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Girls-- Today I am soo over being pregnant. I dont know why I feel this way. I just feel like my stomach can not stretch anymore. I feel soo unattractive and it makes me cry. I feel like my husband doesnt even look at me the same. I am sorry to be such a downer but I am just feeling terrible. I am usually the life of the party and happy but today I am just feeling I am a big fat ugly. I am know its my hormones but I never in my life have felt this way!!

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Andrea, you are a beautiful girl, and so sweet too!

Your having a baby!! You should't be upset, but very happy!! Your baby will be beautiful also!! Dont worry, you will loose all the weight once the baby is born, just relax and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy.

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I'm sorry you are feeling down - and you're not alone! I dont feel cute or sexy or whatever else I'm supposed to feel. . . I just feel BIG.

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Yes you are so beautiful! Please don't feel like that. It is my first trimester and I am a wreck. Tonight I'm crying like crazy b/c i need to take daily injections, my DH (let me say Jerk H for tonight) is out with his friends. I am broken out all over my face, I feel gross, tired and my hormones are making me a lunatic. Although we're on different ends of the spectrum with this preggo thing...the end result will be worth it all in the end. Hang in there.

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Remember that pregnant woman are very sexy!!!!!!! By yourself some new lingerie!!!!!!

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I'm sorry! I have days like that too, and then the next day, I'm Like "What was I thinking?"

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I felt the same way when I was carrying my twins. You are beautiful...you are carrying a child and that should make you feel so BEAUTIFUL

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there are going to be ups and downs in the road to pregnancy and sometimes you will really hate the way your body looks. But when its all over and you are holding your baby, there is nothing else in the world that matters.

I gained 75 lbs with Jiavana. I have stretch marks in lots of places and spider veins, I don't feel like the same person. However, without these marks, I wouldn't have my daughter. And no matter how much I want my old body back, I will eventually get it back, but I wouldn't change it for anything.

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I am in ur same boat not happy at all being preggers! i was on the phone with my cousin yesterday saying this and she felt the same way, I tell DH that i hate it and he does not understand he always (now) tells me how pretty i am and that is the baby and i am going to lose the weight after, which helps but i just am soooooooooo over being pregg, we are due around the same time so i def, feel ur pain

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I am due w/i a few days of you, and feeling the EXACT same way....I wonder if it's just something that "peaks" at this time of the pregnancy.

Last night I slept like crap, got frustrated b/c I can't sleep on my stomach/side and it's getting less and less easy to turn over. DH woke me up b/c when I did turn over I SO invaded his side of the bed.

He has cut me off from s-e-x, he says it's for my and baby's own good. That doesn't help how I feel!

So...I'm here for you!!! As many other wonderful ladies are!!! LOTS of s

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OMG - its like you jumped into my brain - especially the way I was feeling last night... I will post a thread about what happened to me last night - but I almost didn't post my 30 wk pics because i was so upset...

I know how you feel.

I look at women with cute little jeans on, with flat bellies, and wonder if my belly will ever look like that ever again.

and then, I feel the baby move inside me, and remember I am carrying LIFE. And my baby is depending on my belly to hold it and keep it safe. Then I forget how upset I am and focus on my baby being healthy.

I would rather be fat forever than not have this baby... Or have this baby be unhealthy.

Of course, I will focus on getting myself back in shape after the baby though...

Remember - you are beautiful!!!

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Posted by gottaluvmusik

Girls-- Today I am soo over being pregnant. I dont know why I feel this way. I just feel like my stomach can not stretch anymore. I feel soo unattractive and it makes me cry. I feel like my husband doesnt even look at me the same. I am sorry to be such a downer but I am just feeling terrible. I am usually the life of the party and happy but today I am just feeling I am a big fat ugly. I am know its my hormones but I never in my life have felt this way!!

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I am due around the same time as you and I feel your pain. This is baby number 2 for me and I wish I could have this baby out now!!! 9 or shall I say 10 months is too long to be preggo!!!

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Oh no....please don't be so down on yourself! You look beautiful.

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You are beautiful and I think pregnancy adds to the beauty!

sure, maybe we dont look like skinny chicks, but its temporary. I am sure your husband looks at you in admiration!

Just think that there are many ladies out there who are dying to be pregnant...its a blessing and you still look beautiful!!

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You look beautiful!!!

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You are beautiful and carrying a blessing inside of you. YOur not fat at all your body just grows when you are pregnant. Love yourself and the skin that you are in right now.