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DUCKS2001
Then there was 2

Member since 3/06 5696 total posts
Name: Christine
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S E X?
SHOULD YOU WAIT TILL AFTER 1ST TRIMESTER OR CAN YOU DO IT ANYTIME......?
I KNOW THIS QUESTION SOUNDS SILLY I AM JUST CURIOUS.. THANKS ALL NEW TO THIS
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Posted 1/20/07 10:52 AM |
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Porrruss
Nya nya nya

Member since 5/05 11618 total posts
Name: Amy
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Re: S E X?
Sex is perfectly safe
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Posted 1/20/07 10:53 AM |
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DUCKS2001
Then there was 2

Member since 3/06 5696 total posts
Name: Christine
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Re: S E X?
IT DOES NOT HARM THE BABY AT ALL? I THOUGHT IT WOULD BE SAFE.. WHAT ABOUT CRAMPING ? WOULD YOU GET CRAMPING AFTERWARDS?
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Posted 1/20/07 10:55 AM |
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ME75
Member since 10/06 4563 total posts
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Re: S E X?
unless you are having unexplained bleeding or anything like that i think sex is perfectly safe. if you don't feel sure then ask your dr. there are some cases where women are advised to avoid sex or are put on pelvic rest but that is only when there is something threatening the baby or if she has a history of miscarriage or bleeding. try not to worry and relax. i know i am definitely in the minority but i have been one of the few PG women that i know that is actually enjoying it more now that i am pregnant! go figure! thought i'd NEVER say that
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Posted 1/20/07 11:11 AM |
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DUCKS2001
Then there was 2

Member since 3/06 5696 total posts
Name: Christine
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Re: S E X?
Posted by ME75
unless you are having unexplained bleeding or anything like that i think sex is perfectly safe. if you don't feel sure then ask your dr. there are some cases where women are advised to avoid sex or are put on pelvic rest but that is only when there is something threatening the baby or if she has a history of miscarriage or bleeding. try not to worry and relax. i know i am definitely in the minority but i have been one of the few PG women that i know that is actually enjoying it more now that i am pregnant! go figure! thought i'd NEVER say that
thanks so much.... yeah i am trying to to worry as much and enjoy it...
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Posted 1/20/07 11:27 AM |
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KateDevine
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Member since 6/06 24950 total posts
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Re: S E X?
I wasn't put on pelvic rest til after 20 weeks, we had plenty of sex in the first trimester. Enjoy.
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Posted 1/20/07 12:44 PM |
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jerseypanda
Life is good.

Member since 1/07 9164 total posts
Name: Amanda
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Re: S E X?
I would love to be having much more sex... but I am just always feeling that slight nausea!
SO now I have to wait for those random moments when I don't feel like throwing up to go find my DH and hope he isn't busy!!!
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Posted 1/20/07 12:53 PM |
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nmp070106
My girls!!

Member since 8/06 5843 total posts
Name: Nicole
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Re: S E X?
go ahead and have fun
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Posted 1/20/07 12:59 PM |
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itsbabytime
LIF Adult
Member since 11/05 9644 total posts
Name: Me
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Re: S E X?
I've been afraid of this too! I haven't done "it" since we got the BFP - that was a month ago! Poor DH
The stories on here about spotting after freaked me out! I'm too scared! You ladies that are past this point, was it fine for most of you - no spotting or anything after?
Thank you
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Posted 1/20/07 1:24 PM |
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DUCKS2001
Then there was 2

Member since 3/06 5696 total posts
Name: Christine
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Re: S E X?
Posted by itsbabytime
I've been afraid of this too! I haven't done "it" since we got the BFP - that was a month ago! Poor DH
The stories on here about spotting after freaked me out! I'm too scared! You ladies that are past this point, was it fine for most of you - no spotting or anything after?
Thank you
i feel the same way... it has been like 1 month in a 1/2 poor dh.
i am just afraid.. but if you girls say it is ok then it should be....
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Posted 1/20/07 2:15 PM |
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Arodisi
"My 3 Sons!"

Member since 3/06 3515 total posts
Name: KT
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Re: S E X?
my dr said it was perfectly safe, but to be completely honest, i havent been in the mood at all!!! im hoping this will change by my 2nd trimester bc i cant keep coming up with excuses!!! anyone else feel this way in their first trimester??
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Posted 1/20/07 4:25 PM |
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jerseypanda
Life is good.

Member since 1/07 9164 total posts
Name: Amanda
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Re: S E X?
Posted by Arodisi
my dr said it was perfectly safe, but to be completely honest, i havent been in the mood at all!!! im hoping this will change by my 2nd trimester bc i cant keep coming up with excuses!!! anyone else feel this way in their first trimester??
Girl, if you saw my post earlier, you would know I am in the same boat as you. I am dealing with lots of nausea, so you can imagine how "not in the mood" I am being that I constantly want to throw up!!!
My poor, wonderful DH said to me he would wait 9 months if he had to!!! What a trooper!
I am just waiting for an opportune moment when we are both home and I don't want to vomit!!!
Sorry if TMI!!!
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Posted 1/21/07 11:26 AM |
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USAFmrs
LIF Adolescent

Member since 11/06 796 total posts
Name: Kelly
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Re: S E X?
it actually helped with my nausea ... i cant explain it-- but i always felt better after!! I think we were one of the V E R Y few couples who did it alot-- i chalked it up to being newlyweds-- but they say some women want it more and more--
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Posted 1/21/07 11:48 AM |
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Arodisi
"My 3 Sons!"

Member since 3/06 3515 total posts
Name: KT
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Re: S E X?
Posted by jerseypanda
Girl, if you saw my post earlier, you would know I am in the same boat as you. I am dealing with lots of nausea, so you can imagine how "not in the mood" I am being that I constantly want to throw up!!!
My poor, wonderful DH said to me he would wait 9 months if he had to!!! What a trooper!
I am just waiting for an opportune moment when we are both home and I don't want to vomit!!!
Sorry if TMI!!!
im almost 10 wks and havent been nauseous once...whats my excuse???
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Posted 1/21/07 12:27 PM |
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DUCKS2001
Then there was 2

Member since 3/06 5696 total posts
Name: Christine
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Re: S E X?
Posted by Arodisi
Posted by jerseypanda
Girl, if you saw my post earlier, you would know I am in the same boat as you. I am dealing with lots of nausea, so you can imagine how "not in the mood" I am being that I constantly want to throw up!!!
My poor, wonderful DH said to me he would wait 9 months if he had to!!! What a trooper!
I am just waiting for an opportune moment when we are both home and I don't want to vomit!!!
Sorry if TMI!!!
im almost 10 wks and havent been nauseous once...whats my excuse???
umm afraid???? thats my excuse
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Posted 1/21/07 6:21 PM |
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Jillybean28
LIF Adult

Member since 1/06 1018 total posts
Name: Jill
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Re: S E X?
I can't, not allowed. We found out I was pregnant at two weeks and was told to refain ever since (high risk with bleeding , bedrest etc.) I feel really bad for my hubby, but thankful I am in no mood anyway so it hasn't been that much of a hardship for me.
If you can, you sould, if your in the mood. Good luck and have fun for me!
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Posted 1/21/07 6:43 PM |
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