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SweetCin
My green-eyed boy
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Cin
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TMI....Has Anyone's DH
cut them off since they've been pregnant?
My DH said he doesn't feel right being intimate with his child inside. I've assured him all is fine/dr. has said it is fine, but no dice....its been 6 months & I'm dying here!
Anyone else in the same boat???
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jerseypanda
Life is good.
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Amanda
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
I'll be honest with you... with me it's been the other way around... between wanting to sleep  all the time and the nausea  , I haven't wanted anyone near me! Poor guy.. I have this great new chest and all he can do is look from a distance!!! 
Have him read the parts in all the baby books that say the baby won't even know what's going on!!!
Message edited 3/17/2007 4:02:33 PM.
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| Posted 3/17/07 3:49 PM |
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Bklyngrl
luvmyfamily
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
i'm only in 1st trimester - i did ask doc and she said its OK but i'm too chicken for now. DH understands and i think he's partially concerned too because usually he's all over me and now he's not  seduce him!!
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| Posted 3/17/07 3:50 PM |
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Diane
Hope is Contagious....catch it
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D
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
yes, in the begining he was scared because I had a m/c and he was afraid. He also then towrds the end when I was getting big. He said it felt weird
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| Posted 3/17/07 3:51 PM |
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Porrruss
Nya nya nya
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Amy
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
So far, it's been the opposite. He's really into my new curves- which definitely makes me feel more attractive.
ALTHOUGH- the other day- we were <ahem> "wrassling"- and DH felt her move against his stomach. He went a little green......
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| Posted 3/17/07 3:56 PM |
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Laura1
Fun in the Snow!
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Laura
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
We weren't too intimate during pregnancy, in the beginning we were, especially during our honeymoon, I was 4 mos preggo at that time, after that, we were both so tired
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| Posted 3/17/07 3:58 PM |
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Karebaby
Precious
Member since 10/06 5304 total posts
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Karyn
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
Sorry, not here! DH wants it just as much or more now.
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| Posted 3/17/07 4:00 PM |
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Briannasmommy
Love her so much <3
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Christina
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
It is the other way around for me i don't want it i'm so tired and feel hugh lol.
But i have try to get myself back in the grove cause DH wants it bad it has been a month
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| Posted 3/17/07 4:01 PM |
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KateDevine
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
No. But we are on pelvic rest due to a vaginal polyp and it STINKS.
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| Posted 3/17/07 4:16 PM |
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chelle
It's a Good Life
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Isn't it obvious?
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
In the beginning, it weirded DH out a bit. We were on our honeymoon and had some bleeding afterwards so that kind of freaked us out for a while.
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| Posted 3/17/07 4:21 PM |
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snuggleupagus
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
I've been a little unwilling myself...I just don't feel sexy at all. [which is weird, i'm tiny and no m/s...meanwhile with my first, well...i'd never wanted it more ]
Due to ill advice from my first dr., DH is a bit skeptical sometimes about safety, but honestly more and more our busy lives keep us clothed more than anything else. He would die if he knew I was sharing this.
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| Posted 3/17/07 5:10 PM |
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waterspout4
My loves
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Kelly
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
I have attacked DH numerous times. I don't give him a chance to back out.  Now that I'm in my 4th month, I really feel like Rachel from Friends.
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| Posted 3/17/07 5:13 PM |
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
He hasnt cut me off, but he has gotten a lot more gentle with me - he doesnt want to admit that he gets nervous, but I know he does!
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| Posted 3/17/07 5:14 PM |
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steph4777
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Stephanie
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
Yup.... It's been about 2.5 months since we did the deed. He said it was just too weird for him. I think he felt the baby kick the last time we did it.
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| Posted 3/17/07 5:57 PM |
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2girls4now
Proud Mommy
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Kerri
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
yes hes wierded out..he doesnt try anymore - and I have no interest
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| Posted 3/17/07 6:32 PM |
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leighla
Support Cancer Research
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Lauren
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
I've been on and off pelvic rest throughout the pregnancy and honestly I think both of us have been too scared to try on the times I've been okay.
I was supposed to go to the doctor today and see if we were cleared, but they cancelled on me.
I really really really want to try to do it before the baby comes because I know it will be a while after. That will tie us both over for a while.
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| Posted 3/17/07 6:39 PM |
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dm24angel
Happiness
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Donna
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
yep..I think its been once a trimester for us...and DH is very nervous about it now this late into it.
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| Posted 3/17/07 6:43 PM |
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pinkandblue
Our family is complete, maybe
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Stephanie
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
dh had said the same thing...that it "did nothing" for him to dtd while I was showing....we had not done it for a while (like 2 months) , then a few night ago, he went out and when he came home, we did it
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| Posted 3/17/07 9:08 PM |
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Reese1106
Family of 4! :o)
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Theresa
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
It's actually been the other way around for us. DH still wants to but I'm hardly ever in the mood. Poor guy!
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| Posted 3/17/07 9:22 PM |
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nmp070106
My girls!!
Member since 8/06 5843 total posts
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Nicole
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
everything was good till now... freaks him out now that he can see her moving all the time in my belly and he is like ummmmmmmmmmmm she knows what we are doing.....
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| Posted 3/17/07 10:20 PM |
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vegalady
Love my family
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SNV
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
I sent you FM Cindy
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| Posted 3/19/07 10:55 AM |
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DanaRenee
Fitness Junkie!
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Re: TMI....Has Anyone's DH
DH feels uncomfortable, but we've been on restriction since January. Last weekend, I couldn't resist and we BD'd...but I ended up bleeding and that could be why, depending if I have placenta previa (I'll find out on Thurs). No BDing for us for a loooong time!
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| Posted 3/19/07 10:58 AM |
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