icon Chat Icon Chat Icon

Posted 5/22/07 10:04 PM
 

karacg
Babygirl is 4!

Member since 5/05

17076 total posts

Name:
Kara®

Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

We have all felt like that at one time or another...... feel free to let it all out!

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Posted 5/22/07 10:21 PM
 

halisa
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Member since 7/06

2168 total posts

Name:
lisa

Re: AAARRRGGGGGHHHHHHH

don't feel bad at all for your feelings-they are totally normal and understandable! i have felt that way too, many times.

just try to not lose hope and look forward to your next step, fet.

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Posted 5/22/07 10:22 PM
 

MrsPornStar
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Posted 5/23/07 8:58 AM
 
 
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